Pasinei kwete sezvatinoita. Asi masayendisiti akaratidza zvakasiyana. Munguva pfupi yapfuura, nyanzvi dzevanhu veAmerica dzakaona kuti varume vanotambura nezvinetso muupenyu hwavo hwega kupfuura vakadzi. Anna Barrett weYunivhesiti yeFlorida naRobin Simon vanobva kuYunivhesiti ye Wake Forest vakabvunzurudza vechidiki nevane vasikana vane chiuru uye vakawana kuti kana vaviri vakaroorana vachiuya nenguva yakaoma, zviitiko zvakanyanya zvepabonde zvinowedzera, kunyange zvisingazviratidzi pachena. Mukuwedzera, vanoita zvakanyanyisa zvakanyanya kusvika pakuyerera kwehukama hwepabonde. Kuwirirana rudo kunounza mazwiro anonakidza uye kunowedzera hutano hwepfungwa. Ichokwadi, kutsvakurudza hakusi zvachose kusingaoneki. Masayendisiti akacherechedza mibvunzo yevadzidzi chete, uye apo kuongororwa kwakaitwa pakati pevakaroorana, kupesana kwakakosha mune zvakaitika kune varume nevakadzi hazvina kuonekwa. Asi zvakadaro kuwanikwa kunotaridzika chaizvo. Uye, zvinoratidzika, tine zvikonzero zvose zvekutenda muzviverengero. Hazviiti kuti uite nharo newaunoda uye utungamirire runyararo runyararo?
Uye taura
Vatsvakurudzi veAmerica vakaratidza kuti chikonzero chikuru chekusiya mafungiro evanhu mushure mokuzorora ndechokuti musikana wacho anobva atanga kuva munhu oga waanotaura navo zvakanyanya. Ndiko kuti, zvisinei kuti zvakanaka sei ukama hwake naamai vake neshamwari, zvizadza mweya wose, anogona chete iwe. Uye iwe, kusiyana naye, uri pedyo uye pachena kune shamwari, vabereki nevarume vemazino. "Zviri nyore kuti mukadzi agutse chido chekutaurirana zvakavanzika. Varume vazhinji vanogona kuzviita nekutambudzika - vanomanikidzwa nekutya kushamwaridzana, uye kusununguka kunongororwa nenzira isina kururama sekusava nesimba, "anotsanangura kudaro nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Alexander Kuznetsov. Kuve wakachena uye wakarurama uye panguva imwe chete haunzwi sezvipfeko vatinoda vedu vanogona chete nesu, nokuti isu nokuda kwavo, sekutaura, ihwo hutano husina simba. Uye nekushamwaridzana nevarume hakurevi kutaurirana kwenguva refu uye kupupura kunotyisa. Vanoda humwe rubatsiro, kuvimba uye kunzwisisa kwakanaka.
Apo zvose zvinoguma
Mukudzidza kwevanhu vanogara mune zvezvemagariro evanhu, pane kumwe kujekesa, asi kukosha kunokosha - varume vanowanzokakavadzana nekukakavadzana mumurume nemudzimai, asi ivo vari kunyanya kushivirira gaka. Asi, maererano nekucherechedza kwemuongorori mutengesi Elena Lazarenko, kupatsanurwa kunopiwa kwavari vasinganzwisisi, sezvo kazhinji vasingafungi kuti chii chinokosha mupfungwa uhu hune. "Kutonga nezvakaitika kwandiri, varume vanowanzotendeukira kune vakadzi kuti vabatsirwe mupfungwa kana rudo rwapera. Kunze kwekudaro, ivo vachiri vashoma kudarika kushanyira mupfungwa wepfungwa munyika yedu, "akadaro. Maererano nemutapi, izvi ndezvekuti varume kwenguva yakareba vanotenda nomwoyo wose: hukama hunodiwa, kutanga, wese, uye, saka, anofanira kutarisira. Asi kana pane kuparadzaniswa, kwavari ndiko kushamisika kwakakura kwekunzwa kusina maturo, izvo zvavanotanga kuona. Vakadzi, nekusiyana, vanonyatsoziva kukosha kwehukama uye kunyange kuwedzeredza. "Varume vanowanzouya kwandiri nekureurura