Mukuyaruka, kana nguva yasvika yekutanga rudo, varume nevasikana vaduku vanowana kamwechete kuti vane pfungwa yakasiyana kwazvo yekuti vanoda vanoda kupedza nguva yavo sei. Murume wechidiki anoziva kuti basa ravo guru nderokusimbisa hupenyu hwehukama nokukurumidza sezvinobvira uye kazhinji sezvinobvira kuti tifare mune zvinofadza zvepabonde. Musikana anofunga kuti chinhu chakanakisisa mukudzokorora chinofamba pasi pemwedzi, kukurukurirana kwenguva refu pafoni uye kutsvoda kutsvoda. Pasinei nerudo rwechokwadi kune gamba rake, haasi zvachose, sezvavanotaura, "enda mberi." Izvi zvinokonzerwa nekuti chido chekuita zvepabonde mumunhu wemunhu chinosangana nehomoni tesone. Iyo inobudiswa zvose mumadzimai uye mumuviri wemurume, asi mari yacho inobva muzera remunhu. Kune vechidiki vane makore gumi nemakore makumi maviri nemazana makumi mana nemana makumi maviri nemakore makumi maviri nemakumi maviri emakore ekupedzisira kwemhepo inopisa simba, iri musimba ravanogara vachifunga nezvepabonde. Uye kazhinji havana hanya nehuhu hwahwo, chinhu chikuru ndicho chokwadi chairo.
Uye mumudzimai wechikadzi panguva ino, kugadzirwa kwe testosterone hakusi kukuru uye kunokura zvishoma nezvishoma, saka hutano hunozununguka, uye musikana wechidiki anowanzobvumirana nezvehupombwe, kungobvuma zvido zvemudiwa, uye haagari nguva dzose kugutsikana kubva pabonde.
Pakazosvika makore makumi maviri nemashanu, mutumbi wechirume unowanzosvika pakuronga kwehomoni, iyo yakabatwa kwemakore gumi. Musikana uyu nguva ino inoenderera mberi kuwedzera kubudiswa kwe testosterone uye kuumbwa kwepabonde. Saka pazera remakore 28-32 muhukama hwehutano hwehutano hwehutano hunosimbiswa, nokuti panguva iyoyo mukadzi wepamusoro we testosterone uye mukomana ari kuburuka mutsara anodzingwa. Mumwe murume akapona nguva yemhepo yemhepo yakamumanikidza kutsvaga maitiro matsva uye kunzwa kunowedzera kugadzikana uye kudzivirirwa, anogadzirirwa ukama hurefu nemumwe wako. Musikana anosimudza manzwiro evanhu, uye anotanga kufara pabonde - anenge 20 muzana wehutano hwakanaka kunze kwekunge 30 atanga kuve nemaronda.
Mune ramangwana, mitsetse ye "testosterone cross" inoparadzanisa, nokuti mushure makore makumi matatu nemakumi matatu nemasere apera, hutachiona hunokonzerwa ne testosterone hunowira zvishoma nezvishoma ne1% pagore (zvimwe zviitiko zvinogona kukurumidza kuita izvi, somuenzaniso, nekuwedzerwa, "kuderera" kunogona kusvika 10%). Muhupenyu hwemurume, zvepabonde zvinorega kutamba basa rakakosha sepakutanga. Munguva iyi, vasikana vose kumativi ose: nguva yose iyi kukura kwe testosterone mumudzimai wechikadzi kuri kuwedzera uye kunosvika pakukwirira kwayo nezera remakore makumi mana. Kuita zvepabonde kunotarisirwa kwaari, asi vezera rake havakwanisi kudiwa kwakadaro, iyo, saiye pacheche hwake, iko zvino inoda huni panzvimbo pane zvakaitika zvakashata.
Uye mutumbi wemusikana panguva ino unogadzirira zvishoma nezvishoma kuti "pfutire" mabheni, nokuti mamiriro ekunze haasi kure. Ichokwadi, zvisati zvaitika kubuda kwehomoni, iyo yakagadzirisawo shoko rokuti "muna 45 baba berry zvakare." Chimwe chinhu chakafanana chinogona kuitika kuvanhu, saka vane "vhudzi rakachena mumbevu, dhiyabhorosi mundiro." Panguva ino, michato yakasimba inowanzoparara uye yakasiyana-yemakore vakaroorana vanoberekwa. Uye, kudai murume wacho akanga akwegura kupfuura mudzimai wake, munguva pfupi yapfuura pane tsika yekuonekwa kwevanhu vakaroorana, umo mukadzi wacho akakura kudarika mudzimai wake, muEurope nhamba yemhuri yakadaro inenge 9%.
Muhupenyu hunotevera hwepabonde hwevanhu mumakore achangopfuura, zvakare, pane kuchinja. Kana zvisati zvambofungidzirwa kuti nezera, hukama hwomunhu hwomunhu hunofanira kunge husina maturo, asi zvino maonero akachinja. Nhasi inofungidzirwa kuti nguva refu munhu achaita zvepabonde, zviri nani. Uye nhamba yevanhu avo, pasinei nemakore ekurasikirwa, vanoramba vachifarira kufara kwakakomba, kuri kuramba vachikura, vanopfuura hafu yevarume mumakumi matanhatu ndevayo (makore gumi nemashanu akapfuura vakanga vari hafu yevakawanda). Uye vanachiremba vanozvigamuchira zvakasimba, nokuti zvatove zvichiratidzwa kuti nzira dzekukwegura "kutya" zvepabonde, uye avo vasingarambi ivo pachavo, vanotanga kuzere gare gare.