Chokutanga , musakanganwa kuramba muchirumbidza vana venyu. Chokutanga, vabereki vanofanira kuyeuka kuti havasi vana vose vane masimba, kuti havasi vose vanogona kubata ruzivo uye tsika dzakanaka "phiri" pasina kuita zvakawanda. Asi, zvisinei, mwana mumwe nomumwe ane unhu hwakasiyana-siyana hunomuita ane unyanzvi uye kusiyana nevamwe. Vabereki vanofanira kungobata mwana wavo nekucherechedza zvikuru, kuti vawane humwe hutsika hwakasiyana, mukurudzirwa kwahwo, mwana anozozvivimba nekuzvimirira. Kazhinji, chinhu chete chinofanira kuitwa nevabereki pavanorera mwana ndomukurudzire pane zvose zvavanoedza uye zvido zvavo, vachitaura kuti zvinhu zvose zvichava zvakanaka uye kuti vabereki vanotenda mazviri. Kana mwana wacho akangoerekana asingakwanisi kugadzirisa basa rake rechikoro pamathematics, saka panzvimbo pokushandisa kushevedzera uye kutsoropodza, kupa rubatsiro uye rubatsiro mukugadzirisa basa iri rakaoma. Kuchengetedza mamiriro ekunze pasina kushevedzera uye ruzha, kuchapa mwana chivimbo chete mumano avo.
Vabereki havafaniri kukanganwa kuti vana vose vane hanya nekutsoropodza, kunyanya kana inonzwika kubva pamiromo yevasingazivi, somuenzaniso, kubva kuvadzidzisi kana vaunodzidza navo. Kana iwe ukaona izvozvo zvichibva kuchikoro, mwana anozvibata asingachengeteka uye akatsamwa, edza kuwana chikonzero chemuitiro uyu. Kana mushure mokukurukurirana izvi zvinosvika pakuti akadzingwa panguva yechidzidzo chekusakwanisa kugadzirira chikoro chake kana kuti haana kudzidza chimwe chinhu, tsanangura zvakajeka kuti nguva inotevera, iwe unongoda kunyatsogadzirira chidzidzo.
Edza kurumbidza mwana wako, kunyange nokuda kwechikonzero chakakosha zvikuru: nekushanda kwakanaka kuchikoro, kuti akunde makwikwi, nokuda kwechigadzirwa chakaisvonaka chakagadzirwa nemaoko kana kutora mubhuku rebasa. Dzimwe nguva, kunyange kurumbidzwa nokuda kwekunaka kwakanaka kuchikoro kana kumba, kuita zvinoenderana nemwana kunobatsira zvikuru.
Chechipiri , usamboreurura kana kuwedzeredza zviito zvakaipa kana unhu husina kunaka hwemwana. Sezvo vanhu vose vari panyika vasina kukwana, mumwe nomumwe wedu ane unhu uhwu, unhu uye zviito zvatisingazvirumbidzi uye tinoedza kupedza, kusanganisira vana. Asi, zvisinei, vabereki havafaniri kugara vachinyanya kufunga nezvecheche pamusana peunhu hwake husina kunaka, achivanyengedza mumabhuku makuru. Ndicho chikonzero chekuti munhu aedze kusashandisa mazwi akadaro paanenge achitaura nemwana: "uri kugara uchiita zvakaipa," "une unhu hwakaipa," nezvimwewo.
Kuramba achidzokorora mazwi akadaro muhurukuro yake nechechecheche, unoderedza kuzvidzora kwake, uye hazvina kukodzera kutaura pamusoro pekuzviremekedza, sezvo zvichangoerekana zvabuda. Kana uchida kuratidza mwana wako kusagutsikana kwako, saka zvakanakisisa kushandisa mamwe mazwi, semuenzaniso: "Ndakanga ndakatsamwiswa nhasi pawakatanga kuzvidzora uye kunditeerera."
Chechitatu , musakanganwa kupa vana venyu rusununguko mukusarudza kwavo uye nezviito zvavo. Kunyange dzimwe sarudzo dziri nyore iyo mwana anotora ari oga inogona kukanganisa kuvimba kwake uye kuzviremekedza. Hazvisiko kuisa mabasa akaoma pamberi pemwana, dzimwe nguva zvakakwana kungomupa kuti asarudze chikoro chaanoda kudzidza, kana kuti zvipfeko zvaanoda kupfeka nhasi kuchikoro.