Vana vakatokura, vazukuru vari kukura ... Zuva rimwe nerimwe kakawanda uye kazhinji kacho musoro unoshanyira nemafungiro akaipa iwe iwe munzira yako usati wawana mweya mate. Asi kuti utange hupenyu nehutsvene hwakachena hausi kurega! Iwe unongoda kuteerera mamwe mazano uye uchinje hupenyu hwako.
Iwe unotarisira kugamuchira chii?
- kudzivirirwa;
- kutsigirwa uye mukana wokugovera pfungwa dzako, manzwiro;
- trust;
- kuwirirana, kuzadziswa kwechido chokurarama munhu ane ruzha;
- kunzwisisa nehafu-shoko;
- kuremekedzana.
Sei usingagoni kuwana mumwe wako? Chii chinokumisa?
- Iwe wakarasikirwa ne "ucheche hwenhema," iwe, iwe unofunga kuti makore ako atova asina kunaka uye hazvibviri kuita zvinyanyisa uye zvinokurumidza kuita. Uye iwe unotora uye unoedza, kamwe-kamwe unofarira kudzidza mishonga yemagetsi mutsva kana kutoka neparachute.
- Zvichida, kuda mumwe munhu angave ari mumufaro, saka zvirwere zvinotambudzwa uye zvinotora simba rose raigona kuenda pakuvaka hukama hutsva. Zvechokwadi, kana iwe uchinzwa zvakaipa, haufaniri kufunga nezvorudo ... Zvichengete iwe: enda kunechiremba, iwe unenge wakazvipira mukuzvirapa kana iwe uchipfuura iwe pachako; tanga kudya zvakanaka uye ufambe zvakawanda.
- Enzanisa nezvose zvawakambosangana nazvo: nemunhu anodiwa, waimbova murume. Sezvo mutemo, vakadzi vari chirikadzi vanofunga nezvazvo. Mumwe akarasika akaroorana, uye iwe unotanga kufunga kuti hakuna munhu achazomboonana newe zviri nani, ukama hwakadaro huchadzokororwa. Usapfeka chikwata, zvirega ufare. Ndipei mukana. Uye zvinonyanya kukosha, funga pamusoro pezvinodiwa nemurume wako, kuitira kuti iwe urege kutambura, asi ramba uchirarama, uye kwete kungorarama, asi ufare.Bvumirana kuti ufare nezvimwe zviitiko zvishoma.
- Iwe wakanga uri woga kwemakore akawanda kudaro, kuti iwe wakangonyangarika muvana nevana vazukuru, iwe hauzive kuti ungazviita nenzira yakasiyana sei. Ichi ndicho chipingamupinyi chako muupenyu hunofadza. Iwe unofanirwa kuva nenzvimbo yako pachako, uye pasinei nokuti uri nemakore mangani uri makumi matatu kana makumi matanhatu. Hazvidi kuti iwe upedze nguva nevabereki vako masikati nousiku. Yeuka kuti mumakore mashanu kusvika gumi zvavanoda zvichatanga kuonekwa, shamwari uye ivo vachakupai nguva shoma. Uye iwe uchagara pachitsiko chakavhunika ...
- Iwe unoshandiswa kune imwe nguvo, imwe kudya, imba imwe uye masikati masikati, iwe "unongowanikwa" munguva. Yeuka, kuitira kuti hupenyu zvegrilanova mivara inoda kuita chimwe chinhu pachavo uye kuchinja, chaiko?
- Kuzvitsoropodza: shure kwezvose, tsika dzako uye tsika, iwe unongova wakwegura, kubvisa kukwezva uye zvepabonde. Izvi zvinoshanda kumurume, uye kune vhudzi, nekugara pabhenchi nembeu yezuva, uye nguva yekukurukurirana nguva dzose, nguva uye mumari ipi ichapiwa penheji.
Ngatimboongororai zvikonzero zvitatu zvinokosha zvekuti mukadzi mushure me50 anotsvaka kuroorwa. Mushure mezvose, muzita remashoko acho, kusimbiswa kukuru ndekwezera, chero zvingave zvichiti, zvose zvinoitwa zvakasiyana munguva ino. Nokuda kworudo rukuru, vanoroora pazera remakore 18-22, kuitira kuti varege kuonekwa semusikana wechidiki (kunyange kana iwe usisiri musikana kwenguva refu) mumakore 26-30. Vakadzi vane makore makumi matatu nemakumi matatu vanoedza kusvetuka muwanano kuti vabereke mwana-mukana wokupedzisira, asi mumakore makumi mashanu nei uchidaro?
Waroorana mushure memazana makumi mashanu ekuvandudza mamiriro ezvinhu
Munyika yatinogara, matanho ose ari mubhuku rebasa ane zvinyorwa zvishoma: "haasati ava makore makumi matatu", izvo zvinoreva kuti kana iwe uri makumi mana uye kunyanya zvekare makumi mashanu, zvino basa rinotumirwa, nokuti vashandi vanofunga kuti iwe watove wakwegura. Uye izvi zvinoitika, kunyange pasinei nokuti gore negore gore rekusununguka kwemukadzi rinowedzera uye rinovimbisa kuti richawedzera, asi kuti sei kuwana basa uye kurarama musati wambosara mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro hapana munhu anogona kutsanangura.Nechikonzero ichi mukadzi anofanira kunge ari panguva ino kuratidza mafungiro ose uye zvishamiso zvekufungidzira kuitira kuti vararame. Dzimwe nguva zviri nyore kuwana murume kune basa uye kumubvumira kuzvitarisira. Zvisinei, kuitira kuti uwane uye kuita kuti murume wako ave munhu akanaka, unofanira kunge uine utano hwakanaka, wakagadzirirwa zvakanaka, akachenjera, akanaka, uye anokosha zvikuru kuchenjera. Nemhaka yokuti iwe une makwikwi akasimba mumhando yevasikana vekare makumi matatu nemakumi matatu nemakumi mapfumbamwe vanofambisa mapoka evanhu pedyo nevarume vakadaro, kungoita basa uye kurarama pamari yavo.
