Kuti vanzwisise nzira yekutsanangurira mugari wenhaka idzi chokwadi chakaoma, vabereki vanofanira kutanga vatange vavariro dzinokonzera mwana kutangazve rwiyo rwake: "Uye Petro anokanda jecha ..."
Kana iri mu-kindergarten mhosva yekodhi hapana maonero e "kufungidzira kusina mhosva", izvi hazvirevi kuti vanhu vakuru vanogonawo kuregeredza. Hazvina kunaka kutumidza mwana hufeve kana yakagadziriswa nechinangwa chakanaka, kunyange kana chakanzwisiswa naye oga. Kutanga, tinoda kuziva kuti nei wechidiki "akaisa" "wavewolf Vova" kana kuti Lenochka ane makaro. Zvakaoma kuti mwana wechikoro avere kuverenga zviito zvake zvishoma nezvishoma mberi uye kufanotaura zvaizoitika, naizvozvo, kana uchitaura "kufungisisa", nguva dzose unomiririra kuti ndiani uye sei nguva ino kusununguka kwake kwakashata kwakamukuvadza uye chii chingaitika zviitiko zvikaitika kana mwana akanga akanyarara. Nditendei, vashoma kwazvo masikirati anofarira kutyora (kunyange, chokwadi, zviitiko zvinoshamisa zvakadaro zvinoitika!).
Uyu "wakarurama" uye mwana akatendeseka wakashandisa kunyatsovimba naamai nababa. Kana pasina vabereki, masimba avo anoenda zvakanaka kune mudzidzisi: haasi oga kodzero yekupa karapuza ne semolina pari, asiwo ropafadzo yekuva yekutanga kudzidza pamusoro pezvose zvakamuwira. Chirwere chinodanidzira kuti tigers hachipoti nyama kune zoo chiganda chine bvudzi rakatsvuka kana ichienzaniswa nemwana anoedza kuziva zvikanganiso zvose uye zvakanyanya muhupenyu hwehutanho hwakaenzana. Zvinoita here kuvanza kubata chingwa nemaoko asina kushambwa? Ndezvipi zvisingacherechedzi mitsipa inobhururuka ichipoteredza muimba yekurara? Mwana akadzidza zvakanaka mitemo yekuzvibata (patafura kana panguva ye "nguva yakanyarara") nomwoyo wose anoedza kutevera - uye inoda zvakafanana kune vamwe. Mwana wacho haanzwi kupesana nevana kugunun'una, iye kungori kurota kworugare uye kurongeka muboka rose - nenzira imwecheteyo Pavlik Morozov kamwe aida nomwoyo wose mufaro kuvanhu vose veSoviet. Kana vanhu vakuru vachibvarura mushumo unotevera, vanoona izvi sekuregeredza uye vanotanga kuzadzisa mabasa e "tarisa" ane simba rekudzivirirwa.
Nzira yekumukurudzira sei kuti "abude kubva manheru"? "Tsanangurai kumwana misiyano pakati pezviito zvekuzvipira uye zvakangoerekana: kana Vasya aputsa mukombe, achikuvadza nemaoko noruoko, haufaniri kumupa mhosva pamberi peboka rese. Asi unzwira tsitsi nemukomana asina kunaka uye umubatsire kuti atore zvidimbu, zvechokwadi, zvakakosha. "Bvisa mudyi wenhaka kubva pamutoro wemhosva yezviito zvevamwe vana. Dambudziko rechecheche nderokuti kana mumwe munhu akaita zvakaipa, mwana wacho achiri kunzwa ane mhosva - ari kuratidzira mhosva yezvokwadi yechiitiko chacho chete kuti abvise kusagadzikana uku. Ita rondedzero yechinhu ichi: usashandise kune vanhu vakuru, uye vazhinji vanoedza kubatsira "mutadzi" kugadzirisa mamiriro acho ezvinhu - kuunganidza zvidhori pamwe chete, kuisa ruoko rwakabvarura chidoti kana kupukuta puddle kubva pasi. »Batsira mwana kuti azorore. Mutsiro kurwisana mukati "nguva yakanyarara" inofanira kunge inokonzera kufara nekuseka, uye kwete kuzvidya mwoyo kumiririra kuverengwa kana kurangwa nokuda kwehutu. "Dzidzisa mwana kuti arwise zvinetso zvevakuru. Iwe unogona kutamba chikamu chechiitiko chaicho - "mudzidzisi anoda kuti utaure zita romwana akasvibiswa." Mwana wacho anofanira kunge ave nechokwadi chokuti amai nababa havangamutsvaki kana akaramba "kureurura." Pashure pezvose, iwe wakangozvitaura kuti hazvina kunaka kutsausa.
