Vakaroora mushure memakore makumi matatu: kukanganisa
Nezera, denderedzwa yekutaurirana kwevanhu, mumatambudziko mazhinji, zvakanyanya kuderedzwa. Uye kana iwe usati wambova nzira inoshingaira yehupenyu, saka munguva ino, hazvigoneki kuti mumwe munhu achave aripo, kunze kwevasikana vashoma uye vashandi pamwe navo kubasa. Izvi zvinotungamirira ku chokwadi chokuti kuwana munhu anenge asarudzwa kune wawakaroorana naye kunowedzera zvakaoma, uye zviyeuchidzo nguva dzose kubva kune hama hazviregi kuti vazorore.
Kana iwe wakakwanisa kugadzirisa zvinetso zvakataurwa pamusoro apa, iwe ucharumbidzwa, hazvisi kubudirira kwevanhu vose. Zvinosuruvarisa, izvi hazvisi zvose, matambudziko ari kutanga, matambudziko ehupenyu huripo hwemhuri.
Kutanga pane zvose, ivo vanowanzobatana nemakore, zvinowedzera kuoma kuti vashandurane, nokuti munhu wose akajaira kurarama ari oga uye kure nekugara achinyatsoyananiswa nevamwe tsika dzevanhu uye kukanganisa. Uchakwanisa here kuvhara maziso ako kugumbura mhuri trivia?
Kuroorana pazera remakore makumi matatu zvinoreva kuti vana vaUvas vachazononoka. Izvi hazvirevi chete dambudziko rinorwadza rekukakavadzana kwezvizvarwa, asi zvakare kuti mukuru wemuviri wemukadzi, zvakanyanya kuoma kwaari kuti atakure uye abereke mwana. Nokuda kwechikonzero ichi, mutemo unofanira kutanga kuronga mushure mekuroorana.
Takaunza zvinhu zvakakosha zvakanyanya zvemuchato mushure memakore makumi matatu, zvino iwe unogona kufunga nezvayo zvakanaka.
Vakaroorana mushure memakore makumi matatu ekuberekwa: zvinobatsira
Pazera iri, sekutonga, vanhu vanoziva kare zvavanoda kubva muupenyu, uye kubva kumhuri, uye vanoroora nevose vane basa, vanoziva. Uyewo, kazhinji munhu anenge atoziva nzira yekuwana kukanganisa, rega kutarisa kukanganisa kwechidiki - izvi zvose zvingabatsira kuderedza nhamba yezvakakonzera kukakavara uye zvinokanganisa, uye, maererano naizvozvo, izvi zvinoreva kuti muchato uchave wakanyanya kusimba.
Zvakakosha zvakafanana nenyaya yenyaya yacho. Kana mumwe wako aine makore anopfuura makumi matatu, zvino angangove aine imwe nzvimbo mumharaunda, nzvimbo inogara, basa, motokari dzevanhu. Mukudaro, iwe unogona kuzvidzora uye uzvibvumira kuti unakidzwe noupenyu. Iwe haufaniri kutsvaka kubudirira mukuedza kuchengetedza ramangwana iwe pachako, unogona kugadzikana kubereka mwana uye kumudzidzisa. Uye kunyange kana chimwe chakaipa chikaitika, iwe haufaniri kutanga kubva pakutanga.
Vamwe vakadzi vanofunga kuti iyo inobatsira iyo mumatambudziko mazhinji kune imwe nguva yakatarwa, murume wacho "atofamba", uyewo ion pachayo. Zvose dutu remanzwiro nemanzwiro apfuura uye ikozvino iwe neshamwari yako makagadzirira ukama hwemhuri. Iwe hausisiri iwe, kana iwe murume wako haazogadziri iwe chete nokuda kwekunyengedzera kunokonzera.
Kazhinji kacho mumhuri yakadai, hukama hwepabonde hunoitwa zvakakwana. Mumwe nomumwe wavo anotova nehuwandu hwechiitiko uye ruzivo, izvo zvinoita kuti iwe ufare, saka iwe unogona kuzviunza kune mumwe wako. Zvechokwadi, munhu haagoni kutaura nechivimbo chakakwana kuti hukama hukama hwepedyo huchagutsa zvakakwana munhu wese, asi mukana wacho wakanyanya kwazvo.
Nokudaro, kuroorana mushure memakumi matatu kune zvakakosha zvakakosha - iwe unotova nehumwe hunobudirira hwemabasa, humwe hukama hwehutano, iwe unofara muwanano uye unogona kuva amai vakakurumbira.
Dzimwe nhamba
Maererano nedhesi rakapiwa neEuropean Social Survey rakaitwa muna 2006, zvikamu gumi kubva muzana zvevakadzi vechiRussia vari pakati pemakore makumi matatu nemakumi mana vakange vasina kuroorwa kamwe chete, asi nezera remakore makumi mashanu nhamba yavo yawa kusvika kuzana, izvo zvinoreva kuti vamwe vakadzi Zvichava zvakaoma kusarudza pamusoro pechinhu ichi chinokosha uye chinokosha.