Iwe unofanirwa kufungisisa zvidimbu zvehafu yako yechipiri. Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha muhukama pakati pevadikani kuwana kukanganisa. Mushure mezvose, kusavhiringidza ndiyo chivimbo cheukama hwakasimba uye hunofadza. Kuswedera pedyo ndicho chinhu chikuru chinobatsira kuchengetedza rudo pakati pevadzidzi. Vanhu vazhinji vanobatanidzwa muburusi rezvinetso zvezuva nezuva. Havakwanisi kunyange kuwana maminetsi mashomanana emunguva yekusununguka, kungobata ruoko rwomunhu waunoda, kuongorora, kuti akurukure kuti zuva rega rega rakapfuura sei.
Chimbofungidzira kweminiti, iwe unobhadhara nguva yakakwana kune waunofambidzana naye? Usatya kutaurirana rudo kune umwe neumwe kwete nemashoko chete, asi nezviito. Wedzera rudo muhukama hwezuva nezuva hunogona kuva kuburikidza nevakawanda vanofamba pamwe chete. Vamwe vakaroorana avo vave pamwe kwenguva yakareba vachikanganwa nezvezvinhu zvakadai. Mushure mezvose, kufamba kunofamba kunogona kuguma nekutsvoda kwakanyoro uye kwakanyorova mumvura. Iwe unogona kungogara paki uye wotarisa nyeredzi.
Ndezvipi zvingave zvakanyanya kudanana? Iwe unogona kuenda kune cafe yakanyanyisa kana firimu nehafu yako, uye uenderere manheru mune hotera duku uye yakanyarara, uko pasina munhu angakuvhiringidza. Sezvakambotaurwa kare, panofanira kuva nekubvumirana muhukama. Vanhu vazhinji, kunyanya vakadzi, vanotenda kuti vane zvimwe zvinodiwa nevanoda. Asi kana iwe uchinzwisisa, saka zvechokwadi kune kusiyana. Kana iwe uchida kuenda kumafirimu, asi iwe webhokisi rako raunoda nhasi, kuparidzwa kwaasingazomborasikirwi, ripe kwaari. Asi taura chete izvo zvino iwe unoenda kumafirimu mangwana kana rimwe zuva rimwe. Ichokwadi, kune nzira dzakawanda dzokuti iwe unogona kuwedzera rudo rweukama hwako newaunoda. Iva kazhinji kacho rudo uye kutarisira mafungiro kune hafu yako yechipiri.
Kana izvi zvisiri kuitwa, ipapo hukama hunopera uye izvi zvinotungamirira kurambana. Usabvumira zvakadaro kuguma kwezviitiko. Mune rwiyo rutsamwa rwehupenyu hwedu huno, isu hatichawanzocherechedza chinhu chinonyanya kukosha - kushamwaridzana kwehukama hwemhuri.
Nokuda kwekutarisira nguva dzose uye nezvimwe zviitiko zvisingadikanwi, vakaroorana vane rudo vanorasikirwa nemufaro uye kufadza kwavakaita pakutanga kwehukama zuva rega rega. Apo zvinhu zvose zvainge zvangotanga, kwaiva nemafambiro ekudanana pasi pemwedzi, uye ikozvino vakatsiviwa nekutora zuva nezuva kuenda kuchitoro kune zvekugadzira mushure mebasa. Saka hazvifaniri kunge zvakadaro! Wedzera rudo kubva paupenyu hwako! Rudo runogona kuita chishamiso! Ichakwanisa kuvandudza ukama hunoshuva hwakambove huri pakati pako. Imwe yenzira dzakanakisisa ndeyokunyorera rudo manotsi mangwanani. Uye regai munhu anodikanwa azviwane nguva dzose munzvimbo dzakasiyana.
Mumwe haafaniri kukanganwa kugadzira zvipo zvakadai saizvozvi, uye kwete nokuti iri zuva rekare rekarenda. Iwe unogona kuronga manheru emanheru mumusha wakanyarara, izvo zvichava kushamisika kushamisika mushure mezuva rakaoma kune waunoda uye kukuvhiringidza kubva pamafungiro asina kufanira. Kuwedzera rudo kune hukama hwezuva nezuva, iwe uchava pedyo nemweya wako wawakaroorana naye! Rudo runokwanisa kukuyeuchidza, panguva yakakodzera, kuti iwe kune umwe kune umwe unokosha zvikuru uye unofanira kunge uchidedera kune umwe neumwe. Rudo! Nokuti rudo rwakanaka chaizvo!