Kubva pakuberekwa kwomwana, anopa izvo zvinoita seye chinhu chikuru. Anotsvaka kugara munzanga sevanhu vakuru. Anoedza kuita zvakafanana nevakuru, nguva dzose kana ane mukana. Kana asina mukana akadaro, anoedza kudzidza kuita chimwe chinhu sevanhu vakuru.
Chokutanga anodzidza kusimudza musoro wake, kufamba, kutaura, kudya pariji. Zvadaro-kupfeka, kuverenga ... Chaizvoizvo, kudzidzisa izvo vanhu vakuru vanoziva ndiyo basa guru remwana wezera ripi zvaro. Kunyange zvazvo isu vanhu vakuru tichiwanzozvitora zvishoma: "anozvikwidza," "anotevedzera," "anotamba". Anodzidza kurarama, ndizvo zvatinoda kunzwisisa kuburikidza nokutarisa pamitambo yake.
Mwana asina kukonzerwa nemitsipa kubva munyika yevanhu vakuru, anonzwisisa pakutanga kuti mari chii uye nei vachidikanwa. Anoona kuti hukama hwemari humwe hunokosha hwehupenyu hwevanhu vakuru. Zvinonzwisisika, chikamu ichi chehupenyu hwake hwehukuru iye anoda kuzviita. Zvichida anoda kuidzidza.
Zvakanaka, ndiyo nguva yekumubatsira. Kubudirira kwehupfumi, kusuruvara, kunowedzera kuipa kune vana pasina kubatana kwevanhu vakuru. Uye kukwanisa kushandisa mari inyanzvi hwemagariro evanhu.
Zvechokwadi, zvakanakisa kutanga nemanzwiro. Zvakakosha kumutsanangurira mwana kunyatsotsanangura kuti sei mari inoda uye kuti inobva kupi. Nenzira, tsananguro yekushandisa mari yaunoda kuti uwane kuverenga zvakanaka, inokurudzira kufarira munhoroondo.
Ndinoziva vanhu vanofunga kufarira kuverenga uye kuverenga kuti vave "vasina kusimba", nokuti vakanga vasina kusimba kumadzitateguru edu ekare. Zvisinei, sezvo munhu ari hukama hwevanhu, nguva dzose yaive yakasikwa kuitira "mwana" wevanhu kuti aidzidze chikamu chinokosha chevanhu vedu. Uye kuverenga, kuverenga, mari nemimhanzi zvave kwenguva refu zvikava zvikamu zvakadaro zvepasi redu.
Musanditenda ini - tangotarisa-tarisa. Taura zvinyorwa tsamba nenhamba kubva kumativi ese. Fungidzira kuti mari yose iri munyika yakaerekana yanyangarika. Izvo zvose zviziviso, mafirimu, mapurogiramu paTV kuenda pasina mimhanzi, uye foni haisati yanyongedza, asi bibicon. Nyika ichagara, asi ichava nyika yakasiyana zvachose. Panguva ino, tinorarama mune izvi, uye tinofanira kubatsira vana vedu zvakare kudzidza kuti vangararama sei.
Saka, nokuda kweizvi, takatsanangurira mwana wedu kuti mari chii uye basa ravo muhukama pakati pevanhu (yeuka kuti ukama haisi kungova nemanzwiro chete, asiwo vashandi, somuenzaniso?).
Zvisinei, chero nheyo ipi zvayo inofanira kugadziriswa munguva pfupi kana kupfuura nekuita.
Iwe ungadzidzisa sei mwana kutora mari uye kunzwisisa "mutengo" wavo?
Method 1. Inowanikwa. Pocket mari.
Mari yepahomwe ndiyo yakafanana yemari yaunopa kumurume wako muduku vhiki imwe neimwe kana zuva rimwe nerimwe. Anokwanisa kuipedza sezvaanoda. Paanoona kuti nguva dzose vanoshaya chimwe chinhu, mutaurire nezvekuunganidza mari. Edza kuita kuti zvionekwe. Semuenzaniso, vazhinji vepfungwa dzepfungwa vanokurudzira kuti izvi zvinoratidzira: tora mari yakawanda yehumwechete. Uye tanga kutanga kuvaka turret kunze kwavo. Imwe mari yekuisa pane imwe uye kubvunza kana iri mari yakawanda? "Kwete", mwana achapindura. Kuparadzira mari, pane imwe nguva iwe uchavaka turret iyo mwana achati "hongu."
Iwe unogona kuenda nayo iyo nenyaya yekuti squirrel yakapa sei mari. Uye zvino, apo yakava yakawanda, ndakatenga zvandaimboita pakutanga, pandakanga ndichitora zvinhu kamwe kamwe, ndakanga ndisingakwanisi kutenga. Zvisinei, rimwe zuva akaunganidza zvakawanda (iyo turret inova yakakwirira chaizvo uye inowira) uye mari yake yose inoparadzwa. Usaponesa kusvika kune zvisingagumi, asi usashatisa mari usina kufunga, ndizvo zvinoreva nyaya yacho.
Mushure mekunge mutaurira mwana nezvekwanisi yekuunganidza mari, mupe bhokisi, piggy bank, casket kana bhegi, kwaanogona kuchengetedza mari.
Mitemo inokosha yekuiswa kwehomwe mari!
1. Mari yacho haifaniri kuvimba nemafambiro emwana. Maitiro hausi chinhu chaunogona kubhadhara mubhadharo. Mari yakadaro yakasvibiswa.
2. Mari yacho inofanira kupiwa nguva dzose. Nokuda kwechikonzero chimwe chete icho mwana anoda ruzivo - vana vanoita sevane chokwadi.
