Nokuda kwekugadzirisa kugadzirisa unhu hwemwana, zvakakosha mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro kuti abatsire panguva uye ozoenda kune unyanzvi. Mushure mezvose, kana iwe usingatori danho iri munguva, hupenyu hwemwana huchaoma huchawedzera, huchienda muhombe huru, inokura nokukurumidza.
Kuti unzwisise kuti ungasarudza sei nyanzvi yepfungwa dzepfungwa kumwana, unofanira kutanga uziva kuti kugadzirisa marudzi api matambudziko aunoda rubatsiro rweyanyanzvi.
Unyanzvi hwepfungwa hwemwana hunodiwa kana mwana wako ane dambudziko rekugadzirisa hukama hwevanhu, nguva dzose kukakavadzana nevanhu vepedyo, kana iwe uchicherechedza kuti ane hanya nekusava nehanya kana kuora mwoyo, uncharacteristic yezera rake uye asina kuonekwa nechikonzero chepanyama.
Kana mwana wako achitambudzwa nehope dzinotyisa, mafibias anokanganisa, kuwedzera kuzvidya mwoyo, zvakakosha kutaura nemumwe mupfungwa kana chiremba wepfungwa. Usafungidzire kuti varapi vezvepfungwa vanobata vanhu vanorwara chete. Basa ravo guru nderokudzivirira kukura kwechirwere.
Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa inobatanidza mikana yemunhu wepfungwa uye wepfungwa, ane ruzivo rwakadzika rwemapfungwa nemapfungwa. Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa inoshanda nematambudziko akaoma zvikuru. Semuenzaniso, migumisiro yekutyisiswa kwekutya kunobatanidza nechisimba, njodzi kana kurasikirwa kwomunhu waunoda. Murapi mubasa rake anogona kushandisa mitambo yemitambo, chiedza hypnosis, maitiro eurouro-linguistic programming.
Kusiyana nomudzidzi wepfungwa, uyo anowanzove nedzidzo yepamusoro muvanhu, unyanzvi hwepfungwa uye mupfungwa yepfungwa ndeye nyanzvi mune dzidzo yezvokurapa. Saizvozvowo, vane nzira yakawanda yakawanda inogamuchirwa yekushandiswa. Mumwe chiremba wepfungwa uye chiremba wepfungwa anogona kupa mishonga, asi mupfungwa wepfungwa haafaniri kuita izvi.
Sezvo wakasarudza kuti unoda chiremba wepfungwa, tinoramba tichiziva kuti tingasarudza sei zvakanaka.
Kunyange zvazvo nyanzvi yepfungwa isiri chiremba, inofanira kusarudzwa zvakaenzana zvakajeka. Mushure mezvose, unofanira kuvimba nomunhu uyu nechinhu chakakosha iwe unacho, mwana wako. Uye nzira yeramangwana rake ichakura, rudzi rwemunhu aizokura, runofanirwa kunyanya kuverenga nekunyora kwechepfungwa yepfungwa dzepfungwa.
Zvakanakisisa kusarudza mupfungwa wepfungwa kune mumwe wevamwe shamwari yako atoshandisa. Taura nevamwe vabereki, bvunza kuti ndiani angakurudzira. Dzimwe nguva unyanzvi hwakanaka ndewevanoshamwaridzana neshamwari dzako. Kutora mazano kune vamwe vanhu, iwe uchaponesa mitsipa yakawanda uye nguva.
Kana nyanzvi yaifanira kuzvitsvaga, iva nechokwadi chekudzidza zvakadzama pamusoro pezvaanokwanisa. Rondedzera dzidzo yake, kunyanya. Hazvigoneki kuti nyanzvi yezvepfungwa uyo akajaira kushanda nevanhu vakwegura avo vakarasikirwa nemabasa vanogona kubatsira mwana wenyu.
Usatarisira kuti nyanzvi yepfungwa yepachikoro kana chikwata chechiremba chechikoro chekuchikoro ichagadzirisa dambudziko rako. Izvo basa revadzidzisi ava rinosanganisira kwete kungoshanda chete nevana vakawanda, asiwo vadzidzisi vose. Nokudaro, sekutonga, hapana simba kana nguva yebasa rimwe nerimwe. Zvichida, chinhu chimwe chete icho chiremba wepfungwa anogona kubatsira nacho ndechokuti uongorore matambudziko ako.
