"M-hongu, mune chii chinogona kuratidzirwa kusununguka kwevakadzi? Chii chaunogona kunyora munyaya ino nezvekusununguka kwevakadzi? Ngatitange kufarira kufungidzira "
Mipata yeAmerica neBritain yakatsvaga ndisati ndaona mupfungwa dzangu, maketani nemapapiro pamakumbo madema, vashandi vari mutsvuku mutsvuku, musi waMarch 8 uye nechimwe chikonzero Angela Davis.
"Br-rr, masangano anoshungurudzika zvakajeka, zvakare, mushure mokunge shoko rokuti "kadzi" pakarepo nesangano rinomirira shoko rokuti "logic". Uye pamusoro pake iye zvino zvinhu zvose, marwadzo, zvakanyorwa "Ndinosvimha misodzi ndiri pasi pomweya wangu, ndichigunzva pachigaro chakaoma chetami. Uyezve, zvichida, maererano neshoko iri rakakurumbira zvikuru revakadzi, mukupindura kugunun'una kwangu, mukadzi akwegura ane parafura yakawanda, mune chimwe chinhu chakakanganiswa, chakashandurwa kwandiri, chakataura chipiri chechipiri:
"Imi muri vaduku, hamuna chavanoziva pamusoro pekusununguka kwevakadzi. Iwe unenge uine muswe uchisimudza uye uchinge uchingobata kusvikira usiku. Imwe Evon, dumpling ine utano inotasva, inotyaira nemotokari, uye kunyange yekupedzisira haigoni kushanda pabhanhire. Izvo zvose pamusoro pekuedza kuvhunduka kubva kuna amai kana baba, kana kuti kuwana swavo kubva kune varimi. Uye pafoni pachake nokuda kwemadhora ane chiuru, uye imbwa ine mari yakawanda kupfuura vanhu. Pano munguva yedu, vasikana vacho vaizvininipisa, vakashanda vachiri vaduku, kupfeka kwakanaka pane purogiramu kubva kune mumwe, vakatora, kungoita kuti uve mutoro kuvabereki. Ndakashanda mumigodhi semuchenzi wemwenje kubva pazera remakore gumi nemitanhatu, ndakashanda muimba yeimba, iyo mukadzi akaroorwa akambogara. Dzimwe nguva, kunyange muchitarisana, yakaburuka, zvinodarika maviri emidziyo yezvigadzirwa hazvina kupfekedzwa kupfuura zvakashata. "
"Saka, pane zvaunofunga," Ndakabvunza, zvishoma nezvishoma zvakasvibiswa nemafungiro akanaka kudaro, "kusununguka kwevakadzi kunozviratidza mukana wekuzvipa mari here?"
"Uye zvino sei. Kushanda, kwete zvakanyanya kudarika varimi, uye dzimwe nguva kunyange kupfuura. Kuti awane zvakawanda, kuti vana nemurume vakange vakwana. Kuzvimirira, hakuna munhu anokumbira mari. Kuzvikudza kunofanira kuva, kuzvikudza. "
"Nezvebasa ndinobvumirana newe pane imwe nzvimbo" kamwe kamwe mukadzi ari mumakore makumi mana, ane mhedziso shoma, yakatsvuka, akapinda muhurukuro yepakati pamaketeni emakero, "asi pamusoro pekudyisa murume ane chirwere chepachimara, ndokubva warega. Ndakarambana zvachose nokuti uyu asingazivi uye imba haina kurova munwe pamunwe wangu, ndokusiya basa rangu. Kwemazuva akazara haana kugovana neshamwari yake-yakasungwa-ine maronda mana, akabatwa nehope uye akamuka neTV kurega kwekutonga ... "Mukadzi akachena akanamatira chiso chake nekunyangadza.
"Uye nokuda kwako, chii chinoreva kusununguka kwevakadzi?" Ndakakurumidza kuisa, kuedza kubvisa kukurukurirana kubva kune vanhu vane usimbe, zvirwere, zvirwere uye vamwe varume vakaita savo.
"Ndinofunga zvakajeka," akapindura mutsindo wakaomesera nemaziso, "Ini, somuenzaniso, ndave ndichirera mwanasikana wangu kwemakore gumi nemaviri ndiri ndoga, ini ndichimupa iye neni. Kuzvimiririra kumudzimai kunofanira kuratidzwa kuitira kuti uite kunze kwevanhu, paanova asina maturo, sutukase isina mubati "
"Ndinoona. Ndinokutendai zvikuru! "Ndakapedzisa hurukuro uye, ndichikwira zvishoma kune vanovhiringidzika, ndakasvetuka kubva kumahombekombe ...
"Amai, munofunga here?" Ndakabvunza, ndichizendamira pamusuo wemukova wekicheni, "kuva mukadzi akazvimiririra zvinoreva kuva munhu asingakoshi, kuva nekodzero imwe chete nemurume kana kuti kukwanisa kurarama pasina murume zvachose?"
"Zvakanaka, zvose zvawataura ndiyo tsanangudzo yakajeka yeyi pfungwa." Amai vakanyemwerera, vakamira pachitofu, "Kuti uve mukadzi iwe haufaniri kunge uri munhu anopesana nemurume uye kwete munhu asingazivi, iwe unotofanira kuva iwe, kwete mumwe munhu. Zvakadini kumukadzi zvachose akaenzana kodzero nemurume, mushure mezvose kana iwe uchida kodzero dzakakwana unogamuchirawo zvakaenzana mabasa - somuenzaniso, kushanda muuto kana kuti uri muhondo. Murume nemukadzi vakasikwa zvakasiyana, havadi kuti vazvienzane pamwe chete kuti vavepo maererano. Kuzvimiririra, vose vakadzi nevarume, kune rusununguko rwokusununguka kuitira kuti urarame sezvaunoda. Rusununguko rwokusarudza kuchinja nyika yakapoteredza iwe pachako kana uchida. Kuda kwenyu, izvo Mwari akasika zvakasununguka semhepo. Iye zvino ndibatsirei kuti ndigadzire tafura, kana kuti papa papa achauya nokukurumidza. "