Asi kazhinji sarudzo yakaoma yakadaro inogadziriswa zvakanyanya, pasina kuongorora zvose zvinobudirira nehana, kuvimba chete nemanzwiro avo pachavo pasina kufungisisa kwakajeka uye kufungisisa kweimwe nzira dzingasarudzwa yekugadzirisa kukakavara, kana kunze kwemamiriro ezvinhu.
Mumakore achangobva kupfuura, nhamba dzekurambana dziri kusuruvara, izvo zvinoratidza mafungiro anonyanyisa pamusoro pewanano, kusindimara uye kusakwanisa, kana kuti, kukwanisa kugadzirisa, muhukama hwevechidiki. Pfungwa inogadziriswa pachedu, pamusoro pekugona kwechiitiko ichocho kune ivo pachavo, nokuti havaiti chekuita pamusoro peizvi. Asi zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti chero zvakadaro, zvose zvinoenderana newe, uye iwe unoda kuziva kuti ungadzivirire sei kurambana mumhuri.
Kuumba mhuri ibasawo basa, zvichida rakaoma kwazvo uye rinonakidza pane zvose zvingaita mabasa edu. Nekodzero dzakadai hazviberekerwi, dzinodzidza hupenyu huse, dzichivimba nezvinoitika, zvose pachedu uye kune dzimwe nyika. Ichokwadi kuti isu tose tinokwanisa kukanganisa, asi vashomanana chete vanogona kuvaruramisa.
Sei vanhu vachirambana?
Upenyu hwemhuri, mune zvose zvinoratidzika, hunoda kubva kune vakaroorana mukukura mupfungwa, mutoro uye kunzwisisa pane imwe danho rinokosha ravari kutora. Mushure mezvose, kusikwa kwemhuri hakuiti kupemberera kusingaperi kwemuchato. Uye mushure memutambo une ruzha, mazuva mashomanana anouya, ayo anowanzosiyana nemaonero edu pamusoro pokugara pamwe chete.
Kubva pakuona kwevanofunga nezvepfungwa, tinogona kusiyanisa zviverengeka zvezvikonzero zvinowanzoitika zvekurambana mumhuri:
Kusanzwisiswa kwevanhu. Hazvina mhosva kuti ringaita sei, asi chikonzero chinonyanya kukonzera kurambana ndicho chakanyatsopesana zvachose nevanhu. Uye kana mumwe munhu achipindura mubvunzo pamusoro pechikonzero "haana kusangana nevarume," usazvitora sechiratidzo, uye usingadi kutaura pamusoro pezvokwadi. Pfungwa yakadaro semunhu wemunhu unoita kuti tive isu. Mune nguva yekudanana murudo, tinoedza kuratidza unhu hwedu hwakanaka, munguva yehupenyu hwedu pamwechete zvese zvedu zvichange zvakaita sezvazviri. Nokuda kwekuchinja uku, kukakavara kunotanga.
- kunzwa kusachena. Sezvambotaurwa pamusoro apa, kusachena kwepfungwa kwevakaroorana, uye kusada kurarama pamwe chete, nguva dzose kunotungamirira kurambana. Izvi zvinonyanya kuitika kune vakaroorana vanoroora pavanenge vachiri vaduku uye zvimwe nekuda kwechido.
- Utungamiri chinangwa. Munhu wose anogona kuva mutungamiri, asi mumhuri, sekune imwe chikamu chehupenyu hwedu, mumwe munhu anofanira kutungamirira, uye mumwe munhu anofanira kuteerera. Kana pasina munhu anoda kupa, imba inoparadzwa.
Chii chandingaita kuti ndirege kudzivisa kuparadzana neni?
Nzira yekuponesa mhuri kubva kurambana, uye kuchengetedza rugare uye mutsipa ipapo, pasinei nezvizhinji, zvipfungwa zvepfungwa dzinoziva.
Sezvo chiito chinoratidza - chikonzero chekurambana, ichi ndicho chikonzero chekuchinja hukama muhuviri. Zvichida ukama hwako hwave hwakarashika mavara ayo akare, uye dzinoda kuongororwa zvishoma. Kurambana kunogona kufungidzirwa zvakafanana, chimwe chinangwa chekutengesa mupfungwa, chero zvingave. Saka nei uchizviisa pachena kune mafungiro asina kunaka, kana iwe unogona kuita kuwedzera kwezvakanaka?
Saizvozvowo, kuchengeta rugare mumhuri, kukakavara hakufaniri kudziviswa. Kukonana kuriwo kutaura. Kazhinji chete nenzira iyi, vanhu vanogona kutaurirana kusagutsikana kwavo kana kuda kune mumwe nemumwe. Nokudaro, mhuri inofanirwa inogona kufungidzirwa kwete imwe apo pasina mharo, asi iyo yavanogona kugadzirisa nayo. Mushure mezvose, zvinokosha zvakare kuziva ukama.
Ingodzidza kubvuma kutadza kwako uye kukumbira kukanganwirwa. Izwi rokuti "kukanganwira" rinoreva chimwe chezvinhu zvakaoma, sezvo kushandiswa kwayo kunoreva kubvuma mhosva, uye hakuna munhu anoda kuzviita ane mhosva. Asi, muhukama hwemhuri, nzvimbo yekudada iri kure neyokutanga, saka kubvuma mhosva, uye kukwanisa kukumbira kukanganwirwa nekuregererwa kunokosha zvikuru.
Chimwe chikanganiso icho vazhinji vakaroorana vanoita zuva rega rega kuendesa matambudziko ebasa kumhuri. Izvi hazvirevi kuti nyaya yebasa kubva ikozvino iko ndeyekuti iwe, tora rubatsiro kana mazano iwe unoda kunze kwekutora kutsamwa kwako kwose kana kusagutsikana kune munhu ari pedyo newe. Kana zvisina kudaro, basa racho richazadza hupenyu hwako hwose, uchidzinga mhuri kubva kwairi. Munyaya iyi, kurambana mumhuri hakugoni kudziviswa.
Vabereki.
Kazhinji chikonzero chinokonzera kurambana vabereki. Izvi zvinokonzerwa kwete chete nekuti nokuti nekuda kwechido chekubatsira ivo vakagadzirira kurarama hupenyu hwehukama hwechiduku, musarega kuenda uye muite danho pane iwe pachako. Izvo zvakanyanya nezvehukama mumhuri dzevakaroorana. Vanhu kubva paudiki vanowanzofananidza mararamiro evabereki vavo, uye vozoendesa ivo kumhuri yavo pachavo. Kusiyana kwakakura mumabhadhara emhuri yevabereki vemwenga nemwenga, vangakurumidza kutakura michero yavo yakaipa. Nokudaro, usati waisa tamputi mupasipoti yako, nyatsoongorora kuti wakasarudzwa ako anoshandiswa kurarama sei, nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare iwe ucharamba uchiona izvi.
Chinhu chikuru muhupenyu hwemhuri hachisi kutarisa zvikonzero zvekukakavara, saka hapana chikonzero chekutsvaga kurambana.