Uyu mwana haatendi vezera rake zvikuru uye anosarudza kugara pedyo nevanhu vakuru. Kunyange kana mudzidzisi - kupfira Froken Bock, mwana uyu achiri kutarisira kudzivirirwa uye kutsigirwa kwake kana paine kukakavara nevezera rako. Nemhaka yekuzvidya mwoyo kwake kwakanyanya, Panicer inowedzera kufungidzira njodzi inogona kuitika: mumwe munhu akazununguka kwaari kana kunyange akangomubata zvakangoerekana aitika - uye iyo inenge yakatowedzera inofunga kuti iri kurohwa. Mune mharidzo yevana vakadaro, mudzidzisi isimba guru, kureva, munhu anobatanidza mabasa emupurisa, mudzidzi wemoto, muponesi, chiremba anokurumidzira uye mubatsiri wekubatsira. Ichokwadi kuti haasi "Mariyavanna" wose anoshuva kuramba achiita zviito, saka mushure mokunge imwe "nheyo yenhema" mudzidzisi anongotanga kubuda kubva kumwana uye anorega kugadzirisa kumashoko ake: "Ziva iwe pachako!" Uye chii chinowanzoitika munhu ane kunyunyuta kwavakaramba? Zvakarurama, zvinokumbira kune dzimwe mamiriro ezvinhu - mune mamwe mazwi, anotinhira manheru, mapeji anorondedzera amai vake nababa vavo upenyu hwavo hwakakanganiswa, vanonyunyutira kune vamwe vabereki panzvimbo yekutamba uye kunyange vanotarisira kugoverana matambudziko ake nevarindi vanobva kunechitoro chiri pedyo.
Ungamudzivisa sei?
Usasvike pamapfupa kuti usaparadzanisa mamiriro ose emwana akaora mwoyo. Kana chikwereti chibviswa kubva kwaari, tsvaga kuti chii chakafananidzira kutsamwa uku kunotyisa. Vana vari pasi pemakore mashanu vane zvakaoma kugovana zviitiko zvekufungidzira uye zvechokwadi. Muenzaniso wekare: helicopter iyo mwana aida kutamba, yekutanga yakabatwa neshamwari yake mubhokisi. Ngwarira! Unofanira kuudza vabereki vako nezvazvo nokukurumidza! Muchiitiko ichi, amai vakananga havafaniri kuchengetedza mwana, uye vatsanangurire zvakananga kwaari kuti nei nharo yokuti "ini ndaida kutanga" haiiti. Kana Paniker yako inotaura kuti mudzidzisi akadanidzira kwaari, usakurumidza kumhanyira kumunda kuti ugutsikane: pamwe mudzidzisi akataurira boka rose nechido chokupfeka nokukurumidza, asi kuzvipira kwakadzivirira mwana kuti asanyatsoziva mazwi ake. Kuteerera kumhan'ana evechidiki, kugovana nengozi chaiyo uye dzengano - uye mumudzidzise kuita zvakafanana. Kana Petya achityisidzira kukanda Mishin sock pamwedzi, Misha haafaniri kushevedza rubatsiro kubva kune mudzidzisi-zviri nani kupfuura kunyunyuta kunonyadzisa kuzivisa mutadzi kuti vashandi vake vachaita seM Mars. "Usingaiti zvachose kugutsa mwana wacho kuti iwe acharamba uchimutsigira uye uchimudzivirira, asi unoda kukumbira rubatsiro mumatambudziko akaoma. Muchiitiko chinowanzoitika zuva nezuva, anofanira kuedza kuzvionera oga.