3. Haufaniri kusarudza kuti mwana anogona sei kana kuti haagoni kushandisa mari yake. Kana zvisina kudaro, pfungwa yekumupa "mari" yake!
4. Unofanira kumira kutenga zvinhu zvakasiyana. Zvino iyi ndiyo kuparadza kwake. Uye usamupa mari yakawedzerwa. Anofanira kudzidza kuverenga mari yake. Kana zvisina kudaro, sei takazotanga izvi zvose?
Method 2. Zvakaoma. Kuita mari.
Apo mwana anenge atova nechekare kana zvishoma achangwara achiita mari yake, inguva yekutsvaga kwekutsvaga kwake kwe "mari" -kuita mari.
Vana vanokosha zvakadini ivo pachavo, mumwe anogona kuona kubva mumienzaniso yehupenyu huzhinji. Mwanasikana wangu, apo "akararama" kwemavhiki maviri pamari uye mari yehomwe panguva imwe chete, aitarisana nechisarudzo chokusarudza: ingave mubhadharo kana muhomwe. Uye mubhadharo waiva pasi pehomwe, uye akazvinzwisisa. Uye zvakadaro - mari yakawana yakaita seinoyemura kwaari. Akange asina kukwana makore mana.
Apo musikana wake ane makore mashanu akawana pamusoro peizvi, akatanga kurasa mari yake yehomwe ndokumukumbira kuti awane basa.
Mikana yekuwana mari kuvana inogona kunge yakasiyana zvikuru.
Vechidiki vanogona kugadziriswa nevanoshambadzira, vatsigiri vemasango, vabati vevana, nezvimwewo. Nezvo, zvinhu zvose zviri nyore.
Asi kunyange vana vaduku vanogona kuwanikwa. Zvisinei, zvichida, mubasa raanoshandira iwe uchafanira kutaura newe kana kumbira mumwe munhu waunozivana kuti ave mumwe, kunyange zvazvo mari yacho ichiripo ichibva pachikwama chako.
Mwana wacho anogona kushanda neshamwari "muranda anouya", somuenzaniso, zuva rimwe nerimwe kushambidza ndiro kana kamwechete pavhiki kuti achenese mumunda wakatarisana. Kufamba imbwa. Chenesa paka tray uye bvisa marara. Batsira kuunganidza michero nemiriwo uye kufamba nemwana muduku. Kuenda kune imwe musango kana pamhenderekedzo yegungwa (kwete kwete kamwechete uye zvakakwana, somuenzaniso, iwe unogona kuisa mutemo mune imwe pombi yemarara). Shamba shangu.
Nekunakidza mwana anoshanda kana achiita kune vakaroorana vane munhu mukuru.
Nenzira, ichi ndicho chikonzero chakanaka chokuti akatanga kushanda mubasa raamai vake, kana achiita pamba. Kana akabatanidza kugadzira, anogona kumubatsira kuuya nehuru, kushumira zvibhakera, nezvimwewo. Anokwanisa kubatsira kuchenesa uye kazhinji kuva pachigamba kana akaisa kumba, mabhokisi mabhokisi (mwana wechikoro anokwanisa zvakare kubata!), Kusunga michina, nezvimwewo. Kana baba vari muvezi wega, mwana anogona "kushanda" semudzidzi wake.
Sezvo mudzidzisi weimba, mwanasikana ane makore mana akandibatsira kugadzirira makirasi uye kuitungamirira, uye ndakazvitarisira kusunungurwa kwehanzvadzi nehanzvadzi dzevadzidzi kuitira kuti varege kupindira nehutano hwekudzidza uye havana kunzwa vachiregererwa.
Kwapera nguva yakati, akazova "akachenesa" mukati mevana - katatu pavhiki mushure memakirasi akaiswa muchikoro. Iye zvino ari kubatsira muvakidzani wake kuti atarisire gorosi rakaputsika mumunda wepamberi, uye akabvumirana nemuvakidzani wake pasina rubatsiro rwangu, iye oga. Ane makore mashanu.
Sezvaunogona kuona, pane mikana yakawanda mukuwana basa kune mwana wevhese makore ose. Uye mubhadharo wezvinyorwa panguva ino haifaniri.
Uyezve, zvakare, mitemo yakawanda inofanira kuonekwa.
1. Haugoni kubhadhara mabasa emhuri. Nokuti ichi chikamu chemuitiro. Uye nokuda kwekuita, sezvatinorangarira, haugone kuripa.
2. Kuita kwebasa uye kubhadhara mibairo kunofanira kuitika nguva dzose.
3. Kana mwana ane basa, ndiye munhu anoshanda, uye anokumbira maonero akakodzera kwaari. Iva akagadzirira izvi. Usanyengedzera zvaanotarisira. Zvechokwadi, kunyange munhu akashanda haagoni kudikanwa kunwa doro kana kukanda zvokudya kana asina makore makumi maviri nemashanu. Zvisinei, mushure memakore makumi maviri nemaviri hazvisizvowo.
4. Zvakanaka kuti nzvimbo ye mwana ine zita. Uku kuzvikudza kunokosha kwechecheche. Kunyange kana ichingori "mutariri wega wega" kana kuti "mbongoro nanny."
5. Mwana ane kodzero yekushandisa mubhadharo wake pachake.
6. Unofanira kumira kutenga zvinhu zvakasiyana. Iye zvino ndizvo zvaanoda. Iye zvino ari Munhu Akawana!
7. Chenjerera kuti basa racho harisi kupindira nebasa rayo guru. Kunyangwe izvi zvichiitika kazhinji.
Ndinovimba kuti nyaya ino ichabatsira mumwe munhu. Nhanho yakanaka, vadikanwa vabereki!
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