Funga nezvemazano asina maturo evakadzi, mumaonero evanhu, kwete kuunza zvakakosha zvinogadziriswa, kureva, kuisa chikumbiro kuhofisi ye registry.
Saka, iwe wakareba zvakakwana, mumaonero ako, kusangana nemurume uye wakagadzirira kupindura: "Hongu!" Mukupa kwake maoko nemoyo. Asi anozeza.Iwe unosarudza pane danho rakashata. Iwe uri kunyengera kuti uri kutarisira mwana kubva kwaari, achitarisira kubata pamuviri nokukurumidza kana zvichidiwa. Kazhinji, iwe uchapiwa mari yekubvisa pamuviri. Zvinenge zvakatoipisisa kana wako akasarudzwa achienda newe kuti uone gynecologist. Nezvimwe zvivimbo mune ramangwana, kutaura hakugoni kubuda. Uye zvino fungidzira kuti murume akatenda mukuzvitora kwako, akapiwa kuroorwa, asi mwana haapo. Muchato wawakarota nawo uchawa mumwedzi inotevera.
Imwe nzira ndeyekufarira munhu ane upfumi husipo. Taura chimwe chinhu chakadai: "Babamukuru vangu vakapfuma kwazvo, uye anondida zvikuru." Murume akangwara achakurumidza kuva nemubvunzo pamusoro pokuti nei babamunini vari kuratidzira rudo rwake iye zvino. Mune murume we mercantile, mubvunzo uyu uchaonekwa pachato, apo babamunini vasati vauya uye vanotumira cheki cheko mari yakawanda. Kana murume akaroora iwe nemari, maitiro ako asina maturo haagoni kumudzivisa mukuda kurambana zuva raitevera.
Nzira yechitatu ndeyokuedza uye kuzvifananidzira kuti iwe uri mukadzi wausina. Semuenzaniso, munhu akanaka chaizvo. Kunyange kana iwe ukakoka murume kuti ashanyire, nguva dzose paunorayira kudya muresitorendi, rimwe zuva iwe uchiri kuzvibika. Kana iwe ukasarudza kuzviratidza iwe somunhu anonzwisisa, iwe unopedzisira uchinetseka. Murume anogona kutorwa nemumwe mukadzi, akazarurirwa kukurukurirana. Usazvifananidza kuva chinhu chinotyisa. Maererano nevarume, vakadzi vakadaro havakwanisi kukwanisa hupenyu hwemhuri.
Chechina ndechokuti uedze kutamba nemamwe varume, achitarisira kumutsa godo remuwani wako. Kutanga, iwe unomuisa mumamiriro ezvinhu anonyadzisa. Anofanirwa kutsanangurira maitiro ake kune shamwari dzake. Ichokwadi, haagoni kutaura chero chinhu chakanaka. Chechipiri, unogona kutsamwisa murume wako kuita zvisakakwana. Muchiitiko ichi, iwe unogona kutambura kwetewo murombo iyeye wawakasarudza kutamba naye, asi iwe. Haisi chakavanzika kune ani zvake akanyarara vadzidzi dzimwe nguva vanova rudzi rwekutsamwa.
Chechishanu chisarudzo ndechokunyaradza murume. Iwe uchamuudza kwenguva yakareba pamusoro pezvakanaka zvake, kazhinji zvisipo hazvipo, asi iye achatenda. Uye ita chipiro kune mumwe mukadzi. Iyo iyo, mumaonero ake, yakanyatsokodzera kwaari, murume akaisvonaka zvakadaro mune zvose.
Chisarudzo chechitanhatu - kuronga iye nguva dzose nekunyengedza zvitsva mumubhedha. Uchagara kwenguva yakareba sei? Upenyu hwemhuri, sekutonga, hunotora nguva yakawanda uye nguva, uye murume wako acharamba achitarisira chimwe chinhu chinoshamisa kubva kwauri. Koshesa mikana yako.
Izvo zvose izvi hazvina maturo, maererano nevanhu, mazano ane chimwe chinhu chakakosha. Kazhinji, varume havanzwisisi kuti nei uri kuita zvinhu zvakadaro. Iwe uri kutaura pamusoro pekudzivirira mungozi - anofunga kuti unoda mari. Iwe unozvirumbidza pamusoro pehama yako yakapfuma - murume anotya kuti mari yake haigoni kukubvumira kuti upe hupenyu hwepamusoro hwekugara huri iwe. Iwe unoratidzira huwandu humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe hunoita humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe hunoita humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe hunofadza. Chigumisiro chimwe chete - matanho ako haazotungamiri pakuzadzika kwechido chakakosha.
Nzira dzisina maturo dzevakadzi, maererano nevarume, unogona kungoita kuti ucherechedze kwenguva pfupi kana, pakuipa, kuburitsa hasha dzomunhu.
Pane nzira yekubuda nayo: kana munhu asingaiti chirevo kwenguva yakareba, funga kana achikuda iwe. Uye shandura kune uyo waunofarira.