Usati watungamirira kune mwana wepfungwa dzepfungwa, taura naye iwe pachako. Tsanangurai chinangwa chechinetso, tsanangurai zvingasarudzwa zvekushanda pamwe nezvarongwa kugadzirisa. Vimbiso yakakurumidza yemigumisiro inofanira kukurumidza kukuchenjedza. Chero kuvimbiswa mune zvepfungwa hakubatsiri, uyewo zvinhu zviduku-mweya wevanhu.
Imwe nzira isina kugamuchirwa inzira yeku "kuziva iwe pedyo." Kana iyo "psychologist" ichiita zvose zvaanogona kuwana ruzivo rwako rwega (nhamba yefoni, kero), zvichida iwe uri mutsotsi. Uye iwe, tarisai, unofanirwa kutsvaga imwe nyanzvi.
Muongorori wezvemapfungwa (haasi mwana chete, asiwo munhu mukuru) haazoiti kune vashandi vake chero upi zvake huzivi kana chitendero. Kunyanya, kana kukurukurirana pamusoro pekutenda kunouya kusina kujekesa ukama hwako panyaya iyi. Muchiitiko ichi, kune huwandu hwakakosha hwekuti chiitiko chinokutora iwe nemumiririri weboka rimwechete.
Kana zvisingaiti nezvekugadzirisa hutano hwemwana, usagadzirisa kuedza kukukurudzira kuti ushande mune boka. Nokudaro, vanonyengeri vepfungwa dzepfungwa vanofarira kubvuma nhamba yakawanda yevashandi mune zvishoma zvishoma nguva. Pamusoro pehutano hwebasa, zvechokwadi, mutauro hausi pano.
Kunyangwe uchiziva nzira yokusarudza mupfungwa wepfungwa akanaka kumwana, nekuita sarudzo iyi maererano nemitemo yose, gadzirira kuti iwe unofanira kuuya kwaari kanopfuura kamwe. Usatarisira kuti kushanyira kune chiremba wepfungwa kuchashanda semangara emashiripiti, uye matambudziko ako ose achaparara munguva pfupi. Mwana wako uye mupfungwa wepfungwa anofanira kuwana hukama, uye izvi zvinotora nguva nekutsungirira.
Zvimwe kuchava kukurukurirana zvakananga pakati pemunhu wepfungwa uye mwana "mumwe chete", kana kuti zvingave zvakakodzera kushingaira kubatanidzwa mubasa reboka. Mune mhaka ipi zvayo, simba rechiremba wepfungwa rinobatsira kuita kuti hutano hwezvimedu zvive, kukura kwepfungwa. Mukuwedzera, nyanzvi yepfungwa inokurudzira mwana kutarisa kumano ake uye hutsika hwakasimba. Izvi zvinobatsira mwana kuti ave anozvivimba zvikuru, anodzidza kurarama nehupenyu hunotambudza matambudziko, kuita sarudzo yakarurama.
Kukurukurirana kwepfungwa kunobatsira mwana wako kuumba kuzvirumbidza kwakarurama. Rubatsiro rwakadaro runonyanya kukosha munguva ino yehupenyu, kana munhu wacho akagadzirira zvikuru kukura. Mushure mezvose, muhuduku, hunhu hukuru hunhu hunoumbwa, mararamiro ekukurukura nevezera nevakuru, mafungire kune vamwe uye hupenyu huripo hunoitika. Pari pacho chiitiko kuti zvakatemwa kana mwana anogona kukura kuti ave munhu anobudirira, kana kuti anofanira kukunda maonero ake asina kunaka uye kurwisana nematambudziko kwehupenyu hwake hwose.
Uye zvakadaro, yako intuition ichakubatsira iwe kusarudza mupfungwa wepfungwa. Chero zvipi zvinokurudzirwa uye zvinyorwa zveumwe nyanzvi, iwe nemwana wako munofanira kunzwa tsitsi kune iye. Zvechokwadi, mune zvepfungwa, chimwe chezvinhu zvakakosha zvakakosha zvekubudirira kuvimbana pakati pepfungwa yepfungwa uye mutengi. Kana zvisina kudaro, hatingatongotauri pachena, izvo zvinoreva kuti hakuzovi nemugumisiro.