Strategist
Vana vakadaro vanonyatsoenderana neupenyu hwechikoro chechikoro chechikoro, kunyange zvazvo vasina kuroorwa muzvisikwa. Strategist vanofarira mafaro nyore: makiki emapakati emambakwedza emangwanani, achimhanya-famba mudare, dhiki nenziyo kubva kumakateti uye kuvekorora naSpiderman. Uye havasi kuzosiya mabasa avo avanofarira uye matoyi nekuda kwezviito zveimwe hoodlum Sidorov. Kutya kurangwa kana kurasikirwa nomukurumbira we "mwana anoteerera" kunoita kuti mwana arambe ari kure nevezera rake, naizvozvo, pakarepo mukoti paanowanikwa mumunda wekuratidzwa kweStatist, anoenda kwaari uye anotarisa uyo uye aive nemhosva maererano nemashoko. Izvi zvinoitika kuti chinangwa chikuru chemuitiro uyu rudo rwemudzidzisi. Chimbofungidzira: Mariyavanna achishungurudzika achinyatsocherechedza mukaka wakaparadzirwa nemunhu asingazivikanwi-uye pano pamabhiza machena-anotinhira anowanzoona mudzikinuri-muchengeti, asingabatsiri anokonzera nhamo yepasi yejasi uye anoratidza chokwadi kwaari. Hazvisi zvechokwadi here, ndizvo zvakanaka? Nenzira, Shanduro-vasikana vanogona kufungisisa mudzidzisi semudiwa wavo wepamwoyo. Uye chii? Mukurwisana neyaka-sechizvarwa chemwana, Maryvanna anotaridzika akaremekedzeka, ane chimwe chinhu chaanotaura uye, zvinokosha, nguva dzose ane chimwe chinhu chinonaka. Zvakanaka, vasikana chaivo vanofanira kufambidzana zvinhu zvose munyika, kusanganisira ruzivo pamusoro pezvinoitika muboka. Nzira yekumukurudzira sei kuti aparadze nzira inotsvedza? "Tsanangura kumwana kuti haukwanise kutamba pamwe chete nemudzidzisi uye iwe hausi kutasva kubva pachikomo - zvinonyanya kururamisa uye zvinonakidza kuita pamwe nevezera rako. Kana mwana wacho achikosha kunzwa sehukama hwepedyo kumudzidzisi, funga nezvemabasa aanoita kuburikidza nekusiya basa remuzivisi (zvakanaka zvingasarudzwa - kuiswa pamwe patafura kana kuisa zvinhu zvezvikwata pamadhoroki). "Edza kugutsikana kuti kukwidzwa kunoparidzwa nevezera rako kune ngozi zvikuru kupfuura kunyombwa kana kutyisidzirwa kwevakuru. Batsira mudyi wenhaka kuti aswedere pedyo neavo vaunodzidza navo: kumbirai mumwe wevana kuti vashanyire kana kufamba pamwe mushure mebindu. Sezvo S Stratist inotanga kunzwa kunzwa shungu kune vezera rake, iye achanzwisisa: kuvonga kweshamwari nokuda kwe "nedonositelstvo" kunonyanya kukosha kudarika kubvumirwa nemudzidzisi!
