Ukama mushure mokuberekwa kwemwana

"Uchi ... iwe wakava baba." Saka rinotanga kurota kwakanaka kwehupenyu hwakareba uye hunofadza pedyo nemurume wako anodikanwa uye mwana ane rudo. Ko kurota kunoguma here? Nhamo, dzimwe nguva zvinoitika. "Darling" iri kuita "kwete yakanaka" zvachose. Kutanga nekusingaperi kwe "debriefing": ndiani anonyanya kuneta, sei asingakwanisi kugadzirisa mwana, kuti nei basa rakashandurwa, sei iwe usingakwanisi kupa kune shamwari dzako nguva yakawanda sepakutanga kuberekwa kwechigunwe, sei uchipedza kudya uye kurara nemamama nekurukuru, ita.

Urongwa urwu harungagoni kuverengwa kusvikira pakupedzisira. Mumhuri dzose kune "kukakavara kwavo" uye kukakavara. Asi nei chikonzero chakadaro chakafara chehupenyu hwako chakafukidzwa ne "gore rekupesana"? Nzira yekuchengetedza hukama mumhuri yemhuri. Harmony "Ini + Murume = Kidana = Rudo.

Kutanga, isu tiri vanhu vose, uye chero shanduko (kunyange iyo yakamirira kwenguva yakareba uye inofara) inoshandisa pfungwa dzedu. Tine nguva yekugadzirisa. Nguva inotipa isu mukana wokuti tishandise kune mamiriro ezvinhu matsva ekuvapo (munyaya iyi, mwana akaberekerwa) kuenderana nazvo. Murume wako haafaniri kuenda pakarepo, mune rimwe zuva, akazofanirwa nekuti iwe hausisiri vaviri, kuti haugone kutaura zvakare uye ukakoka vaparidzi chero nguva yezuva, haugoni kutarisa terevhizheni pakati peusiku, uye unogara uine iwe pakati peusiku, uchigumburwa. Usambofa wakakanganwa nezvazvo. Iyi "nguva yekugara" inoitika nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana kwenguva yakareba uye nenzira dzakasiyana dzakaoma. Muchiitiko ichi, mukadzi anogara ari nyore kuchinja. Akanga akapfeka gumbo pasi pemwoyo wake kwemwedzi mipfumbamwe. Akanga atova kushandiswa pakuwana zvimwe zvinetso uye achizvidzivirira neimwe nzira. Uye murume wacho? Kwaari, mabasa ose uye zvinetso zvinouya pashure pekuberekwa kwomwana. Ane denderedzwa yemabasa, kwaanofanirawo kushandiswa. Uye panguva ino Amai vanofanira kunge vakanyatsoteerera murume wavo. Zvakajeka kuti iwe zvino unoremedza-usiku hwekudyisa uye kurwara kwekufamba, uye, sechikonzero, kusasha kwehope. Asi munhu wose anoziva kuti hurongwa hwemhomho hwevarume hwakawanda kwazvo kune hwevakadzi uye hunoita kuti uwedzere pazviri.

Dzidza kuparadzira zviitiko nemitoro kuitira kuti iwe usatambura, asi murume haatambudzi (asi achiri kuda kuenda kunoshanda kuti asangane nezvido zvako). Semuenzaniso, kana chigamba chakatanga kuchema, chidzivirire iwe pachako. Kune, hongu, vanababa vanogona kutarisana nemisodzi yevana, asi nokuda kwechikamu chikuru, varume havatsungiri misodzi yevana (pane nokuti vanonzwisisa kusabatsirwa kwavo mukubvisa zvinokonzera kuchema). Kutora basa iri rinofadza, iwe uchaita basa rinoshamisa kune vose baba nevana. Iwe mwana haufaniri kutora maawa matatu "kwete kuchema." Iwe unongomupa chifuva uye vose vachazorora murugare.

Waiwanzopfeka mbatya dzemurume wako, kubika zvokudya zvitsva zuva rega rega, kunatswa kakawanda? Iye zvino zvinongoerekana zvisingakoshi nguva. Murume anotsamwa. Haana kushandiswa pakubika kwake uye nenzira yakarurama haazive kuti angasunga sei nzira yaunoita. Usafunganya. Hapana chikonzero chekupika uye kuva nekutya pamusoro pezvimwe zvipfeko. Kune nguva dzose nzira yekubuda nayo. Semuenzaniso, kubika zvokudya kwete iwe sezvawakagadzirira kare, asi pane zvakawanda. Kuti zvive zvakakwana kwemazuva mashoma. Ndizvo chete zvinofanira kushandura (uye izvi, murume wako achaita pasina matambudziko, kuburikidza nemanhasi emakamuri emisha). Kuchenesa? Simply! Usakanda zvinhu zvakapoteredza iwe-uye haufaniri kuchenesa. Sezvo hutano huchenjeri hunoti: "Haisi pavanenge vachena kunze, asi pavanenge vasina kukanganisa." Uye iwe unogona kushamba padenga kamwechete pavhiki. Iwe hauna nguva yekufambisa? Murume kune chidzidzo ichi achava zvakaoma kudzidzisa. Unoda unyanzvi uye kushivirira, kunyange kuisa zvishongo zvehembe. Asi isu tinoratidzika takakanganwa nezvemakuru vanopinda uye vanopedza usiku hwedu nesu? Sei vasingaiti kuti vakubatsire panguva yaunofudza? Ndinofunga kuti ivo vachafara kukubata nezvose zvamunoda (uye ivo vanozofarawo nemhando dzeduku duku dzemudiki dziri pamakona emakumbo).

Asi! Hatifaniri kukanganwa kuti "ane hanya" "vanasekuru vanodawo kuzorora kubva kwamuri (uye iwe kubva kwavari). Vaizoti sei wakaneta nevashanyi uye unoda kugara nemhuri yako, zvakanyanya zvokuti usagumbura? Kumukumbira kufamba, famba pamwe chete, rega nditungamirire motokari, ndiudze kuti unoonga sei rubatsiro rwayo, uye kana yava nguva yekuenda kumusha, ita kuti uende kubhasi rebhasi uye umire. Uye yeuchiyeuchidza kuti iwe zvechokwadi uchave wakamumirira pakushanyira rimwe zuva. Saka munhu wese achagutsikana nemumwe (uye mbuya, newe, uye murume wako).

Handigoni kubatsira asi kubata pane imwe nyaya yakadai sepabonde. Ichi chinhu chinokosha chehukama hwemhuri. Murume wako achawana zvakaoma kuita kunze kwepabonde (uye iwe, ndinofunga, zvakare). Asi zvakadini kana mwana akarara pasuo rinotevera? Iwe unoderedza zvanza zvako, dzoka shure kwako uye ... edza kurara. Mira! Uye chii chaunoda chifungidziro? Iwe une nguva huru yekushandira kwayo. Wakambokanganwa here kuti zvepabonde hazvisungiri pamubhedha? Fingasize - saka iwe uchazadzirana mukati mako uye mumhuri.

Uye nguva dzose yeuka kuti hakuna chinhu chinodhura kupfuura mhuri yako inofara. Musarega idyll ichinyadziswa nokuda kwekugadzikana kwepamba uye kukakavara. Tsvaga kutengesa. Chero zvakadaro, asi isu isu-vakadzi vanofanira "kubvisa chero magetsi.