Chimwe chiitiko chinonakidza chinowanikwa: apo murume wako aingova mukomana, iwe unoshuva kumuda, kuti nemoyo yese mitemo yepfungwa yakarangarira nemoyo. Akateerera zvakanyatsoteerera kwaari, akabvumirwa kwaari, aifarira mune zvaaida, akapfekedzwa iye uye akafunga nezvake chete. Akange ari iye akakurumbira, anodiwa zvikuru, akachenjera, ane mutsa, akanaka kupfuura ose, uye akanyanya ... Uye ino tuduru yakawira munzeve dzake zvokuti yakazopedzisira yava kusvika pakupedzisira kuti aifanira kuroora. Kukurudzira. Pamusoro pako.
Zvisinei, vasati vayambuka chikumbaridzo chehofisi yekunyora, vachifara kutora chitunha chenyu, vakapfekedzwa mumucheka uye taffeta, pakarepo vakazviratidza. Kwete kuti vakanga vasiripo kare. Parizvino, kunzwa semasamera ane tiger uyo akazopedzisira awana chikwama nehaini mumaoko echikwata chechichato uye tamputi mupasipoti, iwe wakasarudza kuti yava nguva yekuita.
Uine mazano emakadzimai emadzimai pakudzidziswa kwechikara chinokonzera "murume" nekunyora mazano ake pamusoro pekuita zvakanaka murume akaroorwa, iwe unotsvaga kuedza kushandura kusina kushanduka uye kurasikirwa nemaziso, nzeve nemweya yekuremekedzwa, yaimbove iwe uchikoshesa.
Asi iwe hauzodi chinhu. Usanetseka, kunyemwerera kakawanda, edza kutarisa zvakanaka, uye zvinonyanya kukosha - usakanganwa kurumbidza unhu hwakanaka. Izvi zvinoreva, kurumbidza murume wake. Mushure mezvose, chete pakutarisa kwekutanga kunoratidzika sokuti iyi yakasimba yekugara kwemahofisi haigone kutsungirira "mhuru yenyasha" uye yakagadzirira kuita mabasa ehu hero zuva rose saizvozvi. Asi chaizvoizvo iwe wakanyengedzwa wakafanana neruva runyoro, iro risina kukurudzirwa nenzira yekurumbidza, sekusina kunwisa kwakanaka, kuchakurumidza kuoma uye kurega kuita kwete heroic chete mabasa, asi mabasa kazhinji.
Musarega kubata zvishoma uye kwete kudiwa, uye haakurumbidzi nguva dzose. Saka tanga wekutanga. Uye iyo-ice-cream, yakangobatwa nehupenyu hwako uye yakasakara, inotanga kunyauka pachayo.
Iwe hauna chinhu chekumurumbidza iye nokuda? Zvechokwadi zvinoitika here? Handingatendi! Verenga uwandu hwezvinhu zvingaita kuti urumbidzwe, ramba uchiri kutora uye uverenge kuti vangani avo iwe unogona kushandisa kumurume wako.
ZVAI IYE, NEMWE, IYE KUTI ...
Saka, heino rondedzero yehutano hwehuhu hunogona uye hunofanira kurumbidzwa:
• Akachenjera.
Ndechipi musiyano wekuti hausi Einstein, asi kuti anonzwisisa sei zvematongerwe enyika!
• Akanaka.
Chii? Bhara uye mafuta here? Asi meso ake chii!
• Ndezvemari.
Zvakanaka, zvakadini kana nguva yekupedzisira ashambidza ndiro, achiri achiri kuyaruka. Asi mushure mekunyengetedza kukuru, iye achiri kutora zvidha!
• Zvakanaka.
Usambopfeka masokisi mamwechete kaviri. Pasinei nokuti iwe unofanira kuashamba.
• Ari kufara.
Zvakadini, zvinorevei? Uri kuitei !!! Iyo inofadza uye ine mari, inofarira nezvekuchengetedzwa kwemari yemhuri. O, iye anoda kushandisa mari? Zvakanaka ipapo:
• Ane rupo.
Uye iwe ungada kuenda kune imwe mugumo weguta nekuda kwemasamatisi nokuda kwebhule nekuda kwemari?
• Anoteerera.
Kana iwe wakatsamwiswa pane pane kukupa zuva rekuzvarwa, wakakupa mari kwaari, saka usatsamwa. Zvaizova zvakanyanya kuwedzera kana akatokanganwa nezvake.
• Ndiye mudiwa mukuru.
Ichi chokwadi chinoratidzwawo nekuti kana mushure mokuita zvepabonde, iye, aneta nebasa rakaoma kuti akupe mufaro, pakarepo unorara hope.
• Anoshamwaridzana.
Kunyange zvazvo achishandisa nguva yakawandisa kune shamwari, kune tariro iyo pakati pavo, pakupedzisira, inobatsira ichaonekwa zvakare.
