Muhuduku hwangu, pandakanga ndichiri kutamba zvidhori zveBarbie, ndakapfeka Ken wangu naBarbie mune zvipfeko zvemuchato, ndokutanga mutambo. Kubva dandelions, ndakasimudza arch, pasi payo paiva neatari, uye paatari ndakadyara teddy bear, uyo akaita semupristi. Uye saka, zuva rimwe nerimwe ndakaronga michato. Ndakarota kuti ndikure zvakakurumidza, iyo yaizopfekedza shangu yakachena-yechando, enda kuatari uye utaure kuti unofarira "hongu." Ndakanga ndisingafungi kuti chii chingava mberi uye mushure mechato, ndakanga ndichifunga nezvemucheka mutsvuku ane chidzitiro. Uyezve, zvichida nemusikana mumwe nomumwe, havafungi zvichazoitika uye shure kwemuchato, isu tose tinozvidya mwoyo pamusoro pekuita kwemuchato: chikafu chakanaka, chikafu chikuru chinonaka, bridal bouquet, uye, zvechokwadi, zvipo.
Musikana wese kubva paudiki akarota kuti angazova nemuchato wakaisvonaka kwazvo munyika , iyo yakanakisisa yepfeko uye muroori akanaka kwazvo, asi hapana humwe hwakanaka hwechikwata kune vose, hapana mararamiro akaenzana emuchato, ayo anoonekwa seakanyanya kunaka. Kune vose uye nokuda kwezwi rose rokuti "rakanaka" rinoreva zvakasiyana, uye rinoshandurwa nenzira dzakasiyana. Kune mumwe munhu anofungidzirwa zvakanaka semaruva emaruva, akarongedzwa pamakona ose emabiko emabiko, apo mhemberero yacho inobatwa, uye kune mumwe munhu akanaka ndiwo mvere dzvuku, pamakumbo marefu, akamira mumasasa matsvuku mashoma. Munhu wose anosarudza kutora kwavo, asi munhu wose ane zvakasiyana. Mumwe munhu anofarira kuchinja tsika, nekugadzirisa zvinhu zvavo zvitsva, uye kune mumwe munhu tsika dzinokosha zvikuru, uye dzinokudza, uye dzinoteerera mitemo yese yekare.
Muchena mutsvuku, chitima chakareba, chifukidziro chakajeka pamusoro wepamusoro, kuvhara, kuvhara, dhimoni guru pamunwe wangu, uye baba vangu vanotungamira kuatari, uko murume wemangwana nemurume chaiye vakamirira nekushivirira. Icho hachisi tsika here? Rimwe shoko rokuti "hongu" rinova chivako muhupenyu hutsva, muhupenyu, uko kune murume anodiwa uye zvirongwa zvitsva zvehupenyu.
Bvudzi rakatsvuka kana bhuruu uye rakapfupika kwazvo, bvudzi dema kana ruvara rwepepuru rakaungana mune rimwe bundle, uye pane bhomba pane hove duku shoma, kugadzirwa kwakatsvuka, uye kubuda kuatari pabhasikoro riri pane imwe nzvimbo pamahombekombe egungwa. Inoyeuchidza mufananidzo kubva kune imwe fesheni-magazini. Kune uyo uyu ndiwo musoro wekunaka, unopesana nemitemo yose nemitemo, kuzvidzora kwevanhu vakashesa vasingadi munhu wese, nokuti kune mashomanana akadai akaroorana nevanofarira ruzha uye avant-garde.
Kuroorana ndiyo mhemberero inokosha zvikuru muupenyu, kwete zuva rekuberekwa uye kwete rukuru, hapana chingaenzaniswa nezuva rino, saka ndinoda kuti zvose zvive zvakanaka. Uye chipi nechipi chingaitwa nemuchato, zvose zvaunoshuva uye zvido zvako zvichabatsirwa kuti uone nevanogadzirisa zvemichato - ava ndivo vanhu vane zvinhu zvose zvakagadzirirwa muchato, uye iyo yakanakisisa yechato inopiwa kwauri. Achakubatsira kuronga chikamu chebhehelorette uye wepachikoro, uye achagadzirira zvinhu zvose kwauri. Iwe hauzooni chero matambudziko, asi kungoona kuti mapato ako akadzima, uye uchi hunogona kuiswa kune gore, kana kupfuura, kana huchi hunogona kuwira kumwero we "mvura, nekavira cheshuga."
Kuti uronge mararamiro, iwe unoda kusarudza kereke yezororo, uko iwe unotongesa manzwiro ako pamberi paMwari. Chechi nemapuranga emapuranga nemahwindo egirazi yakatsvuka, iyo inoratidzira vakafira kutenda. Rwiyo, urwo iwe mose, zvinoreva chimwe chinhu, uye kwete maronda aMendelssohn anoora mwoyo. Pamabhenji gara pedyo newe vanhu, mumwe ari kuchema, mumwe munhu ari kuseka pameno ose makumi matatu nemaviri uye anofara. Iwe uri chichena chic jasi uchifamba mumhanzi rhythm pamucheka mutsvuku, yakasvikwa nemuchena mutsvuku, uye mberi kwako ingirozi duku, kusasa nzira ne rose petals. Uye mberi kwake - mune tuxedo yakasviba, achikumirira nekushivirira, uye zvino, kusvika paatari uye akabata maoko, iwe unoti mazwi emhiko yawakanyora iwe pachako. Ipapo iwe unobva pane rimwe chena mambousine usati waenderera mberi kwezororo, uko kusingazivikanwi uye hupenyu huri kutonga. Ikoko iwe unopiwa zvipo uye zvose zvinosungirirwa uye unoshuva inzwi chete munhare yako. Zvose zvakatarira kwamuri, nhasi zuva rose kwamuri. Zvose zvakapoteredza glitter, uye zvinopenya, maruva akaiswa pasi, uye makenduru ari kupisa, achigadzira mashiripiti. Mumhanzi wakadzikama, kubwinya kwegirazi, mhete yeguruva, uye rumble of fun and delight. Mufananidzo wacho anochechedza iwe kumativi ose, uye kubva pane izvi iwe unonzwa semufananidzo weHollywood, mutengi anotora kufamba kwako kwose, anonyora zvose zvaunotaura. Icho hachisi icho chichato chakaisvonaka kwazvo munyika, apo iwe unonzwa semwarikadzi, mambokadzi wekukunda, uye saka, iwe ndiwe musikana akanaka kwazvo wemasikati nemanheru, nokuti hapana chakafanana musikana mu chikwata chechikwata chichena. Saka pane tsika.
Uye, zvinoratidzika, nekuda kwezviitiko zvakadaro zvakakosha kuti urarame, chii chaizozoyeuka izvi zvose, uye kufara kuti iwe wakararama munguva idzi nemunhu uyu agere pedyo newe uye anoverenga pepanhau. Uye iwe mukati mukati mako unofara pane izvi zuva rega rega, kwemakore akawanda, uye zvose, zvinoratidzika kuti raive zuro zuro.