Chimwe chezvikamu zvebasa rezvemagariro ehupfungwa hwemhuri chiri kubatsira kugadzirisa zvinetso zvine chokuita noukama pakati pevakaroorana, ingave kupandukira, matambudziko eurongwa hwepabonde kana kurambana. Mune zvimwe zviitiko, kunyange mafungiro echokwadi pakati pemurume nemudzimai haisi chivimbiso chekunzwisisana pamwe chete mumhuri: kugara pamwe nguva zhinji kunosanganisira kuunganidza zvisinganzwisisiki zvikwangwani, kukakavadzana kwakanyanya uye kukakavadzana. Uye dzimwe nguva kune kukwana kwakakwana kukurukurirana kwedambudziko. Kunyange kurarama zvakasiyana, murume nemudzimai vanogona kuwana maawa mashoma pavhiki kuitira kuti vataure nemoyo wose nenyanzvi pamusoro pekusiyana kwavo kwemaonero, kunzwisisa zvikonzero zvekuitika kwavo uye kuwana nzira yekugadzirisa mhinduro yavo, vane tariro yezvakanaka zvezviitiko.
Avo vanoita zvinetso havasi nguva dzose vakaroorana pachavo. Kazhinji, murume nemudzimai wake vanongoda kuenderana nemamiriro ezvinhu matsva ehupenyu, sekushandura nzvimbo yekugara, kugadziridza pasi rose kubasa, kukanganisa kwemhuri, zvirwere nezvimwe zvakadaro.
Rwendo rwakabatana kuenda kumudzimai wepfungwa dzepfungwa pasina mubvunzo rinobatsira pakuvandudza kuvimbana pakati pevakaroorana. Takatarisa mamiriro ezvinhu mumhuri nekuonekwa patsva, zvichava nyore kuwana chikonzero chematambudziko uye kutsanangura nzira dzokudzivisa nadzo.
Imwe nyanzvi yepfungwa yepfungwa inogadzira purogiramu yemunhu mumwe nemudzimai vakaroorana, sezvo zvikonzero zvekusawirirana pakati pevaviri vavo. Nzira iyo yakasanangana kwete chete nekukakavara uku, asiwo kune unhu hweumwe neumwe wevakaroorana. Pashure pezvose, sezvinozivikanwa, ingani matambudziko aripo, uye nzira dzakawanda dzokugadzirisa nadzo.
Zvikonzero zvekushanyira chiremba wepfungwa dzemhuri hazvirevi kumatambudziko ehukama pakati pemurume nemudzimai. Chikonzero chekushanyirwa kunogona kuvawo ukama hwehukama pakati pevabereki nevana kana kutaurirana kwomwana pamwe nevanhu vanovapoteredza. Kune mizhinji mienzaniso yakadai kubva muupenyu: kusavimba, kushanda kuchikoro kusina kunaka, kukakavara, kuchinja kwemaitiro nemaitiro, zvikanganiso zvakasiyana, zvinetso mukukurukura nevana vezera rimwechete nevakwegura.
Munhu mukuru ndiye kuchengetedza kukuru kwevabereki. Asi kunyange kutarisira maduku gare gare kunogona kutungamirira kumigumisiro yakaipisisa - kusabvumirana mukukurukurirana kwemwana nemhuri uye pamwe nevanhu vanopoteredza munzanga.
Sezvakaitwa mumuenzaniso nevakaroorana, mudzidzi wepfungwa anosarudza nzira inokosha kune mutengi. Zvakakodzera kureva kuti mudzidzi wepfungwa dzepfungwa anogona kubata mazano nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana: anogona kushanda nemhuri yose, nevakaroorana, mwana nevabereki vake, nemumwe munhu kubva kumhuri. Vanhu vanogonawo kutarisa, avo nekuda kwechikonzero chimwe kana chimwe havagari mumhuri kana kuti havana chavo panguva ino. Chero ani zvake anogona kushanyira rubatsiro rwechiremba wepfungwa dzemhuri.
Vanhu vazhinji vanofarira kudiwa kwekutsvaga rubatsiro kubva kune unyanzvi hwepfungwa. Vanonetseka kuti munhu ari mumugwagwa haasi asina hanya nemhinduro yezvinetso zvavo, sezvo asina ruzivo nemumwe wemhuri.
Pasinei nezvose, zvakakodzera kuedza. Mushure mezvose, vanyori vepfungwa dzepfungwa ndivo vadzidzisi vechokwadi vanogona kukubatsira kuti unzwisise chinetso kubva pane chinzvimbo chemumwe nyanzvi. Havakukumanikidze kuti muite muuchenjeri hwavo, asi kungokutungamirirai, vachibatsira kuti vabve mumamiriro ezvinhu uye kukurudzira nhengo dzemhuri kufungisisa nezvemamiriro avo ezvinhu. Vanokuendesa kune chisarudzo chakanaka, icho murwere wose, hongu, anogona kuuya kwaari.
Iye zvino tinokwanisa kupa mhinduro chaiyo kumubvunzo wekuti ndiani chiremba wepfungwa mumhuri. Ndiye munhu anoziva basa rake zvakanaka, izvo zvichabatsira kuvandudza kutaurirana pamwe chete mumhuri, kuita kuti hukama pakati pevabereki nevana huenderane zvakanyanya, kubatsira kubvisa zvakajeka manzwiro avo, kusabatisa kudarika. Uyewo kuti uwane nzira yekubuda kwezvirongwa zviripo, kugadzirisa tsika dzakagadzikana dzehutsika hwako uye kugadzira zvitsva, zvakanyanya zvakanakisisa, kuziva zvikonzero zvekusagadzikana kwepfungwa mumamiriro ezvinhu mumhuri kana kushanda purogiramu yega yevabereki vari mberi.