Vanhu, chero zvavanogona kutaura, zvipenyu zvevanhu. Uye izvi zvinoreva kuti munhu anoda mhuri. Mhuri inogona kuva duku kana yakakura, inogona kuva vabereki kana vana, kana imwe hafu. Kusurukirwa, kana pasina munhu angati - "Ndinokuda", kuitira kuti vanzwisise uye vagamuchire - ichi chakaitika chaiye kumunhu. Asi rimwe nerimwe "risingarevi" rine zvikonzero zvaro.
Kunyange nevabereki nevana, munhu anogona kuramba akasurukirwa kana asina shamwari yaanoda pedyo. Kana kuti usurukirwa kana uine shamwari yehupenyu. Pano, ndiani ane mukana ... Anokwanisa here murume, murume kana mukadzi, kutarisira asina hupenyu hwehupenyu? Munhu anoramba ari oga kwenguva yakareba sei? Uye nei vamwe vanhu vachizvisarudzira?
Zvikonzero zvakanaka kana zvikonzero?
Dambudziko redu rose rinogara mumusoro mangu, saka vanachiremba pane chinhu chine grey - masayendisiti uye masayendisiti vanofunga. Kana munhu asingadi kubatanidza hupenyu hwake noupenyu hwomumwe munhu, zvinoreva kuti ane zvikonzero zvakanaka zveizvi. Chikonzero chakadaro chinogona kunge chiri kushungurudzika mupfungwa. Munhu anotya kuonana zvakare izvo zvave zvatoitika muupenyu hwake. Kakawanda rudo rwekutanga, rusina maturo uye rusina kukwana, rwunopera nekushambadzira, kunetseka mupfungwa dzevanhu, kusiya hupenyu hwakadzama kwehupenyu hwose ... Uye zvino munhu anosarudza kusurukirwa-kana pasina munhu angati ndinokuda kana pasina munhu wokugovana mufaro wehupenyu, asi hakuzovi nokunyadziswa !! !!
Kushungurudzika Kwemwoyo
Vanhu vanoti mumwe wevari vaviri vanoda, wechipiri anobvumira kuda. Uyo anobvumira, kazhinji ane utsinye zvikuru kune avo vanoda, vanowanzoishandisa nekuda kwezvikonzero zvoudyire. Kana munhu akaora mwoyo mupfungwa paanenge achiri kuyaruka kana mukuyaruka, zvinenge zvisingakwanisi kubvisa zvachose. Uyezve munhu anoramba kuda zvachose. Kusurukirwa hakusi chete kana pasina munhu anotaura kuti "Ndinokuda", asi kana pasina chido chakadaro. Uye kuramba uku kunogona kupikiswa sechinhu chero chipi zvacho - zvisingaiti "Handidi kusunga vamwe nezvivimbiso," "hazvibviri kudanana nekusingaperi, saka sei kutambudza vamwe" nevamwe.
Chikonzero chacho chingava vabereki kana vamwe vanhu vakuru avo vakavhiringidza mwana wechidiki, maererano nemanzwiro ake kune mumwe munhu. Unasy psyche haikwanisi kurarama nemanzwiro ekurwadziwa, saka chiitiko ichi chinogadzirirwa kwenguva refu uye, zvechokwadi, chinokanganisa zviitiko zvehupenyu zvinotevera.
Asingafungi, munhu anoedza kuti arege kuwira mumamiriro ezvinhu akafanana neaya aakagamuchira kushungurudzika mupfungwa , uye somugumisiro, anogumira kukura munharaunda iyi. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, zvinokwanisika kushandisa nzira yepfungwa iyo inogona kumutungamirira kunze kwehurumende iyi. Uyezve basa harina kutanga nekwanisi yekutsungirira kusurukirwa, apo pasina munhu anoti "Ndinokuda", asi kana pane chido chikuru chekutaura, chinzwa. Zvadaro izvi zvisingatauriki, hupenyu hwehupfumi huchachinja zvakare.
Izvi zvinofanira kurangarirwa kuti munhu anofanira kuzviona achida kubvisa zvinhu izvi, nokuti chero nzira inofungidzira kuti kushungurudza kunofanira kuonekwa zvakare, pakupedzisira kuisiya. Kana iyo psyche isati yakagadzirira kushungurudzika kwakadaro, uye izvi zvinenge zvichiitika kana muiti wepakuvadzwa ari hama dzeavo vakafa, chigumisiro chichava chisina kunaka. Kusurukirwa kwakadaro, apo pasina munhu anotaura kuti "Ndinokuda" uye kunzwisiswa, kunzwa, kuda, kunongowedzera. Pashure pezvose, hazvibviri kukamanikidza munhu kutaura, sezvo zvisingakwanisi kumanikidza kuda ...
Nzira yekubatsira sei?
Rubatsiro runodiwa chete muitiko iyo munhu pachayo anokumbira kuti abatsire. Munhu akave anorwadziwa mupfungwa muhuduku hwake haatauri nevamwe vanhu, asi, kazhinji, anobudirira kubudirira mubasa rake, iyo inofambiswa nehana yakawanda pamusoro payo, pamwe chete nemasimba asina simba emweya. Vanhu vakadaro havachadi kutaurirana nenyika yekunze, ivo vanonyanya kunetseka pamusoro pehupenyu hwavo hwemukati.
Chikonzero chechipiri chechido choga woga ndechezvisikwa zvechigadzirwa chepfungwa. Aya ndiwo mavambo. Munyaya iyi, nyanzvi haifaniri. Introverts vane nyika yakapfuma kwazvo. Fungidzira kuti vanhu vakadaro vanonzwa sei munharaunda! Machechi haafaniri kutaurirana, saka mazuva ose uye maawa akawanda vanogara muchechi yepedyo kuitira kuti vakaneta zvikuru zvokuti vanosarudza mabasa asingasanganisi nguva dzekugara uye dzepedyo nevamwe vanhu. Munhu akadaro anogona kungofarira iye oga, nyika yake yomukati, kushamwaridzana kwake kwakanaka hakuzofananidzi naye. Asi zvinyorwa zvinoshaya kushingaira kushanda, sekuvanhu vakaora mwoyo, zvakaoma zvikuru kuti vashandise munharaunda. Nokuti vanhu ava vakakodzera basa rekugadzira rusununguko nebasa rekushanda risina basa. Chinhu chikuru ndechekuti hakuna vanhu vanoda kutora munhu akadaro, saka kushungurudzika mupfungwa hakudziviriki.
Chikonzero chechitatu chechido choga woga kushaya kukonzera hupenyu hwomunhu, kugadzirisa kune mumwe wako muukama, kusada kutora mari yemhuri. Icho chinowanzowedzera egoism yakakwana ne pragmatism. Chinangwa chavo upenyu husina matambudziko. Vanhu vakadaro, sekutonga, kudzivisa kuonana kwemashoko, zvose zvinoverengwa, zvose mubhizimisi uye muupenyu hwehupenyu hwega. Chikonzero chechiitiko ichi chiri muhupenyu hwehupenyu hwakawana, maererano nekucherechedza kwehupenyu hwehama neshamwari. Munhu akadaro haana kukwanisika. Saka, kana munhu akadaro akave akakosha kwauri, bvuma hupenyu hwake, zvichida munguva inokutendera kuti uswedere pedyo naye.
Tingave tichida kana kwete, vanhu vanoda kuva voga, kusuruvara sezvazvinogona kuonekwa ...