Chinhu chinonyanya kufadza ndechokuti vakadzi vakatanga kuteerera maonero evanhu, kunyanya avo avo vakagumburwa zvakadzama mumhando iyi yehukama pane zvavanowana. Kushivirira munyika yemazuva ano kwave kuchiva nzvimbo shomanana yehukama hwepamusoro, kana kuti hahuna kumbove. Zvisinei, panguva dzose shamwari dzechikadzi dzakapa zvokudya zvekufunga, kukurukura. Zviuru zviviri zvemakore apfuura, Aristotle, akaedza kujekesa marudzi akasiyana ehukama uye kurondedzera ichi chiitiko sese. Pamusoro pehukama hwevakadzi ivo vakanyora zvinyorwa zvekare, vakanyora nhetembo, nziyo. Uye kana pfungwa iyi yakagamuchirwa zvakanyanya, ipapo pane muenzaniso wakaitwa wehukama.
Pari zvino, nhepfenyuro yevanhu vakawanda inonyora kunyora pamusoro pekuti munyika yanhasi, ushamwari hwevakadzi huri kurega kuvapo, sezvikamu zvakasununguka zvehukama. Basa risingagumi, mizinga yakakwirira, kupererwa kwakanyanya kwenguva yakawanda kunoita ushamwari panzvimbo yehukama hwehukama. Zvinofanira kuonekwa kuti pano maonero angave asina kururama. Pane zvakasiyana, kune boka revatsigiri vezvinhu zvinogona kuvapo munyika yanhasi yehukama hwevakadzi, saizvozvo. Inogona kunyanya kusimba uye yakatendeseka kupfuura kare, mumamiriro ezvinhu ekuderedza basa. Ikoko kwaiwanzova nenguva yakawanda yekusununguka. Kusununguka kwakasarudzwa kwevakadzi, kunyanya vakadzi vasina kuroorwa, kunogona kutungamirira pakubuda nekupararira kwemarudzi ose emakakatanwa.
Ushamwari hwakashata. Nzira huru dzehutano hwehukama uhwu kuvimbika, kutaurirana, kuzvipira uye kukwanisa kubvuma mumwe munhu sezvaari, pasina kuedza kuchinja uye kuchinja "iwe pachako." Uye, zvechokwadi, kuvimba uye kukwanisa kuchengeta zvakavanzika. Kwete vanhu vazhinji vanoziva izvi. Vangani vakadzi vakambova shamwari kwemakore mazhinji, vakangoerekana vauya nehukama nokuti mumwe wavo aisagona kuchengetedza chakavanzika chemumwe munhu. Pane chishuvo chakavanzika mumusikana asina simba kuti ataure chakavanzika kunyika yose nhau dzinokosha. Zvakanaka, kana nyaya iyi iine chimiro chechimiro, umo vazhinji vanoita basa vanobatanidzwa - ndizvo zvakaoma kukunda. Zvichida, chimwe chikonzero chakakosha chekukosha kukuru, nei hukama hwehukama hwakaputsika hunyengeri. Apo zvose zvinosanganiswa pamwechete: shamwari, varume, madzimai, vana. Kuchinja kwomunhu waunoda neshamwari yake yepamusoro ndiyo yekare yemhando. Vakawanda vevakadzi vanotengeswa. Vazhinji vavo vanogara vakagumburwa uye vanorarama, vasingabvumiri vamwe shamwari kuti vauye kumba kwavo. Kubva pamaonero avo, zvishoma-kuona kuti zvinyengedzwe zvakare pamusoro payo. Vamwe, kazhinji, vachienda kune rimwechete, vanodzokorora zvikanganiso zvavo uye vanoramba vachiva shamwari.
Sezvatinoona, mhinduro isina kukodzera kumubvunzo: pane hukama hwevakadzi here munyika yanhasi? Sezvenguva dzose, maonero achaparadzaniswa muviri. Uye izvo zvose izvi zvinopera, vadziviriri vehukama hwevakadzi nevanopikisa, vachave vakarurama nenzira yavo pachavo. Pane zvakawanda zvinopesana uye zvinopesana neizvi.
Kubatana nemafungiro akanaka pamusoro pehupenyu, ndichiri kuda kutenda kune zvakanakisisa nekusimudzira ushamwari, kuti ndipe mukana wekuvapo. Munyika ipi neipi: yemazuva ano kana yapfuura - ushamwari pakati pevakadzi, hwakanga huripo uye huchavapo. Mumwe munhu aive nerombo, uye mumwe munhu akazvidemba zvikuru, saka pakanga pane kupatsanurana kwemaonero mumapoka maviri. Asi vakadzi, muzhinji vavo, vanhu vanomhanya-mhanya, vane tsitsi. Naizvozvo vanogona kukanganwira nomwoyo wose uye rudo. Uye manzwiro aya ndiyo simba rekufambisa kwehukama pakati pevanhu uye pakati pevakadzi vaviri, kazhinji.