Zvechokwadi, ichi ndicho basa rakaoma zvikuru - kuwana murume akazvimiririra akazvimiririra uyo achakupa iwe nevana vako. Iwe unofanirwa kugara uchicherechedza chimiro chiripo, chimiro, chigare chichigadzikana, usakanganise kunyunyuta nevanyori vechidiki uye mune zvose zvingaita kuti muve nemudzimai.
Nokudaro, kuitira kuti uwane murume mushure memakore makumi mashanu, haufaniri kunge uine zvepabonde, wakachenjera, unofadza, unosangana nemumwe wako kubva mubasa nemafungiro akanaka nekumwemwerera pamiromo yako, unofanira kunge wakakwana.
Asi kupi kwaungawana munhu akadaro? Sezvo mutemo, ivo "vanogara" muzvikwata zvakavharwa, mabiko ezvokudya, mazhenje avo kana zvikwata, vanobhadharwa mabheji emamwe mafashoni.
Waroorana pashure pe50, kwete kuti ugare uri woga
Ichi ndicho chikonzero chinowanzovhiringidza chekutsvaga murume panguva ino. Vana vakatokura uye vanogara vari voga, murume akaenda kune mumwe mukadzi, kana akafa, kune basa, uye hutano, uye mari, asi hapana chido chekuita - hapana chaunofanira kuita. Inomutsa pamwoyo, uye zvinotyisa, saka rimwe zuva pachitarisa nyaya dzinotevera maererano nerudo, iwe wakasarudza kuroora. Kana iwe uchifunga saizvozvo, ipapo munhu wose achaswedera kwauri, nokuti chinhu chikuru ndechekuti anofanira kunge aripo.Zedza kuzviwana iwe wechidiki uyo asati aine ruzivo rwakanyanya mumadzimai echikadzi kana zvimwewo, murume ane ruzivo rwakakura uyo, sekurota pamusoro peimba uye nyaradzo. Usatarisa varume vezera rako, nokuti vanenge vari vose vanoda zvepabonde nevasikana vaduku. Yeuka kuti chinhu chinonyanya kukosha kumurume ndechokuti adye zvinonaka uye kuti zvese zvaanenge achiita zvinozadziswa. Dzimwe nguva anozvipa zvipo zvinodhura uye anomhanya kunwa doro. Kana iwe uchida kuroora kana kungotiza kubva pakusurukirwa, iwe haufaniri kuita zvepabonde, njere nekunaka, unofanirwa kuva nemotokari yako, imba, bhangi yebhangi, kukwanisa kubika zvinonaka uye kuva neshuwo yakasimba yekuomesesa hupenyu hwako paunosarudza kuita murume.
Waroorana pashure pekuda 50 uye kudiwa
Zvechokwadi, izvi zvakaoma kutenda, uye ipapo vakadzi vazhinji shure kwe makumi mana vakakanda pfungwa dzose dzinogona kuwira zvechokwadi murudo, uye pamwe. Mukuru, mukadzi uyu, iye ane ruzivo uye ruzivo, uye kana mushure memakore makumi mana akagara ari oga, zvino zvakaitika izvi zvinosuruvarisa.Kushanduka, misangano, kutengesa, kupatsanurana, kurasikirwa kunodzidzisa kwete chete kutarisa nyika zvakasiyana, asiwo kubukama nevarume. Uyezve, pakutanga iwe ungave wakafunga kuti iwe unoda muchinda bhiza jena, asi ikozvino iwe unonzwisisa kuti kunze kwake iwe unogona kurarama norugare. Mumakore mashoma kuda munhu zviri nyore, nokuti hatidi kuti munhu ave wepanyama, uye mumakore ose anotanga kuvhiringidza zvinhu zvakawanda. Mukadzi anotanga kuwira murudo, uye zvino anofunga. Uye mushure mekunge 50 mukadzi anotanga kufunga, anorema zvose zvakanaka, obva azvibvumira kuti aite murudo.
Yeuka kuti makore ose anozviisa pasi pakuda. Zvibvumira kuti urarame zvechokwadi. Tarisa mufirimu "Moscow haatendi mumisodzi," nokuti ikoko chete muine heroine ane makore makumi mana akawira mukuda kwechokwadi. Hongu, iwe uchati iyi ndiyo firimu, asi iwe haungatendi zvishamiso, hazvizoitiki kwauri.
Usatarisa pazera rako, rangarira kuti munyaya iyi ndiyo inobatsira yako. Iwe mukuru iwe unova, ruzivo rwakawanda, kushivirira, uye uchenjeri iwe unahwo.
Ichokwadi here kuti uroorane mushure memakumi mashanu?
Zvinonzwisisika, zvakawanda zvinoenderana nekutarisa kwaunoita uye kuti une "maoko" endarama. Kana iwe uri mudzimai akanaka, uye mumakore ako iwe ne50 usapi, saka iwe une mikana yakawandisa.
Kana iwe usingazivi vanhu vane nhoroondo iyi, verengai paInternet, vakadzi vanoroora kana vasina vana chete, asiwo vazukuru. Kune dzakawanda maforamu uye nzvimbo dzakazara nenyaya. Kuroora pashure peku 50 ndeyechokwadi, chinhu chikuru hachisi chokurega uye kusaora mwoyo.