Kugadzirira kwechimiro chomwana hakusi nyore: unofunga kufunga zvinhu zvose uye uchizviyera. Kunyanya kuoma ndevamwe vanaamai vari mberi, avo vanotarisira kwete chete, asi vana vaviri panguva imwe chete.
YOKUDZIDZA ZVINHU ZVINHU
Amai vemapatya nguva dzose vanopoteredzwa nekucherechedza zvakanyanya. Vanachiremba vanobva kubvunzurudzo yevakadzi vanovatarisa nekudhakwa, uye dzimwe nguva vanounzwa kunze kwetsika kuva "boka rekutengesa", vachiruramisa nekuti nokuti munhu ane pamuviri akasiyana-siyana hachisi chinhu chinowanzoitika.
Hama neshamwari, sekutonga, zvinoshamisika nekubudirira kwakapetwa kaviri uye kutotanga kufungidzira mupfungwa dzezvipo zvezvipo kune vana vanodiwa pamusi wekuzvarwa kwavo.
Pamazuva ekupedzisira asati aberekwa, dumbu raamai revana vaviri rinoshamiswa nehukuru hwayo, uye kune iye nevanopinda naro rinoratidzika kuti rinogona kunyatsobatanidzwa muGuinness Book of Records.
Pakupera kwemwedzi wepfumbamwe, mukadzi, hongu, achazoshandiswa nemanzwiro evanofamba-uye nemibvunzo yevamwe nevashandi pamwe chete. Asi anoda kuve akagadzirira uye kune vamwe - kwete kunyanya kufadza - kumapato emamiriro ake ezvinhu. Somuenzaniso, mari inoshandiswa ne ultrasound diagnosis kana rimwe zuva rekugara muchipatara maererano nesungano ye "wholesale mama" pamusoro. Kugadzirira vana vadiki uye kuunganidza dowry, amai vechidiki havasi nguva dzose vanomirira zvinogona kudiwa mu "hupenyu hutsva". Tichaedza kuchinja mazita emapatya anodiwa kubva kumai maonero ekuona.
Pamwe - VESELEY!
Usakurumidza kutenga mabhesi maviri pakarepo. Vacheche vaunouya nayo kumba ndezvidiki uye hazvina basa zvokuti unogona kukwanisa kusvika pamubhedha umwe uye hazvibviri kupindirana. Uyezve, vanoona nezvepfungwa vanoti vana, kwemwedzi mipfumbamwe mapfumbamwe, vakapatsanura chizvaro chaamai vavo, vachava vakasununguka panguva yekutanga pedyo nemumwe. Chero kana zvichiitika, funga nezvekugadzirisa fenicha kuitira kuti pane nzvimbo yeimwe chikwata. Vose vana vakasiyana, zvichida iwe uchakurumidza kutenga imwe yechipiri. Kuongororwa kwevabereki vaviri vakaratidza kuti dzimwe hama nehanzvadzi dzinogona kurara pamwechete kwemwedzi mitanhatu, asi vamwe vanotanga kupindirana uye vanoda kuderedzwa "mune imwe nzvimbo" kubva mumwedzi wechipiri weupenyu. Nezvekuyamwisa, zvino, zvinopesana nechitendero chakakurumbira, vanaamai vazhinji vanogona kunwisa vana vaviri kunyange vasina kubatsiridza maitiro nemukaka. Uye, zvechokwadi, izvi zvinobatsira mutsamiro pakupa mapatya. Ichi chishamiso muzvinhu zvose chinogona kutengwa mune zvivako zvakasikwa kana kuti zvakagadzirwa kubva mumatanda yakawanda. Mutsika unoratidzika sehombe huru yehhashi. Amai, vagere pamubhedha, vanoisa pachiuno uye vanogara "vagari venhaka" kumativi ose emutsika. Kudyidzana kwevana panguva imwechete kune zvakawanda zvinobatsira. Pakutanga, nekuyamwa uku, kubudiswa kweprolactin mumuviri wemukadzi kunowedzera, iyo inobatsira pakuwanda kwemukaka. Chechipiri, nguva, iyo inoshayikwa, inoponeswa zvikuru. Vamwe vanotenda kuti nekudyisa simwana kamwechete kwevana vanopiwa kusakwanira kutarisirwa. Zvakanaka-iwe unogona dzimwe nguva kudya vana uye imwe panguva.
TINYA, TYA, TYA!
Paunosarudza gumbo rechirema, nyatsoteerera kuremera kwayo, zviyero zvakakwana, kushandiswa kwegungano-disassembly uye mugadziri. Sezvo mutemo, mune imwe nzvimbo yepamusoro, mufambisi wepamusoro unopindirana chete kana akaiswa. Hazvisi zvinotyisa - zvose zvakafanana nzira yekufamba-famba ichava nezvikamu zviviri. Kusiyana kukuru pakati pevatongi vaviri vari kuisa vana: kana vana vari pedyo nemumwe, kana imwe neyumwe, ne "locomotive". Chinhu chimwe nechimwe chine zvigaro uye zvisingabatsiri. Apo vana vanogara pedyo kune mumwe nemumwe, vanogona kutaura kune mumwe nemumwe, kuti munhu wese aone mafungiro akafanana anotanga, asi "locomotive" inonyanya kuwirirana-inopinda mufambisi yekutakura uye mubhokisi. Zvimwe zvemazuva ano vashanduri-vashanduri vane zvigadzirwa zvemucheka. Mukuwedzera pakufamba, vanogona kuita rimwe basa rakanaka: kana vana vari vaviri vasingazivikanwi vasati vavata, vanogona kudengenyeka.
DETERMINED DIFFERENCES
Munguva pfupi yapfuura, yakange iri tsika yekupfeka mapatya muzvimwe zvipfeko, nekuwedzera kusimbisa huzivi hwavo. Chiitiko chakadaro chinogona kutsamwisa unyoro mune dzimwe nguva kupfuura-nekuita kuti munhu wese afunge nezvemhuri inofamba. Asi ngatitarise dambudziko rekusarudzwa kwehupfeko kuburikidza nemeso omudzidzisi wepfungwa dzepfungwa: kukanganisa kukuru muhutano hwemapatya ndiko kugadzirwa kwavo, kusvibisa mutsetse pakati pehuviri hwakasiyana hwakasiyana. Izvi zvinodzivirira vana kuti varege kunzwa semunhu mumwe nomumwe: mumwe nomumwe wavo anotanga kuzviona se "isu", asi kwete se "Ini". Uye chokwadi ndechekuti, kakawanda sei tinonzwa kubva kuna amai vemapatya mazwi akadai: "vakomana vanorwara", "vanasikana vangu havaregi amai vangu vavete." Kunyange zvazvo aripo, mwana mumwe bedzi anogona kurwara, kapricious kana hafu-kurwara. Uye zvipfeko zvakafanana zvakare zvakare zvinotsanangura "pairing" yevana.
Nenzira yakanaka, misika yemazuva ano yezvokupfeka kwevana yakasiyana kwazvo, uye iwe unogona kusarudza kuwirirana pamwe chete, asi zvinhu zvakasiyana.