Kune 2 zvakanyanya. Akava akanyatsoteerera, ane mwoyo murefu, anoshambidza mwana, akazununguka, anofamba naye. Iwe hauzivi mumwe wako, nokuti iwe haungambofungi kuti angave munyoro uye ane hanya, uye dzimwe nguva iwe unofunga kuti ari nani kupfuura iwe kutarisana nemucheche. Zvakanaka, munyaya iyi, iwe unogona kungofarira mhuri iyi uye uchida kutaura kuti une baba vakakodzera! Asi pane dzimwe nguva, zvinhu zvose ndezvimwe zvakapoteredza ... Kusvikira munguva pfupi yapfuura, waifara pamwe chete nekufambisa kwemucheche mucheche, murume akafamba-famba newe pa ultrasound uye akabata ruoko rwako, akatarisa mufananidzo pane chekuona, akatotenderana kuenda kuchitoro kuti asarudze dowry yemucheche uye nemufaro mukuru vakaunganidza chifukidzo chemangwana wenhaka (heiress). Uye zvino yakauya nguva inofadza - musangano wakamirira kwenguva refu wevabereki nechecheche! Uye mudzimai wako anoita sokuti akatsiviwa ... akazova nehasha, achivanzika, kazhinji anoramba achienda kubasa kana asingagoni kuuya chero usiku, uye hazvina kukodzera kutaura nezvebatsiro kubva parutivi rwake! Chii chaunofanira kuita mumamiriro ezvinhu aya? Nzira yekubatsira sei kudzorera hukama hwehuya hwekare? Pashure pezvose, mwana anoda vabereki vose!
Kutanga iwe unoda kunzwisisa kuti sei izvi zvakaitika? Ukama hwako hwakatanga sei mwana asati aberekwa?
Zvose zvawakabhadhara zvakabhadharwa kumurume wake, mabasa ose epamba aibatanidza naye: "Chii chingave chikafu chinonaka chekudya, icho murume wangu aifarira?", "Uye achazvifarira here kana ndikapenda bvudzi rangu rima?", "Kwete, tichaenda ku Imwe nzvimbo yekutoro, nokuti inoda kicheni ikoko! ".
Uye zvino chii? Nzira yose kuenda kunopesana - zvose zvinotarirwa kune nhengo itsva yemhuri, uye kune munhu waunoda kune maminetsi mashomanana kuti apedze mapepa mashomanana pazvokudya.
Kuti varege kuve mhirizhonga yemhuri, vanapfungwa dzepfungwa vanokurudzira kuti, kusati kwaberekwa mwana, gadzirirai mazano anotevera:
- kutora mutoro kune mwana achangoberekwa, kuita zvisarudzo zvine chokuita nehutano hwake nekuvandudzwa kwezvisizvo;
- dzidza kugadzirisa nguva yako, uzvidzivirire, vimba chete iwe pachako;
- kugamuchira chokwadi chokuti ikozvino uri kuzvipa iwe nguva shomanana yekugutsa zvido zvako;
- kubata zvinyararire kune zvido zvinotapira kubva kune vehama dzemurume, nokuti iwe zvino hausi mudzimai chete, asi amai vezukuru vavo (muzukuru);
- kuti aone kuora kwehukama nemurume wake;
- kukurudzira ukama huri pakati pemhuri dzemhuri.
Zvakanyanya ... Asi chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechokuita chisarudzo pamusoro pekuchengetedza mhuri.
Pakutanga mumisha mumhuri ine vana vakawanda, vana vaduku vaibatanidzwa kune vakwegura. Iye zvino mamiriro evanhu akachinja zvakanyanya. Kunyange mumhuri dzakanaka-kuita, kazhinji hazvirevi vaviri kana vatatu vana vanoberekwa, saka vanaamai vaduku havanyanyi kugadzikana mupfungwa zvekurera vana, uye vamwe vakangonzwa nezvazvo kubva kuhama kana musikana.
