Pasina mubvunzo, sarudzo yakanaka ndeye rubatsiro rwechiremba wepfungwa mumamiriro ezvinhu nekudhakwa kwevana. Kana iwe uchida kuponesa mwana wako, kunyanya achiri kuyaruka, kubvisa, kutya uye kurangwa hakumushandi, kana achida kunwa, achakurumidza kuwana chikonzero, chikonzero, mukana, nezvimwe. Kana iwe uchida kubvisa mwana wekudhakwa, iwe unoda, pamusoro pezvose, kushanda mupfungwa dzake, kumusunungura pakuita chisarudzo chakanaka pamusoro pezvinwiwa, kushanda pakunamata kwake, manzwiro, kumubatsira muzvinhu zvose zvemweya.
Kazhinji vabereki vanodawo rubatsiro rwepfungwa. Kana vachiona mwana wavo somunhu anorwara, mamiriro acho haana tariro, anotambura, vanova vakavhengana. Uyezve, dambudziko rakadaro mumhuri rinotungamirira kukundikana kwepfungwa kwevabereki, kushungurudzika uye neuroses zvinokonzerwa nezviitiko zvevana vavo, uye izvi zvinonzwisisika uye zvinonzwisisika. Mwana anonwa doro uye anotambura nehudha kuderedzwa, unhu hwake hwakashata, mafungiro anoramba achiderera, kusava nehanya nehupenyu hunovapo, kusakwanisa kudzora pachake uye zviito zvake, kupindura nokuda kwemashoko ake, pane kuurayiwa kwechisimba, kuvhiringidzika, kunyengera kuvabereki , kusada kutaura navo. Mwana wacho anovhiringidzika mukati make, uye nokudaro anozvipa iye kumatambudziko ekudhakwa kwechidhakwa. Haakwanisi iye pachake kuvandudza mafungiro ake, kugadzirisa manzwiro ake, kuva nekutaurirana mune imwe kambani isina doro. Anongova nerubatsiro rwake anononoka uye anova nemafungiro epfungwa anobva kwaari. Mufaro wekunakidzwa, kusava nemafungiro mumafungo kunokwezva wechidiki, pasina iye haakwanise kurarama zvakare. Kunyange kana achida "kurega", kuchauya nguva apo iye anotanga zvakare kushandisa doro. Kukurukurira kukuru shamwari dzake. Kana mukomana ari kuyaruka ari kuyaruka, saka hapana mubvunzo kuti iyewo achabatanidzwa mukudhakwa kunwa doro, doro richaita sechiitiko chinowanzoitika, uye kunyange zvakasiyana, shamwari dzinokurudzira mwana kunwa navo, taura nyaya dzinonakidza dzinoitika panguva kana mushure mekunwa doro. Doro mupfungwa dzomwana anorega kutora nzvimbo yakadaro yaanofanira, haasati aita sokumukuvadza nokuda kwechimiro, nokuti, sezvazviri, munhu wese anonwa uye hapana anofa, migumisiro yake yakaipa inopesana, uye kushaya tsika, kusava nehana panguva yekudhakwa kwewaini - tempting. Doro rinotanga kutarisa mumaziso ake sechinwiwa chinomubvumira kuva nenguva yakanaka uye inofadza neshamwari, kufara, kuzvipa kune zvaanoita uye kuwana nyaya dzakawanda dzomufaro semugumisiro, kuwedzera imwe yemutambo muupenyu hwake. Somugumisiro, mwana wacho anova asingashamwaridzwi, doro rinogona kukonzera matambudziko ake akawanda, kusanganisira maererano nehama, shamwari, musikana, nzvimbo uye mutemo.
Kuvanhu vose vanotora doro kwenguva yakareba, rubatsiro rwechigadzirwa chepfungwa, psychotherapy kubva kune doro rinodhaka richabatsira. Izvi, kutanga kune zvose, zvichabatsira kusimbisa ukama mumhuri, nokuti mugumisiro wekudhakwa kwemwana kunoramba uchinyomba, kutaurirana, kukakavadzana, kusawirirana. Nguva nenguva, mwana angave ane manzwiro eine mhosva, asi haaponesi kubva kunwa doro, asi anogona kuita kuti nyika iwedzere kuipa - kusava nehanya, kusava nehanya, kunzwa kusina simba pamusoro pokurwisana nedoro. Kusava netariro kunotungamirira pakushaiwa kwekukurudzira. Vabereki havafaniri kupa mhosva mwana wavo, kumutsoropodza nokumurova, vachivapomera mhosva yematambudziko avo ose, zvisinei kuti zvakaoma zvakadini, asi vana vanofanira kunzwisiswa nekunzwisisa, vanofanira kunzwa rudo rwenyu uye kuvimba, kana zvisina kudaro havazokwanisi kurarama ivo pachavo. Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa inobatsira kubvisa kukakavara kusina kukwana, kusimbisa hukama pakati pemwana nevabereki vake, uye maonero ake kwaari, kumukurudzira kurwisa doro, kusvinudza meso ake kune zvinoguma uye kubvisa chifukidzo chepiniki chinoedza shure kwekuti doro rinotanga kuvanza. Kurapa kwomurwere kunotanga nguva iyo paanoona kudhakwa kwake uye kuvimba, anoda kuigadzirisa. Hapana munhu anogona kuchinja munhu kana asingadi, saka munhu anofanira kuziva kuti ane dambudziko rinokuvadza kwete iye chete, asi mhuri yake. Kubva panguva iyoyo, kemo yekuti mwana anoziva kuti ane dambudziko, uye kurapa kunotanga nedoro.
Kunyange zvakadaro, rubatsiro rwepfungwa haruzogadziri kurapwa kwechirwere chepfungwa-narcologist. Kana nyaya yacho yakaoma chaizvo uye pasina nzira dzinobatsira mukurwisana nekuzvidzivirira, mwana anofanira kuve achigadziriswa uye akaiswa mumakiriniki, kumukurudzira kune zvose zvitsva, kusanganisira mararamiro ehupenyu, kukanda tsika dzekare. Kunwa doro kunowanzoitika mumatambudziko emukati mumwana, nemhaka yeimwe rudzi rwekupesana mukati me mweya wake. Zvikonzero zvinogona kunge zvakasiyana zvakasiyana, asi pano kukurukura nemunhu wepfungwa yepamusoro kuchabatsira kuziva matambudziko aya ega kumwana uye kumubatsira kuti atsungirire navo, mune ramangwana mafungiro akadaro uye zvinokurudzira doro zvichanyangarika.
Pasina mubvunzo, rubatsiro rwemagariro epfungwa mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma hupenyu hunodiwa, uye dzimwe nguva inotamba kunyange basa rinokosha uye ndiyo nzira chete yekubuda. Asi haufaniri kukanganwa nezvebasa rinokosha revabereki mumwana, kubudirira kwavo kunowanzoenderana nemafambiro avo, pamwe chete nemigumisiro. Usapomera mwana wacho, kumutsigira uye usarega achikanganwa kuti unomuda. Zvadaro dambudziko rewaini richagadziriswa, uye pamwe chete iwe unogona kubatsira.