Manipulator
Nhamo, munyika muno kune zvisikwa zvemashoko zvekare, nokuti kushorwa kupi ndiko nzira huru yekukurudzira kune vezera rako. Uyu manipulator aida kutamba hockey tafura "pasina mutsara"? Hazvina matambudziko - iwe unofanira kungoenda kune munhu mukuru, shingaira kubvarura uye kunyunyutira nomwoyo wose: "Vakomana vacho vari kutamba kwenguva yakareba, asi havakundi kundipa!" Zvakanaka, ndingadzivirira sei varombo pamwe chete ?! Uye iye zvino iye atove achivhiringidza maoko ake uye achitumira puck muchinangwa, uye haana hanya nekutambudzwa kwepamutemo kwevana avo vakangomanikidzwa kumisa mutambo. Kakawanda, iyo Manipulator haitombofaniri kunyunyuta. Zvakakwana kungoyeuchidza muvengi pamusoro pekugumburwa kwakapfuura, kutyisidzira: "Ini ndichakuudza pamusoro pezvinhu zvose, saiyo nguva!" Akaitwa! Iye zvino unokwanisa kuzarura muhomwe yakawanda uye uwane mutero: sweets, chewing gums, stickers kana zvishoma zvishoma kubva kumugadziri. Uye iyo Manipulator haiiti chete nekuda kwebatsiro, zvinokosha kwaari zvakare kumutsamwisa iye waanonyunyuta. Kubatwa dzimwe nguva zvinokanganisa kuregerera kwemumwe mwana kana kuti kunokanganisa chinangwa chezvakaitika - zvikonzero zvemuitiro uyu zvinogona kuva godo, godo kana kukanganiswa kwenguva refu kusina mufaro. Pakati pevaMalapulator kazhinji kune vana vanoshandiswa kuramba vachiedza kutarisira vabereki vavo. Kunyunyuta komukoma wake kana hanzvadzi yake, muduku wacho anoedza kuvhura maziso ake kuna baba vake (baba, mbuya): tarisai, zvino, ndiani wakatsvaira pachipfuva chako! Zvakaipa, asi ini, zvakasiyana, zvinoshamisa! Mushure mekudzidziswa kwakawanda pamusoro pehama dzavo, mwana anotora chiitiko chakawedzerwa uye hukama nevezera rake.
Ungamudzosa sei pamugwagwa wechokwadi? "Kana pane vaviri kana vana vakawanda mumhuri, musakurudzira kukakavadzana pakati pavo - hapana chikonzero chekupa" zvakanyanya "," vazhinji vanoteerera "kana kuti" yakanyatsonaka. " Kunyanya zvakanyatsokodzera - kuisa pamwe ushamwari "team of lightning bed spreaders." "Kana hama nehanzvadzi dzichinyunyuta pamusoro pomumwe nomumwe, dzikama zvakanyatsoteerera nharo dzemumwe nomumwe uye dzinokurudzira kuti unzwisise mamiriro ekukakavara pamwe chete. Zvakakosha kuti vana vakuone iwe semubatsiri, kwete chirango chekururamisa. Vana vevana vanopinda zvakabatikana vanononoka kunzwisisa: zvakakosha kuti vanorwara kana kuti varove zvakasimba, sezvo amai nababa vachikanda zvinhu zvose zvinokosha uye vanomhanyira kubatsira. Saka ponesa mwana kubva pane zvinodikanwa kuratidzira kutambudzika kwegehena nekuda kwechitsva pamabvi ake, kuitira kuti uwane imwe nguva yepanguva yako! Hug uye uitsvake saizvozvowo, rumbidzai plasine koloboks uye rumbidzai nokuda kwezvigaro zvemaoko - hazvingarasikirwi, asi iyo yakawanda ichagamuchira mugove wayo wekutarisa pasina kushandisa maitiro asina kufanira. "Kana iwe wakatarisira mudyi wenhaka kune shamwari yakanakisisa, usarumbidze munhu akakurumbira kune vanovimba naye - anofanirwa kunge akachenjera, ane ruzivo, uye ane hanya, uye kuti anobatsira sei amai vake! Zviri nani kupa mwana mukana wekuzvidzivirira pachavo kuti shamwari itsva yakadini.