Nekuzvarwa kwemwana wekutanga, ukama huri pakati pevakaroorana hunoenda kune hutsva hutsva. Uye kana basa raamai risingagoni kudzivirirwa iwe uye iwe haugoni kuzvidzivirira, zvino basa rebaba kune murume "chinhu chokuzvidira," zviri nyore kwaari kutiza kubva mumatambudziko emhuri-kuvabereki vake, kushanda, kushamwari. Saka maitiro ekuzvibata sei mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, kuti urege kuwedzera hukama?
Zvakakosha kunzwisisa chinonyanya kukosha: murume akachinja uye anozvibata zvakadaro nokuti ane godo! Uye pano zvakakosha kusaita kuti mamiriro acho ezvinhu awedzere nekunyomba nguva dzose mukunyengera uye kusatarisira, asi edza kufambisa mamiriro acho ezvinhu uye kurega kubva kumakakatanwa. Masayendisiti anopa mazano pamusoro pekuita izvi:
- Kuti utaure asingatauri iye kuti iye zvino ari kuzadzisa mabasa kwete chete kumurume, asiwo webaba. Uye usatsvake kubva kwaari kuratidzirwa kwemanzwi emadzibaba pakarepo. Zvichida kutora mwedzi, kana makore. Maererano nekutsvakurudza, utano hwababa hunoratidzwa chete negore rechitatu rehupenyu hwemwana wako;
- usaedza kuisa matambudziko ose pamapfudzi ako, uye udzorere nerunyararo zvishoma chikamu chiduku chekutambudzika kuna baba vako: enda kumaprozimisi kune vanorara, batengese zvokudya zvevana, enda kuvana vepollinic, bata musoro wako paunenge uchigeza. Nokufamba kwenguva, baba vaduku vachabatanidzwa mune izvi. Uye nokukurumidza izvi zvinoitika, kukurumidza kumutsa manzwiro ebaba vake;
- Ipa murume wake zvakanyanya kufungisisa, taura pamusoro pekutambudzika uye kunetseka. Haana kunyanya kunetseka, nokuti upenyu hwake hwakachinja zvakare. Udza murume wako kuti iwe uchiri kumuda, kuti anokuda iwe zvino kupfuura kare;
- Usawedzeredza kana kuratidzira zviitiko. Kana murume wako akauya kumba achibva kubasa rehafu yeawa gare gare, izvi hazvirevi kuti ari kunyengera kwauri;
- Usapindira muhukama hwevabereki. Matambudziko ako ndiwo matambudziko ako. Nhamba huru yemhuri inoparadzana zvakakwana nokuti hama dzinopindira muhukama. Zvechokwadi, vanokuda iwe chete zvakanaka, asi mhedzisiro imhuri yakaputsika, kuora mwoyo, kunetseka mumwana;
- Yeuka kuti iwe nemurume wako mune pfungwa dzakasiyana-siyana! Uye izvo zvinoita sezvakakosha kwauri, hazvina basa kwaari - ndechipi chezino mwana ane mwana wekutanga, apo zvakakosha kufamba nemucheche, kuti aive akasununguka ... izvi zivo zviri kuchinja nekukurumidza. Saka sei muchiyeuka?
Uye zvinonyanya kukosha - mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu, zvose zviri zviviri zvinokonzera mhosva. Uye iwe unoda kugadzirisa mamiriro ekurwisana iwe pachako, nekuongorora kwekuita kwako. Mwana wako akaberekwa kuti akure mukuwirirana uye rudo, uye izvi zvinogona kupiwa chete nevabereki vanofara vasingatakwi nekujekeswa kwemakakatanwa emhuri. FM Dostoyevsky ine mhedziso chaiyo: "Hapana chinhu chinonyanya kukosha muupenyu, hapana chinhu chinonyanya kukosha uye chinobatsira kupfuura chiedza chakajeka uye chinodziya, zvakajeka uye zvine mutsa. Inoiswa mumhuri uye inobatsira munguva dzakaoma. " Ndiyo mumakore ekutanga ehupenyu kuti mhepo mumhuri ine simba rakakosha pakuumbwa kweunhu. Saka chete mhuri ine ushamwari inokwanisa kukonzera mwana ane utano hwakanaka, kunyange zvazvo murume akachinja mushure mokuberekwa kwomwana.