Basa rababa pakurera vana, kurayira vabereki

Musoro wehurukuro ino ibasa rababa pakurera vana, mazano kuvabereki. Kubatana nababa-mucheche uye amai nechecheche vakasiyana chaizvo. Amai vanowanzotanga kubatsira pakukurukura nemucheche; madzitateguru anofarira kushandisa zvikamu zvemuviri wavo: maoko - semuchinjikwa, mabvi - se "mudziyo wokudhinda". Iyi misiyano inoramba iripo muhuduku hwose. Vanababa vanofanira kugara vachipa rusununguko rwehutano hwehutano hwemwana, kazhinji vanomurega asingaonekwi uye kupa zvipembenene zvakanyanya uye mafiki, kuti aongorore nyika yakamupoteredza. Zvidzidzo zvinoratidza kuti vana vane madzibaba avo vanotora chikamu mukugadzirisa unhu hwemwana hunova nekusuwa kusuruvara uye kutsamwiswa pakuparadzana kubva kune vadikanwa, uye havatyi kana munhu mutsva achioneka. Uye izvi ndizvo chete kutanga kwemubatsiro uyo baba, ivo vanobatanidzwa mukurera mwana, vane hupenyu hwose hwemwana. Maererano nehurukuro yekutsvakurudza, vana vakadaro vane nguva shomanana yekubuda kwehasha dzisina kufara, yepamusoro yehutano hwekuvandudza, ivo vari nani kunosanganiswa mune zvekugarisana nevamwe vanhu, vane pfungwa mupfungwa. Vana vanodzidza pamusoro penyika kuburikidza nekukurukurirana zvakananga nevabereki vavo. Nokudaro, zvakakosha kwaari kuti anzwe kushamwaridzana nababa vake, mumwe munhu, kunze kweamai, avo vaasina hanya navo, avo vanomudawo. Baba vanogona kutarisa kwaari kuti haazi mutorwa paanotanga kunzwisisa nemeso ake nenzeve, asingamuzivi kare kare kuburikidza nekubata kwemaoko ake uye kunzwa kwekufema kwake. Zvechokwadi, ichi chikamu chakakosha zvikuru mukurera mwana, edza kusakanganiswa pachikwata chekutanga.

Kufarira uye rudo rwebaba zvinotarisirwa nemwana, pasinei nehutano. Zvakanaka kwazvo, kana baba vane nguva yakawanda yekusununguka, iyo yaanogona kupa kuna mwanakomana kana mwanasikana wake. Asi, kazhinji kacho, mushure mekudzoka kumba mushure mebasa, baba vanoda kutarisa TV kana kuverenga bhuku. Kunyangwe, dai taiziva nezvekudiwa kwatinoita vana. Asi usatamba nemwana usina tsvina. Zvinenge zviri nani kupa zviputi anenge 10-15 maminitsi, uye tsanangura kuti baba vakaneta uye vanoda kuzorora. Kazhinji vanababa vanowanzokurira mhare chaiyo kubva kumwana wavo, iyo inonzi mune zvose, nekuda kwezvo zvinova zvakaoma kwazvo kuti vangofara pamwe chete. Baba vanogona kutanga pazera remakore kuti vamudzidze kutamba basketball kana kutamba. Kana baba vacho vachigara vachitaura kumwana nokuda kwezvishoma, anotanga kunzwa kuti haakwanisi kunzwisisa uye kudzidza. Rimwe zuva mukomana achada mitambo kana akazvivimba uye ane chido chokutamba mubhola. Kurumbidzwa kwababa kunokosha kwaari kupfuura huta husingaperi uye mazano. Kutamba bhora ibasa guru, kana iri danho remukomana, rakasimbiswa neritsigiro rwababa vake. Mukomana haavi murume chaiye nokuti akaberekwa nemuviri wemurume. Anozviona somunhu uye anoita semunhu, nekuda kwekugona kwekugara nhaka baba vake kana mukoma mukuru kana mumwe mukomana wechikuru anowanotaura naye uye anoshandisa nguva yake. Anogona kutevedzera munhu waanonzwira tsitsi. Kana baba vachigara vachigumburwa uye vasingadi kunzwisisa zviito zvemuwanakomana wavo, zvichida mukomana anonzwa asinganzwisisiki nekambani yababa vake, uye pakati pevarume nevakomana. Mukomana akadaro zvichava nyore kutora muenzaniso nekugara nhaka amai vake. Izvi zvinoreva kuti, kana baba vachida kuti mwana wavo ave murume, anofanira kunge ari nyore kubata mwana uye kwete kumutsoropodza pakutamba mitambo nevasikana kana paanenge achichema, ezvo achiedza kunzwisiswa uye achitsanangurira mwanakomana wake zvaanoda kuita kuti abudirire mumitambo uye mune zvimwe zvose. Baba vanofanira kupedza nguva nemaonero akanaka nemwanakomana wavo, kuitira kuti aone kuti iye shamwari neshamwari. Baba nemwanakomana vanofanira kunge vane nguva yekufamba pamwe chete uye kufamba kunzvimbo dzinofadza. Uye zvechokwadi iwe haugone kuita kunze kwezvakavanzika zvako zvemurume uye izvo zvinokurukurwa chete nevarume.

