Mubvunzo wei uye chii chaunofanira kutaura mushure mekuita zvepabonde kamwechete kamwe kwaive neve munhu wese. Zvinonyatsozivikanwa kuti hafu yakanaka yevanhu vanoda nzeve. Zvakakosha kuti vakadzi vanzwe kuti akanaka sei, kusanganisira mubhedha. Mashoko ekurumbidza uye kurumbidzwa haabatsiri chete kune zvinonakidza zvepabonde, asi zvakare shure. Zvakakosha kuti mukadzi anzwe kubva kumurume kuti anogamuchirwawo, kuzviremekedza kwake. Asi zvakadini nevarume? Chii chakakosha kwavari? Ari mumubhedha, varume vanofanira kupedza simba uye simba kupfuura vakadzi, pamwe chete, chinhu chikuru ndechekuti mushure mekufarirwa kwakagamuchirwa, inzwi rakarara uye kudya kunonaka. Asi izvi hazvirevi kuti maonero emukadzi haana hanya nehutano hwakasimba. Isu tiri vanhu vose vane zvinyorwa zvavo, zvakavanzika uye manzwiro avo. Nokudaro, kurumbidza kune varume kwakakosha sevakadzi, nokuti munhu wose anoda kuziva kuti ari mubhedha iye haagoni. Izvo hazvizoviwo zvisinganzwisisiki nekuvandudza kwekuongorora, uye chikamu chemashoko akanaka anowedzera kupararira kune wako.
Kukurukura pamubhedha kunokosha, uye vaviri vekupedzisira vanoenda kumuganhu wehutano hwepabonde uye mitemo inoratidzwa nevanobata naye. Kana mumwe wako ari kunyengedza, haafaniri kuonga hutano hwakasiyana-siyana huri muhutu hwema polylar nemakenduru uye wakasimuka pamatare. Uyezve, kukurukurirana zvinyoronyoro pamusoro pehurukuro "kuti ndakamirira kwenguva yakareba sei kana tive pamwe chete" hazvizoiti maonero akanaka kwaari. Zvichida, murume akadaro achasarudza kuti iwe hauna maturo, kana kungoita zvekuyaruka.
Munguva yerudo rwenyama nemurume ane tsvina, haufaniri kumubvunza kuti aite nenzira iyi kana iyo. Neye zviri nani kuti iwe uonekwe mberi nokukurumidza, ziva zvaunoda uye izvo zvinodanwa kuita bhizinisi.Kushure kwekufadzwa, muongorori haasi zvachose kurwisana nekutaurirana, chinhu chimwe chete chinofanira kuyeukwa ndechomukaroorana, kwete kutaura zvepabonde, ahov uye kugomera. Munhu akadaro haangakwanisi kutsigira hurukuro dzakadaro, nokuda kwechikonzero chakajeka chaanofunga kuti chakakanganisika uye chisingaiti.
Kana mumwe wako ari musingarapiki rudo, achitaurirana pamusoro pezvinyorwa zvinyanyisa, zvose zvisati zvaitika rudo runyaradzo, uye shure kweizvozvo, kwete chete kunopesana-kunoratidzwa, asi kunyange pane zvinopesana, ichagamuchirwa. Haazongoteereri chete uye kufara mukuteerera nyaya iyo yawakamirira kwenguva yakareba sei, asiwo uchamutsigira iye asina kunyanya kuderedza.
Usakanganwa kutaura unyoro hwake uye kunyatsoteerera pamubhedha, ndiudze kuti anofadza sei kuti ane hanya newe .. Varume vanoita rudo savanenge vari pedyo naye pane musikana asina simba uye anotya ari pedyo naye anonzwa akasimba uye ane ushingi.
Chinhu choga chisingatauri nemunhu akadaro ndechekare, zvichida, kwete rudo ruduku, ukama. Uye zvakare edza kudzoka sezvinobvira sezvinobvira kubva mumakore kusvika kune nyika inoparara nemigariro yayo uye nguva dzose.
Kana zvikaitika saizvozvo kuti chido chiri pedo newe chaiva nemadzimai akaoma, pane zvingasarudzwa zviviri zvekusimudzirwa kwezviitiko, kana kuti iwezaza uye uwane imwe nguva yakakodzera. Kana nemhando dzose dzekushingaira wakagadzirira kuvhara maziso ako ose ekukanganisa kwake uye kukanganisa, kushingairira haakanganisi kutadza kwake, kusagadzikana uye kunyange akagadzirira kuputika kamwechete, semugumisiro wekurwisa kushingaira pane zvake.
Kana iwe munzira ichasangana nechechi yepamusoro, edza kuisa kuratidza maererano nekunzwa kusava nemanzwiro ako, uye zvachose usataurirana nayo zvirongwa zve navasha iyo inofadza inouya mune ramangwana. Munyaya yakanakisisa, haangoratidzi kukanganisa, uye paanenge achizotiza, achifunga kuti iwe unopindira kune munhu anokosha.
Dzimwe nguva zvinowanzoitika kuti zviitiko zviri kukurumidza kukurumidza, uye iye zvino chizivo chitsva chave chichiratidzira kuitira kuti kumurondedzera seanozivana chete haisi chakanaka. Asi, pasinei nezvose izvi, kana iwe usingazivi kwenguva refu nemurume zvinonzwisisika kuyeuka mamwe mitemo:
- Usanyanya kunyanya kuongorora munyaya dzevashandi vavo vekare. Vakawanda vevarume mushure mekuda kwenyaradzo sezvakaitika pangotanga kutaura pamusoro pekuti iwe wakanga uine vakawanda vanoda pamberi pangu. Mukadzi wese anonzwisisa anoziva mhinduro kumibvunzo yakadaro, "ndiani asiye wekutanga ane wechipiri."
- zvichibva kune zvose zvataurwa pamusoro, zvingava zvine musoro kana mukadzi wachowo asingabvunzi murume pamusoro pezvakaitika zvekare nezvido zvake. Iye zvino ari pedyo newe, unomuudzei nezvomumwe munhu?
- haufaniri kutanga kuteterera mushure mekuita zvepabonde, uye zvisinei kuti chii chaunokumbira: zuva rekuberekwa kana kuti dhinamani remadamoni kwegore rinochengetwa remuchato wako wepamusoro. Mune mhaka ipi zvayo, munhu anogona kuzvitora sechidiro chokubhadhara iwe nekuda kwemufaro.
- uye, pakupedzisira, kana mushure meusiku, zuva kana awa rekuda newe murume anotanga kuenda, musaita dambudziko raro nekudanidzira, kutuka nemisodzi, kunze kwekuti iwe uchida kuti akusiye nokusingaperi.