Ndeupi hutano hwemagariro evanhu-hwepfungwa dzemhuri dzine mari shoma dzinotenderera? Ndeipi chimiro chayo, unhu hwakasiyana-siyana, chii chiri musiyano pakati pemhuri shoma ine mari, uye kushayikwa kwezvinhu zvakagadzirisa sei munhu nemhuri yake? Kuti zvipindure mibvunzo iyi, zvakawanda zvekuedza uye kutsvakurudza kwakaitwa, maitiro akasiyana-siyana emagariro evanhu vamiriri vemhuri yakadai vaifungidzirwa. Iye zvino tine zvinyorwa zvakawanda, deta, zvinyorwa uye zvinyorwa, tinogona kunyatsogadzira mapiritsi emhuri dzakadai, dzidzai zvavanoita.
Kutanga, ngationei zvinokonzera kusafara mumhuri. Inogona kuvanzwisisa sechimbichimbi, nekuda kwezvimwe zvikonzero zvomunhu oga, mamiriro asingatarisirwi, kana kuti kusimuka nguva dzose, izvo zvinowanzoitika. Zvinhu zvakachengeteka zvinoenderana nekubhadharwa kweimwe mhando yebasa, iro munhu wacho ari kuita, maitiro ake pakuvaka basa, kukwanisa kuwedzera zvinangwa zvake, kuisa pfungwa pavari uye kufambira mberi. Nzira iyo munhu anosimudzira nayo basa iri inotarisawo pane zvaanonyanya kukoshesa, simba revanhu uye zvisikwa izvo munhu aripo. Isu tinogona kufungidzira uye kutora zvimwe zvakafanana, kuti tinzwisise zvakataurwa pamusoro apa: munhu hapana mubvunzo anokonzerwa neshamwari dzake, vashandi pamwe naye, uye pamusoro pezvose, nemhuri yake, vabereki vake. Kana vasina kukwanisa uye vakakurudzira kune rumwe rutivi rurefu, rakatendeseka, basa risiri kubhadhara, saka pane mikana yakakosha yokuti mwana anowana maitiro akafanana, uye hupenyu hwake huri mberi uye basa rake richabudirira "maererano neurongwa" hwevabereki vake.
Tichifunga nezvezvikonzero zvepabonde, zvakakoshawo kuziva kuti nheyo yemamiriro ezvinhu inonyanya kuenderana nemamiriro ezvinhu munyika, maitiro ayo, maitiro ayo anopa vagari varo.
Nhamba yekusashanda inoonekwa zvakare inokosha. Hazvishamisi vadzidzi vaduku, kusarudza basa remangwana, kutanga kwezvose, vanotungamirirwa nechibvumirano chekushaiwa basa. Izvo zvose izvi zvinokonzerwa nekutya kwenyika uye zvehupfumi, nokuti kune chikonzero chekutenda kuti kusashaya basa munyika yedu kuchazogadziriswa.
Urombo hwakakosha ndeye urombo. Kana iyo mari iri pasi pacho, mhuri inonzi inoshaya. Mari yehupenyu inosanganisira mari yezvinhu zvinokosha zvezvokudya, zvakakosha kuti urambe uine hutano, pamwe chete nemari yezvishandiso uye mari. Kubva pane izvi tinoona kuti mhuri dzine urombo dzinogara dziri kutungamirirwa nekugutsikana kwezvinodiwa zvavo, mukutsvaga kwavo nzira yekudyisa mhuri dzavo, kudzidzisa vana vavo, kutenga zvimwe mbatya, kubhadhara chiedza, mvura uye gasi ... Izvi zvinomutsa zvinetso zvakawanda uye pachedu character.
Chokutanga, munhu anobva kumhuri yakadzika-pfuma anodziparadzanisa nevamwe vose vevanhu, nyika yakamupoteredza. Zvose izvi zviri mukuenzanisa nezvinetso zvevarombo uye vakanaka, avo vari kunze. Nhengo dzemhuri dzakapfuma-pfuma dzinozvitsaura pachavo kubva kune vamwe, uye hazviwanzobatana navo. Izvi zvinotungamirira muzviitiko zvakawanda kune unhu hunyoro we autism, uye kunyanya kakawanda kusvika pakuzvininipisa, izvo zvinokanganisawo nzira iyo munhu anorwisana nemamiriro ake ezvinhu.
Chechipiri, mubereki akapinda mumatambudziko ehupenyu hwekunyama ari kuramba achiparadzaniswa nevana vake. Chido chake chokukunda matambudziko nematambudziko kuburikidza neavo pachake zvinotungamirira kune chokwadi chokuti mubereki nenzira imwe neimwe inodzivirira mhuri uye kurera kwevana vake. Ivo, ivowo, vanotambura nokushaiwa hanya, rudo, rudo uye kutarisirwa. Vanotanga kunzwa vakasiyiwa, zvisina kufanira, uye kuziva kuti havagone kubatsira, kunoita kuti mamiriro avo awedzere kusuruvara. Chinhu chinonakidza ndechokuti vabereki vekare havana kubvumira vana vavo kuti vashande, vachivakurudzira kuti vadzidze, uye vachifunga kuti kugamuchira ibasa ravo chete. Asi nekufamba kwenguva, uye kunyange zvakadaro munyika yanhasi, vechidiki vanowedzera kuwana mari yavo, uye vabereki vanongokurudzira kuti vadaro.
Chimwe chezvinhu zvinokosha zvemhuri yakaderera mari inenge iri chido chekupa mhosva vamwe nekuda kwematambudziko avo. Vanoda kuita sevapomeri mune mamiriro ekutsamwa nekuramba nyika yakapoteredza. Uyezve, avo vakatoedza kuchinja mamiriro avo, asi vakakundikana muzvirongwa zvavo, vanotya kwazvo kuzviisa pachena kune ngozi. Kubva pachinzvimbo chavo, chakareruka chisarudzo chekusaziva uye kubvuma nzvimbo dzekuramba nyika yakapoteredza. Mhuri dzakadaro dzinorwisana nenzira yavo pachavo nezvinetso.
Chimwe chinhu chinokosha ndechokushaiwa kwekutanga, kusagutsikana, kusakwanisa kuisa vavariro uye kuvabatsira. Kazhinji chinangwa chisina simba chekuzvibata chinoshanda, vanhu vakadaro vachaita zviri nani mukugadza kwavo uye vanowana penny, kupfuura kutsvaga mitsva inowanikwa mumusika uye kutora njodzi, iyo yavanotya.
Izvi zvinotevera kuti hutano hwehupfumi hwemagariro evanhu hwemhuri dzakapedzisira huri pasi. Vanhu vakadaro vanoita basa risina basa mune zvose. Yeuka kuti mafungiro ekusava nehanya nebasa, vana vanotungamirira mukusava nehanya muupenyu. Dzimwe nguva zvakakodzera kufungisisa uye kurongedza zvirongwa zvezviito zvako, kutungamirira kushatirwa kwako kwete kumarudzi akakomberedza, kuzviito, kuitira kuti mhuri yako ive nani zviri nani.