kwakadaro:" Ndakarwa munzvimbo dzakatsva, ndakafamba pasi rose. Ndine bhizimisi rinobudirira. Hapana uye hapana anotya. Asi akange asingakwanisi kufungidzira kuti kunze kwake kwaizotanga. Ndiudze, chii chakashata neni? Ndaifunga kuti taizoparadzanisa uye zvose zvaizoguma. Uye zvino handigone kurara pasina, handigoni kudya! "- anodaro Elena Lazarenko. - Ndiko, munhu asingazivi uye asingazivi zvaanoda mupfungwa, pakupedzisira anova kuvimba neukama umo izvo zvido izvi zvisinganyatsogutsikana. Kazhinji izvi zvinowanzoitika nevana vaDizhuan, vanoramba vachichinja vakadzi, vasingabvumi ani naani ane ukama hwepfungwa uye vanoramba kudiwa kwahwo. "
Zvinoreva misodzi
Tinogona kuramba tichichema. Kunyange pachena. Uye iyo inobvisa zvachose kushungurudzika. Varume vanochengetedza ruzivo mukati mavo. "Dzimwe nguva ndinongomhanyira musikana wangu. Anoputsa mahwendefa maviri kumadziro, mbambo uye akagadzirira kumira, - Evgeni anobvuma (27). - Uye handigone kukandira ndiro kana kuputsa fenisha, nokuti ndine simba, zviito zvakadaro zvichaita sechisimba. Akangotya. Zvichida, ndicho chikonzero ini nguva dzose ndinoda, nguva yakawanda kupfuura musikana wangu, kuti ndidzoke kubva mukurwisana kunotevera. " Mumwe achaedza kubvisa kushungurudzika mupfungwa mumitambo yekurovedza, imwe - inonaya doro, uye wechitatu achaona paTV uye achakumirira kuti ipfuure pachayo. Vakomana kubva paudiki vanoudzwa: musambochema, iwe uri munhu wemunguva yemberi. Kuratidza unyoro, kutya, kusuruvara, kushungurudzwa kwevakawanda vavo hazvibviri. Uye naizvozvo manzwiro ayo akaoma kutaura, varume, kazhinji anotsiva zvakanyanya kuzivikanwa uye zvakachengeteka - kutsamwa kana kushungurudzika. Asi kazhinji havatauri zvavanosangana nazvo pachena uye vanosiya manzwiro akavharwa mukati mukati. Izvi sechigumisiro zvinogona kutungamirira kumagariro e-psychosomatic, kuora mwoyo, kutya kwekutya.
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"Taigara tichikakavadzana nemudzimai wangu wokutanga. Zvikonzero zvaive zuva rega rega: ndiani achaenda mangwanani kuti afambe neimbwa, uyo akaputsa ketheni yemagetsi uye chii chaasarudza mutsva, chii chaunofanira kuita pamusi wevhiki? Mifungo yedu yakasiyana zvakananga mune zvose, - anodaro Anton (32). Pakutanga ndaifunga: zvose nokuti tine zvishoma chaizvo zvakafanana. Asi gare gare ndakaziva kuti ndakanga ndaurayiwa chaizvo nekuti ndakanga ndisiri simba rake. Kunyangwe ne teti. " Kurwisana kwevari vaviri kunokanganisa murume kuzviremekedza. Zvechokwadi, isu hatinzwisisiki kana tisingateereri pane zvatinofunga kana (zvinotyisa!) Kuenzaniswa nevamwe. Asi kune munhu waunoda, kukakavadzana uye kushungurudzika zvinoreva kusakundikana kwake kwakakwana munharaunda yorudo. Uye kupona kukundikana kune mumwe munhu aimbozviona seanokunda hazvisi nyore. Kune munhu, kukundikana mune bhizinesi rinoremekedza kwaari chirwere chikuru chekuzviremekedza kupfuura mukadzi. Idzo pfungwa dze "kukunda" uye "kukunda" dzakanyanyisa kumuratidza. Ndicho chikonzero nei varume vakaputsa zvakanyanya zvakanyanya uye kwenguva refu. Zvinosvika pakuti hutano hwakasimba hwakasimba kudarika isu mune zvose, kusanganisira manzwiro. Chero bedzi izvi havazobvumi.