Musiyano muzera ndiwo musiyano muhukama

Saka zvakatungamirirwa munzanga kuti hukama pakati pemurume nemukadzi, hwakagoverwa nezera rakasiyana-siyana, nguva dzose rakatarisa zvisingabvumirwi.

Kana iri mubvunzo webasa, ivo vachataura nezvechido che "kuratidzira", kana nezve rudo, ivo vachati "akaenda (kana akaenda) nemari". Asi zvakashata uye zvisingazivikanwi, chaizvoizvo here?

Zvisikwa zvakaisa mukadzi zvakawanda kupfuura murume, uye izvi hazvishamisi, nokuti zvinoenderana nemukadzi zvinotarisa zvakanyanya pamusoro pekupona kwemajini. Mukadzi anomutsa vana, ane hanya nemurume wake, anopa imba inofadza. Hazvishamisi kuti zvose kushambidzwa uye kuumbwa kweunhu muvanasikana kunoitika mberi kwe "hafu yakasimba yevanhu".

Zvinetso zvekutaurirana pamwe nekunzwisisa pakati pemurume nemudzimai, ane makore akasiyana-siyana, kutanga, nhamo, kwete pamwero wehupenyu, asi pamwero wevanhu vanomiririra uye magungano.


Hapana chakaipa nechokuti mwanakomana anodikamwa akatanga kutamba musikana mukuru kune iye kwemakore anoverengeka, iye ane njere, ane ruzivo uye pamwe naye iwe uchava nemikana shoma yekuwana kuzadzikiswa kusingatarisirwi mumhuri. Asi, rangarira, iwe wakatarisa sei kwaari zvisingadi? Une chokwadi here kuti arikuvhima "benzi benzi", mumwe munhu akakuudza izvozvo? Aiwa, asi zvino nei izvi zvose moralizations uye zvinonyadzisa? Ndepipi chivimbiso chokuti achave anofara neyezvino?

Kunyanya kusagutsikana ndiyo mafungiro kune vakaroorana apo mukadzi ari muduku kudarika murume. Kururama kwakarurama kwekushamwaridzana kwevanhu kunomubata mukuvhima kuti ive nhaka, uye iye-mukutsvaka muviri muduku. Zvakare, mutoro wokusarura uchakanganisa mamiriro chaiwo ezvinhu. Vasikana vaduku dzimwe nguva vanotya kutanga ukama nevezera ravo - ivo vane hanya zvikuru, vane ruzivo uye vasina ruzivo mumatambudziko ezuva nezuva. Murume mukuru akwanisa kuvharidzira pane zvakakanganisika zvizhinji, ane chivimbo maari pachake uye haafariri kutamisa mutoro wekutakura kune shamwari.

Mune nhau dzehukama hwehukama hwepabonde, kukosha kunonyanya kukoshesa, zvino, kuti vanobatana vanobatana sei, zvakadini ivo vanogona kugovana nemunhu waanoda zvaanoona, zvaanoda uye maonero ake. Mafuremu emakore pano haatambudzi. Hungu, kana kusiyana kwezera kuchipfuura makore makumi maviri kana makumi matatu, hazvisi pachena zvachose kubva pakuona kwekuumbwa kwemhuri uye kuberekwa kwevana, asi kune rumwe rutivi, kana ane makore makumi mashanu, uye ari 69 uye musiyano anenge makore makumi maviri, chii chinovadzivisa kusava Pamwe Chete? Vana vakagadzirwa zvakanaka, hupenyu hwave huri kurarama nekuremekedzwa, asi hakuna ruzivo - mumwe wevakaroorana akafa, uye chii chakaita kurarama uri woga, uchifunga nezve "mafungiro evanhu"?

Sangano rinowanzomira kutonga zviito zvevamwe vanhu bedzi nokuti vanogumburwa kubva mumusara wakafanana, vanoputsa tsika, yakagadzirirwa nzira yezvinhu. Ndizvo chete izvo zvakakanganwika zvachose kuti munhu mumwe nomumwe munhu ane pfungwa dzake, maitiro uye nzira yake pachake muhupenyu huno. Vabereki vanopomera musikana wemwanakomana wavo nokuti ane makore mashanu kupfuura iye haafungi nezvemanzwiro ake, kuti zvinokwanisika kuti iyi ndiyo mikana isingazovizve uye yakagadzirira, dzimwe nguva kuparadza zvose, nokuti " vanhu vachafunga ... "