• Anonzwisisa.
Vamwe vanomudana kuti akabereka, asi anongotanga kupinda mumwoyo yezvinhu!
• Anofunga.
Zvakangoti iye ane ruvara rutsvuku. Asi iwe unoziva kuti achabudirira!
• Ane tarenda.
Regai venguva yakareba vasati vambokoshesa izvi, asi ivo vachakoshesa vana!
• Ane pfungwa isina kuroorwa.
Chokwadi chinoedza zuva rega rega kuenda kune chitsva, chakatarisana nechinangwa, zvinangwa. Asi izvi hazvina maturo.
• Ndiye baba vakakurumbira.
Vana vanomuda zvikuru! (Zvimwe nokuti havawanzozviona?)
• Anobvumirana.
Panzvimbo pokudana amai vamwene vake benzi, akangosiya, achinyima musuo.
• Akatendeseka.
Chokwadi uye zvakanyatsotaura kuti wakaenda kumitambo yekurasikirwa kuti uremerwe uremu. Asi aigona kunge akanyarara ndokutanga rudo runyararire.
• Haasvuti (haanwi, haaiti, haatamba sweepstakes, haatungamiri vasikana) ...
Iwe unofunga kuti haaiti, nokuti haadziviriri mitsipa yako, asi utano hwako pachako? Zvino iyi inguva itsva yekurumbidza:
• Anonyanya kukoshesa hutano hwake.
Nokudaro, anoedza kuti arege kuparadza basa rake uye anoshandisa manheru ake pamubhedha. Uyezve-mumhuri. Uye, pakupedzisira:
• Ndinodada naye!
Hazvisi zvechokwadi here? Zvadaro hazvinyatsonzwisisi kuti sei iwe uchiri naye.
ZVAUNAKADZIDZA MURI WAKO
Kurumbidzwa ndiko kutanga kweunyanzvi hwose. Nokudaro, inoda nguva yakakodzera, nzvimbo, kunakirwa kwakanaka uye kungwarira. Inofanira kunyanya kutaurwa kuti kunyanya kurumbidzwa kunorumbidzwa kwevanhu vose. Asi iyi mhinduro yakasimba inogona kuonekwa sebhami kumweya wevakatendeka, pamwe nehupfu, inogona kutyisa zvachose ukama hwako.
Pano iwe unogona kutora semuongorori wekuita maererano nechigaro ichi: kurumbidzwa munzanga kunokosha kune izvo zvinosanganiswa muhutano hwevanhu ava. Kana iwe uine boka revanhu rakaungana pavakashamwaridzana neshamwari dzomurume wake vanozvifungidzira sevhechi, vanove chiratidzo cheupenzi kurumbidza hupfumi hwake. Zvichida shamwari dzichanzwisisa chido chako uye kunyange kutakura kune iyo nhoroondo yekunzwisisa kwakokadzi kwepasi. Asi mudiwa wako anonzwa sechidimbu chakakwana uye anonzwa maonero ekuderedza "vakuru vedume". Asi mitsetse yehama idzi idzo dzichawira pasi kana iwe uchitaura kuti wakaneta nekurova murume wako kubva kune vakawanda vatevedzeri vevakadzi.
Usatarisawo zvinhu zvisingakoshi kumunhu wako. Kana achivenga imba, kurumbidzwa "iwe wakashambidza ndiro dzako zvakanaka" kuchaonekwa sechinhu chinosekwa uye chirevo chokuti haazive nezvekushambidza ndiro. Muchiitiko ichi, kurumbidzwa kwezvokudya kunogona kungonzwika chete muchirevo che "iwe mose unoita zvakanaka uye ndiro ndiro uchapupu husina kunaka."
Uye chimwe chinhu zvakare. Usapfuurira! Kana murume wako aine bandema, ndiye anoda rumbidzo, kunzwisisa, uye kutsigirwa semhepo. Kana ichinge iri kure kumashure, ipapo kurumbidza murume wako pasina chero chikonzero - dambudziko raanozozvifunga somunhu muridzi wezvose "zvakasvibiswa" zvakanaka. Uye zvino zvingaratidzika kwaari kuti pedo nevakadaro vakangwara, vane rupo, vanodikanwa, vanofarira, vakangwarira, murume akanaka anofanira kunge ari mudzimai akasiyana zvachose. Handizvo iwe. Rega iwe wakanyengedzwa uone kutendeseka kwako, asi zvose zvakafanana mumusoro wemurume dzimwe nguva unofanira kufungira kusava nechokwadi kuti uri kukanganisa pane imwe nzvimbo uye chimwe chinhu chausingarevi.
Mune shoko, iva munhu wekusika uye kazhinji uwane nzvimbo yezwi rine mutsa. Uye naizvozvo, ndinoshuva iwe mufaro muhupenyu hwako!