Mwana anocheka uye anonyengedza

Vana muhupenyu hwevabereki vavo vanotora nheyo inonyanya kukosha, mubereki wese anoedza kupa mwana wake waanoda zvakanakisisa, izvo zvavasina kugamuchira muhuduku hwake. Tinoda, tinoonga, tinodzivirira vana vedu, tinoedza kuifadza ivo mune zvose. Zvisinei, dzimwe nguva, zvinopesana nezvido zvedu, manzwiro evana uye kushamwaridzana kunoitika, umo vabereki vanorasika, kazhinji, panguva dzekushaya hanya, vabereki vanoedza kufadza, vachitaura zvese, zvinopesana nezvinoitwa nemwana.

Maererano nekugadzirisa kwemasayendisiti uye vanachiremba veeuropathologist, utano hwehuduku hahusi chinhu kunze kwekuratidzwa kwechisimba, kutsamwa, kutsamwa uye kunyange kuora mwoyo. Izvi zvinoshungurudzika zvinosangana nekuchema, kuchema, kushungurudzika kufamba kwemuviri (maoko, makumbo, musoro, trunk). Dzimwe nguva panguva yehutano hwehutano hwemwana inotanga, chiso chinoputika uye chinosvibiswa. Zvinokonzerwa nehutano hwehutano zvinogona kuva kukundikana kusangana nezvido uye zvido, vana vazhinji vane utsinye munzvimbo dzinowanzoshandiswa, somuenzaniso, mabhizimisi, misika, zvipatara, chechiergergens. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, kubuda kwevanyengeri (nzvimbo dzomusangano), vabereki vanoedza kudzimisa mwana kumubata mune zvose, asi izvi zvinonyanya kuipa mufambiro wevabereki, nokuti vana vanoshandisa hutsvina chete nekuda kwekuwana zvavanoda uye chete pamberi pevataridzi.

Zvinonyanya kufanana nevana uye vanonyengedza havakwanisi mukuita kwomwana, zvisinei, kune vana vashoma muzana yevanoratidzira avo vanonzi vanogara vasina hukama, vanogona kukonzerwa nenzara, vanokanganiswa nehutachiona hwehurwere, kusakwanisa kurara, kushanda zvakawandisa, kusagadzikana kwemuviri mumhuri mubereki mumba. Yeuka, zvakakosha kuti mwana wako anogutsikana mumuviri.

Kana paine kushaya kwemwana kumba, vabereki vakawanda vanoshandisa nzira yekudzvinyirira mwana, vanhu vakuru vanosimudzira inzwi ravo, kutuka, kutyisidzira kukuvadzwa mumuviri, uye mune dzimwe nguva kunyange kurova vana vavo vaduku. Nzira yekudzivirira kubereka kusina kunaka, mufambiro wevabereki vari mumamiriro ezvinhu aya? Mhinduro yacho iri nyore, pakutanga mubereki anofanira kudzikama, kuenda kune imwe imba, achida kurindira dutu, aite tei uye chimwe chinhu chinonaka kwaari, akadana mwana kana kuuya ari oga, vauye kushambidza uye kuputira mhino dzako, tora bhuku remifananidzo yako yaanoda uye uverenge kumwana, uye kana ichizora tei, ita tei nemwana. Pano iwe uchaona mwana wacho pachake achanyarara, asi kwete nenzira ipi zvayo asingateereri naye, usakumbira kukanganwirwa.

Muitiro wechiremba kune chokwadi chakasimbiswa chokuti vana vane makore ekuberekwa kusvika kumashanu vanowanzosangana nehutano hwakanaka uye hutsinye. Vana vezera rakwegura vanonyanya kusununguka pamusoro pekubudisa zvinhu, asi vanonzwisisa kuti vabereki vanogona kugumburwa, kurangwa kana kubviswa masukisi. Paunorera mwana, unoda kutsanangura uye kukurudzira maitiro ako kakawanda mune izvi kana kuti mamiriro ezvinhu, tsanangura kumwana kuti iwe unokwanisa kuzadzisa chinangwa chako nenzira dzakasiyana, somuenzaniso, akakodzera, uye kwete hazvo kunge uine hanya uye unoita hutsinye, nokuti unhu hwakashata hwakadaro huchaita chero chinhu chakanaka. Uyewo, pamunorera mwana wenyu, zvakakosha kunzwisisa nekumukoshesa, kana iwe usingakwanisi kudzivirira nekudzivisa kushungurudzika kwemwana, taura nevanyanzvi vane ruzivo vanozobatsira mwana wenyu uye vanonzwisisana nenguva. Mushure mezvose, kuregeredza nekuregererwa kwemamiriro ezvinhu akarondedzerwa kunogona kutungamirira kumigumisiro yakaipa zvikuru iyo ichazviratidza pachavo muzera recheche.