Nzira dzekunyengera dzevanhu dzakasiyana uye hadzisi dzepasi pedu, vakadzi. Chero jaya iro rinomira uye rinozvivimba rinogona nyore nyore uye risina kugadzikana, uye rinonyanya kukosha, munguva pfupi (kuti tinofanira kuziva kuti sei?) Kuzviratidza isu semufananidzi akakodzera kuti tizadze mapoka edu evanoda. Zvakakosha kukurangarira kuti rudzi urwu rwemumiriri wehutano hwakasimba huchagara huchiita sezana zana, kana kunyange mazana maviri kubva muzana, uye nokuda kweizvi, zvinokwanisika kuti iye ndiye achava wekutanga kumire kubva kumhomho uye kutarisa meso ako pamunda. Iwe unogona kumusangana zvachose mune chero kambani, bar, cafe, nokuti chikamu chake ndechekusununguka uye panguva imwechete inoita kuti uzive. Dzimwe nguva, zvechokwadi, inogona kuva musangano usingatarisirwi mupaki kana kunyange pangomira. Chinhu chikuru ndechekuti aizonyatsoziva kuti hausi kukurumidza uye awa maminitsi mashanu, achapedza, achigamuchira mhinduro yakanaka, pane yako. Ngatitei, zvakananga, kune vanozivana navo. Muenzaniso wemamiriro ezvinhu: heino ivo vhiki yakamirira kwenguva yakareba uye iwe nemwanasikana wako-shamwari (uye neni), ndakasarudza kushanyira chimwe chezvinyorwa zvakanyorwa pamusoro apa uye kungozorodza mushure mekunyorova tsika. Uyezve, iwe wakamuona, chinoshamisa, chakanaka uye uye, pakutanga, murume akashinga uyo akacherechedza iwe. Iwe uchanzwa uchitarisa iwe pachako. Bvunza kupi uye nei? Wakambokanganwa kuti chii chinowanikwa mukadzi, iye zvirokwazvo haazokuregi. Zvichida iwe, usingazvioni zvachose, uchayambuka kazhinji pamwe naye nemeso, cherechedza kunyemwerera kwake kunonakidza, asi, kazhinji, hausati wambonyanya kukoshesa zvachose. Asi, iye, tenda ini, iwe kare kare kare wakacherechedza uye kunyange, zvakanyatsodzidza. Murume, nguva dzose achisarudza chinhu chakanzwira tsitsi-mukadzi, kwenguva refu uye pasina kukurumidza chero kupi zvako, anogona kumurinda, achitarisisa zvakanyanya maitiro ake, tsika uye zviratidzo. Uye kunyange kune zvaanoda kuronga kubva pane menyu. Kunyange zvakadaro, kumiririra nguva yakakodzera, iye achazofambisa kuenda munzira yako, achitora rumwe rudzi rwechigadziro: bhodhoro remaspagne, maruva kana cocktail. Asi iwe watova nekutanga, izvo tichazotumidza zita, iyo PR chaiyo yekupa kwake uye chivalry. Izvo zvakatorwa zvakananga. Saka, ane zvose, zvose, pane zvimwe, kwete, kwete zvishoma, asi maminitsi mashanu okufadza iwe, mukadzi wemwoyo wake. Ndezvipi mumaminitsi mashanu varume vangaita kuti vafadze vakadzi? Munguva ino, chevalier wako mutsva anofanira kusiya mafungiro akanaka ake, achiomerera kune zvinyorwa zvekutanga zvekuroorana. Uye izvi, pakutanga kwezvose, ndeyekuyeuka uye kwakasiyana-siyana mharidzo (ikozvino inogona kuve yakachengetedzwa zvakachengetedzeka), nekushandura kwakanyatsojeka, zvakananga, muhurukuro pachayo uye, pakupedzisira, kusimbisa ushamwari hwako nezviito zvinotevera uye zvikamu.
Panguva ye "miniti mashanu" kufambidzana nomunhu, anogona kutaura zvakasimba kuti anokuda iwe. Uye panguva imwechete, vose kuti vazviratidze ivo, mukubwinya kwayo kose, kufarira mukadzi wacho uye kumukwezva iye, kuti iye achangozvinzwa chete. Uye zvichida, kunyange, kudzorerwa zvakare. Kana asingakutauri, anogona kuita izvi nenzira dzose, kuburikidza nekubvunzurudza kwakasimba kune kero yako kana kuti nzira yekutsungirira yekukurukurirana. Asi, nenzira imwe kana imwe, anofanira kunyatsoomerera kune chinangwa chaakazvigadzirira. Ndakasarudza kukunda, saka regai zviite. Haazofanira kushandisa mari yakawanda sei paari, chimiro chake uye chido. Uye uchitenda ini, achaita izvi zvose, kuti azviratidze zvakare kuti iye, chaizvoizvo, kubudirira kwevakadzi vemwoyo ndicho chirevo chikuru chevanhu vose. Uye, pane zvaro, murume wacho uye anotora danho rokutanga kuti azive.
Kuti akukunde iwe mumaminitsi mashanu, murume anofanira kuita zvakanaka kwazvo. Kuti uite izvi, anogona kutarisa kwauri nekutarira rudo, achiedza kutaura nyaya dzakasiyana-siyana uye nenyaya pamusoro pake pachake, achisimbisa chiremerera chake nekubudirira kwake muupenyu, uyewo kuratidza kubuda kwake. Kana iye asina kunaka, uye achiziva nezvazvo, ipapo kukurukurirana kwakanyatsogadzirwa newe kuchava kadhi yake yehwamanda. Uyewo, acharatidza manzwiro ake ekusekorora pakakwirira kwayo, nokuti munhu wese anoziva kuti tinokoshesa sei chinhu ichi mavari. Mune shoko, mumaminitsi mashanu murume haafaniri kungozviratidza chete, asi zvakare anoratidza kwauri kutanga kwake, masculinity uye munhu oga. Kuti iwe, zvakananga, wakagutsikana neizvi, pasina kudonha kuduku kwekusahadzika uye haana kudzokera kune uchapupu huno zvakare. Icho chiri muzvinhu izvi zvinokosha, tinoona kuoneka kwemuyo muvakidzani mune grooms. Saka, kana iwe ukacherechedza munguva ino kuti ainyatsokwanisa kuzviratidza pachake, akanga asinganyengeri uye panguva imwe chete, nekusingaperi, uye nekurera, uye zvakakosha, iwe wakanzwa uri pedyo naye zvakachengeteka uye zvakanyatsonaka. Saka, shure kwezvose, akakwanisa mumaminitsi mashanu, kufanana newe.
Mhinduro kumubvunzo: "Mukomana anofanira kuitei mumaminitsi mashomanana kufadza musikana akaibata" yakasiyana kwazvo, asi pane imwe chinhu chinokosha. Yeuka kuti kana mukomana aigona kutaura nezvake zvose zvaidiwa kwaari mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, kupa unhu hwake hwakanaka munguva pfupi pasina kushandisa nyaya dzakazara uye nheyo dzinogona kupedza manheru ose, ndiye chaiye murume. Uye, dzimwe nguva, kuti zvingava zvakakwana kwemaminitsi mashanu chete kuti anzwisisane zvakanaka.