Saka, iwe, kamwe, wakashamisika kuti unganyengetedza sei murume wake kuti arege kunwa. Akadzoka zvakare kubva kune shamwari kana muvakidzani akadhakwa uye iwe zvakare waifanira kubata naye. Inzwisise pachako zvakajeka uye zvakajeka kuti iwe hausi amai vake, asi mudzimai wake, uye ushingi hunyatsonzwisisa kuti murume wake anetseke.
Mukati, kutanga, kunyengetedza murume wake kuti arege kunwa, unoda kurega doro uye udza murume wako kuti une mutemo wakaoma mumhuri yako. Chero chipi zvacho chekuregererwa kwako iwe pachako uye iye, kunyange kana pane mazororo makuru, achangoshanda pane murume wako, akafanana nekatsvuku pane imwe nzombe, uye iwe zvechokwadi haugone kukwanisa kumutsa murume wako kurega kunwa.
Nzira yekunyengetedza murume wake kuti arege kunwa, kana akave akawira pasi uye asingadi kutungamirira hupenyu husinganzwisisiki - iyi ichokwadi mubvunzo unonyatsopindira kuvadzidzisi veRussia. Munyika kune nzira dzakanaka uye dzakavonekwa dzekunyengetedza murume wake kuti arege kunwa doro. Uye saka, taura, iwe wakawana mhinduro kumubvunzo wekunyengetedza murume wake kuti arege kunwa, uye kwekanguva akasarudza kurega kunwa. Zvinotora mwedzi kana maviri uye kamwe-kamwe murume wako anotanga kunwa zvakare uye haasi kuzobatana nemuitiro uyu wakaipa. Uye chikonzero chekuita kwake chinogona kungova chinhu chimwe chete: kana iwe uchikwanisa kuita kuti murume wako arege kunwa, haazovi nechokuita, Haazoziva zvaanofanira kuita munguva yehupenyu hutsinye. Shamwari, kunwa shamwari dzichabva kwaari, uye iye, asingakwanisi kurwisana neshamwari, anobva atanga kunwa zvakare. Uyewo varume, avo mudzimai wavo akakwanisa kunyengetedza kuti varege kunwa, vanogona kusimba zvakasimba mumunhu kuti ave nani kana kuti akaipa. Vanhu vane hama dzavanogona kuvakonzera kuti varege kunwa doro, sezvinoratidzwa nhamba, kakawanda vanotarisa kubatsiririra kune inopisa mune rimwe basa. Semuenzaniso, wako wako, iwe waiye akakwanisa kunyengetedza kurega kunwa, anogona kuzvitsvaga mukuunganidza zvidhori zvepamusoro, uye, zvichida, acharamba achitambudzika uye achinyunyuta pamusoro pezvose. Pano, sezvavanotaura, kuguma hazvifanirwiki nezvipo. Kungoti iwe unogona kuita kuti murume wako arege kunwa, iwe uchazofanira kupinda mumuedzo uyu wakaoma "murume achangoberekwa." Nenzira, iwe uchabatsirwa nemafungiro akadaro ekufungisa kugadzirisa dambudziko rako, unganyengetedza sei murume wako kurega kunwa - chiitiko chitsva kana zvinangwa zvausingaoneki kupinda maari. Muratidze kuti ape nguva yakawanda kune bhizimusi raanoda kana kuita zvimwe zvinhu, ipapo murume wake achava nemikana shoma yekudhakwa. Nzira yekunyengetedza murume wake kuti arege kunwa, kana iwe iwe, mukadzi wako, uri kuedza kumumanikidza kuti aite. Yeuka, hapana chichauya kubva iyo kusvikira achinjwa muupenyu. Edza kutsvaga zvinangwa zvake zvinokurudzira murume wake kurega kunwa. Ramba uchifunga nezvemurume kuti kuramba kwekudhakwa hakusi kuguma kwenyika, asi kutanga kwechiedza chitsva uye hupenyu hwakazara, uko pasina nzvimbo yehangover.
Nzira yekunyengetedza murume wake kuti arege kunwa, kana asina tariro kune zvikumbiro zvako. Heano mamwe mazano ekunyora kuti munhu awedzere doro kurega kunwa. 1. Iva nesimba pakunamata nemafungiro. Nditende, iwe unononoka nenzira yakadaro. Uye, zvichida, mubvunzo wekunyengetedza murume wake kurega kunwa kunogadziriswa nega pachako. Kana akanzwa chimwe chinhu chakaipa, achadzoka achibva kumakore kuenda kunyika yakapikirwa yemhuri kana, chero zvakadaro, funga nezvake pamusoro pemafambiro ako. 2. Bvisa kwaari uye kuratidza zvepabonde uye kutarisa, kwete kuzvibvumira. Usapfugama pamabvi ako kuti uite kuti murume wako arege kunwa. Usafunga nezvenzira yekunyengetedza murume wake kurega kunwa, asi zvakakosha kugadzirisa dambudziko iri kadhiinally: kuora mwoyo kwekudhakwa kwewaini uye mutongi. Zvichengete iwe pachako, uye kwete pamusoro pazvo. 3. Panyaya yekurapa kusatenda kwemurume, shandisa matanho akadai se: - kurega kutambudza kumativi ose eimba; Shamba, kubika, taura naye paanenge akadhakwa. -konzera godo. Pano iwe unofanira kuchenjerera. - kuzviita sehombe inouraya uye kutyaira shamwari dzomumwe wako kubva mumba. - Kana pane mukana wokubvisa anotyred antics yemurume pane kamera, zvino shandisa. Nditende, pasi pekutyisidzirwa kwehuwandu hwemashoko ehurumende kune hama iwe uchakwanisa kuita kuti murume wako arege kunwa. - Taura kuti kana asingasungiri, ipapo kurambana hakusi kure - kana kunotanga kusviba, ipapo mapurisa achamunyaradza. - kana "squirrel" (white fever) inokwira kwaari mumweya, imubate pachipatara chepfungwa. Kubva ipapo achadzoka kune vanyoro uye kwete kunwa. Saka, mudikanwa wangu, kubudirira kwamuri munyaya yakaoma yakadai uye kunyengetedza murume wake kurega kunwa. Ndinovimba iwe uchabudirira.
