Masayendisiti haashandisi nepfungwa ye "healthy egoism". Vanotaura pamusoro pekuzviremekedza. Munhu anonyatsoongorora simba rake, anochengetedza zvido zvake. Anokwanisa kudzivirira nharaunda yake (nzvimbo yezvaanoda, zvibatanidzwa uye tsika) apo mumwe munhu anovhura pairi. Uye nepo zvisingadi kuputsa miganhu yevamwe vega, inofungidzirwa nezvinodiwa zvevakidzani vayo. Nzira yegoridhe yekuzviremekedza inobudirira muhuduku kuburikidza nedzidzo dzakanaka. Asi, marwa, kazhinji vanhu vanowana vabereki vavo - kwete vadzidzisi vane ruzivo. Uyezve museve "Ini ndiri ..." inomuka zvisina musoro - kana kuwira ...
Chirevo chevanhu vakadaro: "Zvinhu zvose kwaari, kwandiri hapana." Ivo vane ushuhuto vachauya vachishanda kumabasa, vachakwereta mari, kunyange ivo pachavo vasina chakanaka, vachasiya nzvimbo mumabhazi - pasinei nekuneta. Foni yavo hairegi, nokuti inogara ichibatsira uye ichibatsira. Muchidimbu pane zvinoda, asi kumashure maziso zvinowanzozonzi zita rinotyisa rokuti "nepotniki." Uye ivo vanoshandisa kushaya simba pane chero mukana.
Kubva pakuzvitarisira pasi
Vaiwanzoshandiswa kudzvinyirira matanho ekurera - ivo vaiita mutemo wekudziviswa uye bhanhire. Vakashandisawo manzwiro avo. Muhuduku, vanhu vanowanzozvipira vachinzwa: "Iwe uchazvibata iwe - tichakuda, uye uchange uine hukuru - ngatipe baba." Sezvo vakura, vanhu vakadaro vanoedza kutenga rudo rwevamwe kuburikidza nemufambiro wakanaka. Uye vanoramba vari mupfungwa mupfungwa. Vanofunga kuti vaduku-ndicho chikonzero vanoedza kufadza munhu wese, kuitira kuti akure ivo pachavo.
Vanhu vakadaro vanowanzodzwa nemanzwiro, vanowira mukuora mwoyo uye pangozi vachirasikirwa ivo pachavo. Sezvakanyorwa kare muchiGiriki chinyorwa cheNarciss uye nymph Echo, uyo akanyengeterera jaya re narcissistic kuti akarasikirwa nehogo yake. Zvisina kukodzera altruist njodzi dzisingagoni kuwana mhinduro kumibvunzo inoti: "Ndini ani?", "Ndinoreveiko munyika ino?". Uye ivo vanotambura kubva pane izvi.
Dzidza kufunga nezve vavariro dzavo uye zvido zvavo. Kutanga iwe unoda kusarudza zvakakosha kwauri, uye kudzivirira nzvimbo yako yako. Zvakakosha kuisa hupenyu hwekutanga uye kuvatevera. Dzimwe nguva unogona kuzviita iwe pachako. Asi muzviitiko zvakawanda, basa roga roga harigoneki. Zvakakosha kukumbira rubatsiro kubva kune chiremba wepfungwa. Kubudirira inzira yekuziva-nzira yekuita. Nekubatsira kwake, pfungwa dzevanhu dzinoshanduka, dzinofadza maitiro ake. Somuenzaniso, munhu anoedza kugara achibatsira munhu wose muhofisi, saka basa rakawanda riri kuitwa kwaari. Manzwiro ake anonzwa akasuruvara, nokuti haadi chaizvo kurima. Uye pakati pemafungiro nemanzwiro akajekesa pfungwa: "Ndinoshanda zvisina kunaka," "Handikoshese." Mhedziso: kuedza kufunga zvakasiyana: "Ndiri kungodzidza basa iri," "basa iri ndinoita zvakanakisisa kune vose," "Ndine unyanzvi," "Ndichazokoshesa." Mafungiro ezvepfungwa achabatsira kuchinja maitiro kune imwe yakakwana, kureva, kutora basa racho nesimba. Nokudaro munhu anozvipira anotora nhanho kusvika kune hutano hwakanaka: iye achaita basa rakawanda sezvaanogona kuita pasina kukuvadza hutano hwepanyama nehutsika. Uye uwane mufaro.
Saizvozvowo, mafungiro akawandisa mumhuri uye neshamwari anogadziriswa. Asi vadzidzisi vedu havatauri auto-training. Ichi chiyero chinongotarisa dambudziko racho, asi haringarigadziri kusvikira kuguma. Zvechokwadi, kukwira kweEgo nyota kuchaonekwa - uye vazhinji havazoifariri. Mukurwisana kunokanganisa kushorwa pane nzira yakanaka: zvakanakisisa kudzivirirwa kurwisa. Semuenzaniso, kana mune mibvunzo pabasa, unogona kuramba: "Vanonyanya kufarira ini here, nokuti ndinopedza zvose kune vamwe? Ndinotarisana nemabasa angu. " Uye iwe uchanzi uine. Shamwari kana mudiwa anokwanisa kuti: "Uye ushamwari chii (rudo) - kurarama kwauri uye kukanganwa pamusoro pako?" Ndiani anokubata iwe zvakanaka, achakubvuma iwe sezvauri.
