Kuroora munhu asingadiwi

Iwe zvino watomanikidzwa kuroora munhu asingadiwi. Kunyange kana iwe usingadi zvachose. Iwe pachako unonyatsoziva kuti chii chakanaka kuisa musoro wako pamakore makumi maviri nematanhatu uye uzvibvunze kuti: "Ishe, ndaifungei pane gumi nemanomwe, uye ndiani aida imbwa idzi dzakakandwa pamuswe wemakore mapfumbamwe?" Asi iwe uchiri nenyota. Pano vamwe vanhu, vachizvibvunza mubvunzo iwoyo, vanoshandisa pamashizha uye gumi nemaviri, uye gumi nemashanu, uye kunyange makumi maviri emakore. Uye nei? Hongu, nokuti dzimwe nguva, kuita chisarudzo pamusoro pewanano. Tinovimba nezvinodiwa zvisingatenderwi nechishuvo chedu chekuroorwa.
Iwe wakatoti hongu. Aiwa, zvakanaka, zvose zvaive zvekudanana ... Maruva, doro rekudya uye ringlet mubhokisi rine moyo. Ndezvipi zvinetso izvi zvicharamba zvichiitika? Saka akazadza asina kufunga. Uye zvino hazvisi nyore kuramba. Izvi ndezvipi: nhasi "hongu", uye mangwana "kwete"? Haunzwisisiki uye hauna kutendeseka. Uye zvino iwe unofanira kuroorwa nomunhu asingadiwi. Kutaura zvazviri, hazvisi nyore kuvhura musera pasi pehombodo, hazvina musoro kuti ubvise zvese zvinotonhora mumutambo wekambani, uye hazvina kufanira kupa tariro dzenhema kumunhu anokuda.

Anokuda zvikuru. Saka zvino iwe unofanira kuroora naye. "Kuti uroorane," vakadzi vakachenjera vakadzidzisa, zvinokosha kune mumwe munhu anokuda, kwete kune umwe waunoda. Nokuti yekupedzisira kweganda kuchaenda, uye iwe uchazorora pamararamiro ako ose hupenyu hwako. " Asi hapana chimwe chinotyisa kupfuura kurarama pedyo neasingadiwi. Mamiriro ezvinhu anowedzera zvakare nokuti avo vekupedzisira vanoda chaizvo kufanana. Zvechokwadi, iwe hauzowedzere rudo rusingadikanwi kune muvakidzani wako mupfungwa yehutano hwepfungwa. Asi mamiriro ezvinhu akadai achaparadza unhu hwako nokukurumidza.

Ziva vedu, mutengesi! Mutengesi ndiyo yako yekare. Ndiani akaroora mumwe uye haana kukoshesa kukwirira kwehutsika hwako uye hutsika, hutsika dzakasiyana-siyana zvekugadzirira, zvekusununguka pabonde uye kubereka kunonakidza kumucheto wekweshure. Mutengesi anofanira kudzidza kuti vanyori vakawanikwa zvikuru, uye pakarepo. Saka mutengesi uye iyo inofanirwa, rega ikozvino zvikwata zvinoruma. Zvakanaka, chokwadi chokuti mutengesi acharova muromo wake kamwechete (uye kwete chechokwadi!), Uye hupenyu hwako huchaderera - ichi ndicho chegumi.
Uye vanhu vachatii? Ichi chikonzero chinowanzoshungurudza. "Akanunura muchato, fungidzira?!", Amai vainini mucheki yavo vane zvikwata zvine gumi nemashanu kubva mumba mako vachati. Uye saka chii? Iwe uchasarudza kufara uye kushorwa kwe "bitch" kubva kune zviuru gumi zvevatendi kusvika kugamuchirwa kweiyi yese tetenecks, inosanganiswa nehupenyu husina kunaka mukati meurongwa hwemakore mashanu.

Kana vasina kudana. Iwe unosungirwa kuti uroorane naye, nokuti iwe unotya kuti iwe haugoni kunyange kudanidzira zvimwe. Mushure mezvose, isu tose tinoziva kuti kune vasikana mapfumbamwe nekuda kwevanasikana mapfumbamwe maererano nehuwandu, uye mushure mekunge imwe nguva inguva isina kunaka kuti isaroora. Nokudaro, kutungamirirwa nemafungiro aya paanoita zvisarudzo zvinokosha - ichi ndicho chinhu chekupedzisira. Pashure pezvose, iwe uri pamba uri woga, uye avo vanoda kukurukurirana hupenyu hwako nguva dzose vachawanikwa. Saka kana iwe uchibhadhara kwavari, nokuti iyi ndiyo hupenyu hwako uye iwe une kodzero yekudzirasa iwe pachako. Uye kana iwe uchikakavadzana nenzira iyi, iwe unenge wakaroorwa, haugoni kusahadzika, uye kunze kwe, uyo anokufanirwa newe. Chikonzero choga chokuroorana ndechekuda chaizvo kugara nemunhu uyu hupenyu hwake hwose uye kubereka vanhu vakaita saiye.

Iwe unoda ropa rangu? Maererano nevasayendisiti, zvakazoitika kuti hafu yeawa yekukakavara inopedza simba remuviri kuporesa maronda. Izvi zvinova kunyanya kukosha panguva yekushandiswa kwekuvhiya. Muzvipatara, zvinonzwisisika kuitisa miedzo inokosha kuti uone kuti vachararama kwenguva yakareba sei kubva pakuvhiyiwa.