Kuchinja kana kugamuchira munhu sezvaari?

Mukuyaruka, vanhu vazhinji vanotenda kuti vanogona kuchinja munhu akasiyana zvachose. Asi, tsika inoratidza kuti hazvisi nyore. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinotaura kuti hazvibviri kuchinja munhu kune mafungiro avo mazhinji uye zvishuvo.

Vanhu vazhinji vanoziva mazwi - rudo ipofu, ndicho chikonzero munhu kazhinji anozvibatirira mumanzwiro ake akajeka nemusoro wake, asi iye haazvioni pane zvose kuti munhu anonzwira tsitsi ndiye antipode yake. Rudo runokwanisa zvikuru, runokwanisa kuita zvishamiso, asi kwete kusvika pamwero wakadaro. Usatora semuenzaniso mamiriro ezvinhu akafanana, izvo zvingave zvakanaka kukura mune umwe munhu weshamwari dzako. Hapana achakupa chivimbo chokuti hukama hwemunguva yemberi huchava hwakanaka.

Zviudze iwe munguva "simira" uye funga kana iwe uchida kupinda muukama hwakakomba nemumwe waunoda kumutsa. Zvingangodaro, hukama hwakadaro nenguva hunowedzera. Ukama hwakabatana ndihwo hukama husingadi kutendeuka kwechimiro kubva kumukadzi kana murume, zvinowira pachavo. Mushure mezvose, kune musiyano kana pane kukurumidza kubva kune vavariro dzako dzomukati, uye chimwe chinhu chimwe chinhu apo iwe unomanikidzwa kuita chimwe chinhu.

Chido chekuchinja sarudzo yako neimwe nzira inobata zvakananga chero nyaya ipi zvayo. Ngatitendei, tinorota nemumwe munhu akanaka, uye chimiro chevabereki vedu chinochengetwa pane imwe nzvimbo mukusaziva kwevana vedu. Chero ani zvake wedu achange akasununguka nemunhu ari pedyo naye watinenge akasununguka kuita mamwe mabasa edu anowanzoitwa, kuti tinzwe manzwiro edu, ndicho chikonzero sarudzo yedu inowanzowira pamuenzaniso wekuita kwevanhu vakuru vatinoziva kubva paudiki. Kana iwe uchitanga kuchinja kwenyika yose, kunyange kana kuchibudirira pakutanga, sechikonzero unogona kunyanya kuora mwoyo uye kurasikirwa nezvose zvinodiwa kune wako, nokuti chimwe chinhu chinodiwa mukati maro chichapera. Nokudaro, kuguma ndeimwe - kunyatsoshanda iwe pachako.

Kugunun'una - chinhu, chokwadi, hachisi chakaipa, asi chinangwa chekuita kwevanhu, kwete paiye pachake, kana hupenyu hwake. Bvumirana, usaparadzira zvinhu, pose paunogona kuidzidza zviri nyore kupfuura, kureva, kubva pakunyarara kuti uchinje munhu kuva munhu anonakidza uye anonzwisisana nevamwe. Zvose zvinangwa zvemunhu zvinofanira kudzidziswa kuonga, kunyange kana vasingadi iwe zvachose. Mhedziso yakadaro semunhu wega yega nzvimbo inongodikanwa kwatiri, zvisinei kana munhu achangobva kuputsa nguva.

Zviri nyore kuti chero ani zvake wedu anetseke pamusoro pemudiwa wedu. Iyi nzvimbo yakanaka - hapana chikonzero chekuchinja maitiro ako. Vakadzi vakawanda vanowanzogutsikana nekuti varume vavo vanodikanwa havadi kuita chero chinhu chiri pedo neimba, asi kana murume achangopinda, anoti, nyundo, vanomubvuta pakarepo pamaoko ake uye vanopomerwa kuti havana kukwanisa. Zvichida, mumoyo mangu, vazhinji vedu hatidi kuti mumwe wake achinje zvakanyanya: isu tinongotya kurasikirwa nesimba redu pamusoro pake. Basa rinonyanya kufanirwa remutsoropodzi - uyu muenzaniso wekuita unobatsira, nokuti unogona kugara uchiwana chikonzero chekusagutsikana.

Heano maitiro emishonga yemumwe wevadzidzi - iyi ndeyeimwe nyaya. Semuenzaniso, kudhakwa kana kungoita zvekunyengedzera kunotyisa nemitambo yakasiyana-siyana yemakombiyuta zvinogona kuparadza kunyange hukama hwakasimba. Asi usaedza kugadzirisa dambudziko racho, nerubatsiro rwemashoko. Zviri nani kuedza kuratidza mumwe wako kuti mararamiro ake anotya uye anokuvhiringidza, saka iwe unogona kuedza kumutsa maari kufarira mune chero basa, paanenge achigadzirisa hupenyu hwake.

Munhu wose anofanira kuona zvigumisiro uye kunzwisisa zvinorehwa nebasa rakaitwa pachavo. Hatigoni kuvhara mudiwa wedu munhare yegoridhe yemafungiro edu. Mukati wekukura kumunhu mumunhu kunowanikwa nenzira yake pachayo purogiramu chaiyo. Kubatsira munyaya iyi kunogona simba rerudo, iro rinokwanisa nekufamba kwenguva, nekushingaira kushandura kuti huve nani hupenyu hwevadikani vaviri.