Mukomana uyu muenzaniso wekutevedzera - baba, kunyange vakawanda vasingacherechedzi izvozvo kune musikana baba vanoita mumwe, kwete basa risina kukosha pakurera kwake. Musikana haatore muenzaniso kuna baba vake, asi nzvimbo yake inosimbisa kuzvivimba kwake. Papa anofanira kuyemura bvudzi rakanaka kana mhemberero yemusikana, kana chimwe chinhu icho musikana akachenjera achazviitira oga. Apo musikana anokura, baba vanofanira kuratidza kuti anoteerera iye uye, kana zvichibvira, kurukura nebhizimisi ravo naye. Uye kana mwanasikana ari kukura, mukomana wake anotanga kuonekwa, panguva ino zvakakosha zvikuru kuti baba vabata navo zvakanaka, zvakanaka, kana kuti zvisingatenderwi kana, mumaonero ake, murume uyu haasi akakodzera chaizvo kumusikana. Apo musikana anoziva muna baba izvo zvimunhu zvinoita kuti ave murume chaiye, achave akagadzirira nyika huru, iyo hafu yevarume. Kusarudza mwanasikana mune ramangwana paanova musikana, hupenyu hwake hwemhuri uye iye akasarudzwa mune zvakawanda hunofanirwa nerudzii rweukama hwakasimbiswa nababa vake pakuumbwa kwehupenyu hwake.

Kazhinji kazhinji vanababa vanotora mitambo ine mhepo nevana, nenzira, iyo inofanirwa nevana. Asi vana vanowanzonyanyisa kubva mumitambo yakadaro, sei vachitanga kuva nehope. Zvakakosha kuziva zvakajeka kuti pazera remakore maviri kusvika kumana, vana vanowanzorasikirwa nemanzwiro akaita sekutya, ruvengo uye rudo. Vana vaduku havanzwi mutsauko pakati pezvokwadi nenhema. Kana baba vachitamba shumba, ipapo mwana panguva iyoyo chaiye unofunga nezvake seshumba. Izvi zvinogona kuva nemigumisiro yakaipa kumwana. Nokudaro, mitambo yechisimba inofanira kunge ine mutsa uye ichitsvaga, kunyange kana mwana achida uye iye achikumbira zvakawanda. Zvinonyanya kukosha kuti mitambo ine mhepo isingadzingiri uye kurwisana, asi kungoita gymnastics. Kana mwana wacho achitya kwazvo, simira pakarepo. Kunyange zvakadaro unoda kutaura mazwi mashomanana nezvekuseka. Iwe haufaniri kumbodemba mwana wako. Dzimwe nguva, akatsamwira mwanakomana wake, baba vacho vanotsiva kutsamwa kwake nekuseka. Mwana wacho anoramba achinyadziswa. Mukubvunzurudza kwedu kwevabereki, tinoda kuona kuti kuseka kune simba kune chirango chevana pane imwe nguva.

Nenzira yakawanda, takataura pamusoro pebasa rababa pakurera vana, kubvunzurudzwa kwevabereki, isu tinotarisira, kwakanga kusiri pasina.