Kuona kwekuita kwevamwe kunowedzera pamwe nekukwanisa kuongororodza nekugadzirisa, saka zvinoda kuti mwana muduku kuchengetedza rurimi rwake kunze kwemafungiro ehutano hazvina maturo. Chido chekutaurirana zvaunofunga, pfungwa, zvinoshungurudza kana kufara zvinokwanisika, mubvunzo ndowokuti "chengetedza" ichi chinoda kutsvaga kukurukura mufambiro wevamwe vanhu. Kwezera rimwe nerimwe - kamukira yako! Mwana ari pasi pemakore mana, ari shure kwechikumbaridzo cheimba yababa, anoita semutungamiri weOdessa: anoputika, anonyorera, anongedzera nemumwe wake uye anoda kuti iwe unzwisise kuti "baba vangu vakapfira sei pasi" uye "Amai vangu vakakanda zvigunwe uye havana kubata bhokisi" . Kana iwe kamwe-kamwe usina kunzwa mharidzo iyi inokosha, mwana wacho achadzokorora zvakare - kuitira kuti amainini avo vakatosiya urn kwemamita zana vachadzoka uye vachipinda zvakare kuti vaudze chikamu chakaipa chepepa uye vatumire kwairi kuenda. Panguva ino nheyo yemafungiro enyika inoiswa, saka zvakakosha kuti vabereki vasasvike uye vatsanangurire zvakadzama vavariro dzezviito zvevamwe vanhu. Izvo zvinodikanwa kupa zvinyorwa zvakasiyana zvezvakaitika: "Zvichida, Amai vangu havana kuona kuti mhirizhonga yaiputirwa nemhepo. Kana kuti zvichida musana wake unorwadza uye zvakaoma kuti atame. " Rega karapuza kuve nepfungwa yakanaka yevamwe - usatsoropodza vanhu muzvinhu zviduku, usazvidza uye uedze kudzivisa mazwi "akanaka" uye "akaipa." Mwana muzera rino zvakakosha kuziva kuti vanhu vakuru vanoongorora sei zviito zvevamwe. Mwana anoedza kuenzanisa mitemo yehutano yakagamuchirwa mumhuri nemamwe pfungwa dzevanhu pamusoro pehupenyu. Zvinotarisa kuti Tanya anobvumirwa kutora masipepisi asati adya, kana akavimbisa kuti achadya muto wose! Uye ikozvino mwana wako anongonyatsoziva nezvazvo - unofanira kubva warega kusarura pamasipi uye kumupa bhegi re caramels. Chii ?! Mumwe munhu haashandisi nechishuvo chekufungidzira borsch nemashizha e shuga?! Iwe haugone kuhadzika - mbuya vaTanya vachaudzwa pasina mubvunzo kuti "amai vangu vanondinzwira tsitsi ...". Pasi pe rwiyo urwu rune nhamo, iwe unogona kugadzirisa imba - uye zvino Tanina Guru rusununguko rwakakwana kuti mumwe mwana afare. Uye kana iwe usina chakanaka, iwe iwe, uwane mukadzi ane rukaro, uwane: "Uye baba vangu vanoti mhuri yako yose yakakora, nokuti iwe unodya masukisi akawanda!" Mwana anozviratidza kunyika yese sechikamu chinokosha chemhuri yake - anowana uye ane godo, kana bhizimisi romumwe munhu richiita seinoenda zviri nani, uye haavanze mufaro apo vabereki vake vanobudirira zvakanyanya kana kungova vakanaka kupfuura vamwe amai nababa. Zvakakosha kutsanangura kune mugari wenhaka kuti mumhuri imwe neimwe mararamiro avo, kutaura pamusoro pokuti tsika idzi dzinokura sei uye nei vanhu kamwe-kamwe vachida kuzvibata nenzira iyi, uye kwete. Mwana wacho anofanira kudzidza kuti mumamiriro ezvinhu akafanana iwe unogona kuita nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana - ipapo pachava nechikonzero chiduku chekunyunyuta.