Handioni munhu
Iyo yakaoma-core egoist inozviisa pakati penhau yacho uye haina kuverengwa nemunhu. Muchikwiriso, anokwidza mumwe mushushi wake wekushanyira, panguva yekudya kwemanheru achida kudya zvakanakisisa zvikuru, mari haigoni kukweretesa chero mumamiriro ezvinhu uye muhofisi ichachinja basa rake kumapfudzi evamwe vashandi.
Kubva pane kuzvidzora kunofungidzirwa. Izvi zvinoitika, kana vabereki vachifarira mwana wavo, funga kuti inovhenekera yenyika, inokanganwira chero zvipi zvayo. Emotionally, the egoist haizotambudziri zvakare. Asi pane ngozi yokuti vamwe vachamusiya kwaari. Kunyanya haisi yakanaka pazera rinoremekedzwa, kana munhu achida rubatsiro, asi havazodi kumutsigira.
Dzidza kuverenga nezvinodiwa nevamwe. Mumwe anofanirwa kunzwa kana mumwe munhu achida mamiriro ezvinhu amuri kumurega. Uye kana pasina mutsara uyu hazvibviri kubata, zviri nani kumubvunza munhu pamusoro payo zvakananga. Muhofisi yezvepfungwa, hutano hwekuzvikudza hunosimbiswa chaizvo. Pane mienzaniso kubva muupenyu, nyanzvi inoratidza zvakanakira "kufamba kuvanhu" -kwanisi yekufunga nezvemaonero evamwe, chido chekuuya kune rubatsiro rwevanhu. Vakuru Vake veMambo weEgoist vachanzwisisa zvikomborero zvekuita kwakadaro uye vachabva vatsiva hutongi hwakakwana hwekutonga kwakakwana kwehurumende yepamutemo "Ndinoraramira ini uye kune vamwe."
Mafungiro evamwe vashandi uye vanozivana vachachinja. Vanhu vachanyarara kakawanda kune "vakagadziriswa egoist", kumukoka kuti ashanyire, bhuku rekero richazadzwa nhamba itsva dzefoni. Kuzarura kune nyika uye kugamuchira kubva kwairi kudzoka chimwe chinhu chakanakodzera kushanda.
Mythology of the egoist
Ichokwadi, mazamu haasi chinhu, sezvazvakagara zvakashata kuva ugozvifunga. Kunyanya kuzvidzora rudo kunokonzera dzidzo isina kururama, uye kwete basa remakromosomes. Asi maonero asina kururama pamusoro pekutsvaga kwe egoism nenhaka iripo nokuti kazhinji vanhu vanonyora nzira dzokudzidzisa vabereki vavo. Uye kana munhu akakurira mumhepo "une zvinhu zvose" - zvichida, achapfuura nheyo dzakadai kumwana wake.
Sabailers - kazhinji varume, vasingazvibati - vakadzi. Simba rekuberekwa kwemwana - kuchengetedza vamwe mumadzimai kune zvakasikwa. Uyewo, vakadzi vanokwanisa kukwanisa kuita zvinhu zvakasiyana panguva imwe chete kupfuura varume. Guy Julia Caesar anogona kumira mukicheni uye kunyora mushumo - zviri nyore kuti asvike kubvumirano. Nokudaro kuzvipira kubasa, mumhuri.
Murume anoona chinangwa chimwe uye haagoni kupararira kune imwe. Kubudirira pane chimwe chinhu muupenyu, zviri nyore kuti ave munhu wega. Uyezve, pane musiyano mukurera. Mukomana uyu anowanzoitwa mukuru, anopiwa basa reomutsivi wezita rezita. Apo musikana uyu anodzidziswa kuzvipira iye oga nokuda kwevamwe. Asi izvi hazvirevi kuti vose vanozvida vanoenda kuMaris, uye chelovekolyuby - pane Venus. Dzimwe nguva, egoist dzakasimba ndidzo vakadzi, uye vane mwoyo yakanaka vanopisa vanhu varume.
Vadzimai veimba - vanopisa
Mashoko okuti "Ndakabereka uye ndakakuresa iwe, uri mune chikwereti chekuzvipira kwangu" muenzaniso wevakadzi vakafukidzirwa egoism. Mudzimai ari oga ndiye achava mukadzi weimba (murume anowana). Uye zvino anosimbisa kuvana vake nevanasikana kuti nokuda kwake iye akapira basa. Nhamo, vana ava vanopedzisira vachinzwa kuva nemhosva kune mai vavo, uye kazhinji vakaumba izvo zvinonzi kuzviuraya. Vanotungamira mararamiro asina maturo mumutauro we "kusakosha kwangu" - kuendesa motokari pamhepo yakasimba, kukwira makomo, svetuka neparachute (kushandiswa kunoshandiswa apo vanhu ava vane mhuri). Kugadzirisa chinzvimbo chechikadzi chibairo chinokwanisika, kana kuchibatsira kuti zvive pachena kunze kwemba. Semuenzaniso, kubatanidzwa mukuratidza, kusimba-kuratidza pachako kwete kwete patafura chete, asiwo mune dzimwe nzvimbo dzekuve.