Imba iri mukukurumidza kukuru, asi kupopota, kuchema, kuchema kunonzwika kubva muimba yevana ... Uye chaizvoizvo panguva iyoyo, pawakasarudza kutanga imwe nyaya inokurumidzira. Zvakanaka, sei vana vasingagoni kutamba pamwechete pamwe nehafu yenguva pasina kukakavara kukuru uye misodzi inopisa? Zvakare, iwe unofanirwa kuita semutongi nekuparadzanisa varwi vasingafari. Kana kuti zvichida zviri nani kuti usakanganise kukakavadzana kunotevera, regai vazvigadzirise ivo pachavo?
Hama nehanzvadzi
Ngatitangei kuti nei vana vachiwanzokakavadzana nekurwisana, sei kana mumwe achiedza kukukunda iwe kumativi ako uye kukunda sympathies yako. Ichokwadi kuti godo rehuduku hwakawanda. Vamwe vana vanogona kukundwa kunzwa uku uye vanowana nzira ine rugare yekugadzirisa kusawirirana. Vamwe vanounza dambudziko rakawanda kumunhu mukuru anogara achikakavadzana, achiuya nokuda kwezvikonzero zvakasiyana-siyana.
Cherechedza kuti mwana akwegura akasiyana sei nemwana muduku nemufambiro wake. Mukuru anoda kuve pakati pekucherechedza. Mushure mekuonekwa kwehanzvadzi kana hanzvadzi yechidiki, anofanirwa kugoverana rudo uye kutarisirwa kwevabereki vaimbova naye oga. Nezvose zvokwadi uye zvikwereti, anoedza kudzorerazve chimiro chemukuru. Muduku, pane zvinopesana, zvakaoma kuramba nemukuru. Kazhinji inova yakakwana yakakwana. Muduku anotsvaka kuti ave wakanakisisa apo vakuru vanokundikana. Asingadi kushivirira chinzvimbo chechidiki, anowanzokonzera kukakavadzana. Kuonekwa kwomwana wechitatu kunowanzochinja zvinhu zvinokosha mumhuri.
Vabereki vanotaura kumucheche semwana wekutanga. Vanogunzwa, vanobhadhara zvakanyanya uye vanobvumira zvakawanda kupfuura vana vakwegura. Panguva imwecheteyo, avo vakavhiringidzika ndevaya vanoverengeka vana, avo vachangobva kuve vaduku. Kubva kune mukuru, iye anoramba achinyima nguva dzose, uye hupenyu hutsva hwemhuri huri "kutsika pazvitsitsinho", nokuti vanhu vakuru vanogara vari parutivi rwake.Nzira iyo inowanzova nharo nematambudziko hazvirevi kungova kuwanda kwevana uye kurongeka kwemaitiro avo. zvishoma musiyano muchizvarwa vana, zvikuru anovava kuchema kwavo achasimudza netsoka dzake vabereki vainetseka. Uyewo chinokosha uye shoma wranglers paburiro. More kakawanda uye zvakakomba kurwisana inomuka pakati pavana chete pabonde, asi mukoma uye hanzvadzi Rinotarisira nyore kuwana mutauro nevakawanda. Ca That irrepressible zvinokakavara - zviri vana mumwechete kurara musiyano nemakore mumwe makore maviri.
Kazhinji vabereki ivo pachavo havadi izvozvo, vanotsamwisa vana kurwisana.
Kune vose hanzvadzi pamakona. Oo, chirevo chakachenjera sei! Zvinosuruvarisa, hazvisi nguva dzose kuti uite maererano nezvose ... Vabereki vakawanda vanodavira kuti kukakavadzana kukuru uye kutuka zvinogona kudziviswa kana vana vakapiwa matayiri akafanana, uye kupa masipi pamwe chete. Zvechokwadi, zvose hazvisi nyore. Vana vachazonyatsopika, asi kana iwe pachako uchigovana pakati pavo kwete zvipo chete, asiwo manzwiro ako. Kurumbidza nekuzvidza, kukurudzira uye kuranga mwana wese muine chiyero chakafanana, hakufaniri kuve nekunakidzwa. Rumbidzai zvakanaka. Dzimwe nguva, ndevabereki avo, vasingazvioni, vanokakavadzana pakati pevana. Iwe unowanzofananidza vana kune mumwe nemumwe, kurumbidza chiremera cheumwe uye kutonga kukanganisa kweumwe? "Tarisa kune hanzvadzi yako duku, kukurumidza kwaanodya, zvakanaka, iye akangwara! Uye iwe, sezvaunogara iwe, iwe unogara nemuromo wako wakazaruka uye chikwata chichiverenga, "- mushure memashoko akadaro, mwana ane hanya kuti iye akaipa kudarika hanzvadzi yake uye kuti vanomuda zvishoma .. Edza kudzivisa kusanzwisiswa kusinganzwisisi, nokuti muduku kuduku haazombovi , pasinei nekurerwa kwakadaro.
Zvinetso zvinogona kusimuka kunyange kana mwana akwegura ari pane zvisingabatsiri kana achienzaniswa nevaduku. Zviri pachena kuti mukuru achagara ane mamwe mabasa. Zvisinei, iva nechokwadi chokuti kuzadzika kwavo kwaive mukati memasimba emwana uye kwete pamusana pezvinhu zvaanoda kuita. Usamanikidza mukuru kuti arambe achitakura munin'ina kana hanzvadzi yechidiki. Vana vakwegura vanoda kutamba nevezera ravo "hapana mutoro," saka vanokwanisa kubvisa kusagutsikana kwavo nevaduku, vachivakanganisa. "Karapuzes dzinotsiva nemanzwi makuru uye zvikwangwani zvezvinhu zvose.
Taura zvakakwana
Ndezvipi zvakajeka kutarisana nekutyoropodza kwemashoko maduku? Chokutanga pane zvose, usambovakurudzira. Kana mwana wacho achitarisa neshoko rokuti munun'una wako akakanda foni yako mumudziyo nehove, mutaurire kuti unofara kuteerera nyaya yenyaya yake "kushandiswa," uye kuti zvinhu zvehama yako hazvinei newe.Tendera vana kunzwisisa kuti hausi vanotambudzika, kana vachizounza dambudziko kune mumwe nemumwe.
Tichava vamiririri
Nemhaka yei kune kukakavara? Chiitiko chikuru chebasa chiyiko chisina kugoverwa nevana. Vana vanonyanya kurwisana vanoita nekuseka, kuseka, kusaruramisira kana kunyengera. Ko munhu mukuru anofanira kuitei kana zviduku zviduku zvekare zvakasununguka zvakare? Behave diplomatically. Edza kuti usapindira mukukakavadzana, tarisa vana vanobva panze, zvichida vachagadzirisa kukakavara uye pasina rubatsiro. Uye usakanganwa kurumbidza vana mushure mokunge vawana nzira yekukurukurirana pamwe chete. Yeuka kuti basa rako nderokutanga, kubudisa hutsinye uye kudzikama vana. Chechipiri, unoda kuvadzidzisa nzira yekuzvibata zvakanaka mumakwikwi akadai, uye zvakanaka - ita pasina ivo. Uye ipapo pachava norugare mumba!