Sei usina kukwanisa kuwana murume wezviroto zvako kusvika ikozvino?
Maererano nevepfungwa dzepfungwa, mararamiro okusurukirwa chinetso cheunhu uye maonero kuvanhu. Kazhinji vakadzi havadi avo vanovada chaizvo. Zvichida izvi zvinogadziriswa nesangano remazuva ano kana kuti chirevo chemirairo yevabereki. Maererano nekutsvakurudza nezvemagariro evanhu, vazhinji vevasikana vakapindura vasinganetseki kuti vanoda kuda pedyo navo murume akadai ane gomo remisungo, avo vane rudo uye zvakaitika mune zvese zviri pachena. Hungu, inogona kuva yakanaka, asi pakutanga pakuona. Nditendei, nokuda kwehupenyu hwemhuri varume ava havakwanisi zvachose, uye ivo pachavo havaiti zvakanyanya. Makopi akafanana haafaniri kutarisira kuti kutonhora kwako ndei, kana iwe usina kufara, zvaunowana uye zvirongwa zvemangwana hazvingafadzi kwaari. Iwe unofanirwa kunzwisisa kuti vana vaAlfa vanongoraramira mukuzvifadza kwavo uye ego, vanoraramira ivo pachavo. Saka usashamisika kana "chibereko" chakafanana mumatangiro ekutanga mushure mekunge uzive pasina tinge yehana inenge isina hanya nheyo dzako nemashoko.
Pano panewo maonero akakurumbira zvokuti vazhinji vevakadzi vedu vaduku vanonyanya kufarira muhutano hwemari hwemurume, basa rake kukura. Hungu, kune rumwe rutivi - ichi chido chakakonzerwa nekuti chero musikana anoda kuti mhuri yake nevana vasadikanwa zvakanyanya. Mukuwedzera, kuwanikwa kwemari kunotsigira hupenyu hwakajeka uye hunofadza kunze kwekusina ivo. Asi hazvina mhosva kuti izvi zvingave zvakatukwa sei, varume vakapfuma, kakawanda kupfuura kwete, vanosarudza avo vakaenzana. Hongu, pane nyaya dzakawanda pamusoro peCinderella, asi hukama huri hwakakosha uye kazhinji pamikana yose munhu anoyeuchidza musanangurwa wake kuti ndezvipi zvinowanikwa. Nditende, dzimwe nguva kubva kune mupfumi, asi akangwara uye ane chinangwa, iwe unogona kusimbisa mambo ane simba, uyo waunoda kuva rudo uye muse. Mushure mezvose, sezvavanotaura, shure kwevanhu vose vanobudirira ndeye mukadzi akachenjera anotenda maari.
Kuti urege kuita zvikanganiso nemitemo yekusarudza ramangwana, zvinokurudzirwa zvikuru kuti iwe upfuure kuongororwa kwevanhu uye uwane psychotype iwe pachako. Iyi nzira inoita kuti iwe uone zvakasiyana kune avo vachawana nzira yako muupenyu. Chibvumirano chehukama hunofadza uye hwakakomba ndehuhutano hwevanyori nemweya, zvinowanzodiwa uye maonero pamusoro pehupenyu.
Unobvisa sei kusurukirwa uye kuwana shamwari yako muupenyu?
Kutanga, iwe unoda kubvisa mutoro wepfungwa unokudzivirira kubva pakuona varume kazhinji, kuti uone kuti ndiani iye chaizvoizvo. Nokuda kweizvi iwe unoda, kutanga uye zvakakosha, kubvisa kubva iwe pachako masikisi ekukosha uye kuzvikudza, kuzviita iwe, kwete kutya kuve wakanyanyisa uye kubvunza nemunhu anofarira nezvehupenyu hwake. Kana uyu ari shamwari yako yega, iyewo achafara kuva nehanya newe. Zvibvumire iwe unhu hwakanaka hwokutaura zvauri mupfungwa dzako, zvaunoda kubva muupenyu. Nditende, ivo vasiri mumugwagwa pamwe newe - vachabva vaenda kamwechete, izvi hazvifaniri kushungurudzwa. Ndivanaani vane mavhisi mamwechete - vachagara kwemakore mazhinji.
Chinhu chikuru hachisi chokuzviisa iwe sechinangwa chikuru - kuwana murume kune ukama hwakakomba. Urarame, ita, kukurukura neshamwari, dzidza chimwe chinhu chitsva uye iwe hauzooni kuti rudo ruchapinda sei muupenyu hwako. Mushure mezvose, sezvakanyorwa zvekare mabhuku eShakespeare akati: "Rudo runotiza kune avo vanoritevera, asi kune avo vanotiza, vanomhanyira kumutsipa ..." Tinovimba zvikuru kuti iwe unonzwisisa - hapana zvikwama zvakakwana uye miviri yakakanganiswa haingatsivi kufara kwevanhu kunoda rudo uye kudiwa. Tinoda kuwana munhu wezviroto zvako munguva pfupi!