Zvirongwa zvemakore mashanu zvishoma nezvishoma zvinotanga kukudziridza kuzviremekedza. Kunyange zvazvo achiri kunyanya kusagadzikana, zviri nyore kuti mwana awedzere kukosha kwake kuburikidza nekuderedza unhu hwevamwe vanhu - umwe neumwe "kutsamwa" kwevezera kana vanhu vakuru vanongoratidza kuti ivo vane hukama hwepamusoro. Zvinonakidza kuti panguva ino vana vanoita zvakanyanyisa kukumbira kumakero avo: kunyange kana vachinzwa vane mhosva nokuda kwechiito chakaipa, havagoni kukanganwira uyo akatora nzvimbo yeanomupomera. Kuti uchengetedze zvisina maturo kubva megalomania, unoda kumubvumira kuti zvinogona kuva zvakaipa kana zvakanaka pachako, pasinei nezviito zvaitwa nevamwe vana. Munhu wose anogona kukanganisa, asi munhu ane simba anoedza kururamisa kukanganisa kwake, uye kwete kutanga kutarisa zvimwe zvinokanganisa zvevanhu. Kana mumwe munhu pamasikati achivhuna chingwa, usakunyunyuti kumudzidzisi - zvakanakisisa kuona kana pane zvimedu muhote yako.
Kubvira pamakore matanhatu nepamakore, kugadzirira kuenda kuchikoro, mwana anoedza kutarisa akakura uye anozvitsvakira mumwe munhu kubva kuvakuru: mwanakomana, achigunun'una semurume akweguru, anogara
sofa pedyo nekuru vangu, mwanasikana wangu, kunyora mazwi emai vangu, kubata chido, nezvimwewo. Iko kunotanga kugoverana zvakananga kuyanana kwemhuri uye, pakatarisana nekuputsa kwemitemo yakagadzirirwa pamba, inotsvaka kuvandudza mamiriro acho ezvinhu. Uyu mugari wenhaka ave atoziva maonero e "kutengesa", "kutyisa" uye "unyengeri", uye naizvozvo, nerubatsiro rwako, anokwanisa kukwanisa kunzwisisa mutsauko pakati pehurombo uye kubvuma rubatsiro. Ndinofanira here kutaurira vakuru-vakuru kuti vakomana vakasarudza kuisa moto kumapoplar fluff pedyo nebhokisi re transformer? Zvakakosha here kumudana mudzidzisi kana boka rose richitamba dha nehope yemusikana anokuvadza? Iyi mibvunzo yakaoma zvikuru kubva pakuona kwegore remakore matanhatu yekukumbira vabereki kuti vave nouchenjeri husingawanzoitiki. Iwe unoda kutsanangurira zvakananga kumwana kuti, kana achiita chisarudzo, haafaniri kutarisa pane zvido zvevamwe, asi pane zvaanofunga pamusoro pemigumisiro yemamwe maitiro. Ipa mwana iyo sargorithm yezviito: "Kumbira ma pranksters kurega kunakidza kune ngozi; "Ipa shamwari imwe nzira (somuenzaniso, kupa hupiti chikwata chake, asi kwete kutora mumutambo); "Kana chirevo ichi chikarambidzwa, inyevera nezvechinangwa chokunyunyuta kune munhu mukuru; "Nyevero haina kushanda here? Iwe unogona kunyatsokumbira kubatsirwa kubva kumudzidzisi kana mubereki! Muchikamu chedu chekuti "Mwana ari zvakare slobber ye koryabed, zvakare kune yekare" wakadzidza nzira yekuzvibata nemunhu muduku akaipa uyo anoramba achinyunyuta.