1. Uripo nezvirongwa zvemangwana
Kuroora idanho rakakomba, uye rinoda chikamu chikuru chemutoro. Kana mukomana wehutungamiri hwemitemo anotora mutoro iwe nevana vamangwana, iye anofanira kukwanisa kuronga ramangwana raunenge uripo. Kana munhu achida kupedza hupenyu hwake pamwe newe, zvinowanzoitika kuti nguva nenguva anogona kunge achishushikana kuronga kwemwedzi kana gore iri mberi. Kana, mukutsanangura ramangwana rake rakanaka, anowanzotaura nezve "isu" kupfuura "ini", unogona kutarisira kuti hukama hwako huchava chichato.
Ongorora kuti iwe unopedza sei nguva yako. Kana iwe uchifamba pamwe chete muzororo, kurukurai mavhiki ekubatana, ronga kurarama pamwe chete kana kuti mune denga rimwe pamusoro pemusoro wako, kana kuti iwe unofunga kuti mumwe munhu achaita sevana vako, zvakanaka, izvi zvinogona kuratidza kuti murume wako akagadzirira kuisa hupenyu hwake pamwe chete newanano.
2. Anoda kukuzivisa iwe nemhuri yake neshamwari
Kana iwe uri murume wemunhu waanogadzirira kugoverana naye hupenyu hwake, achaedza kuve nechokwadi kuti uri mauri sezvinokwanisa. Iye anotanga kukuzivisai neshamwari dzake uye anoedza kukuita kuti iwe ugare muchikwata chake. Ichokwadi kuti kufambidzana nevabereki kunoratidzawo kuti anotora ukama hwako newe zvakanyanya. Zvinonzwisisika, iye anoda kusvika pakuziva hama dzako uye sazvo. Saka kana pane zvemarudzi ose emapikiniki, mazororo nemazuva ekuberekwa, kwaaienda achienda ari oga, mukomana wako zvino achaonekwa mukuperekedza kwako, zvino ichi chiratidzo chekuti akagadzirira kukuendesa ku korona. Shure kwezvose, hazvigoneki kuti iye achatungamirira kumhuri kupemberera kwomukadzi waanoona semufambisi.
3. Muhupenyu hwake sejchastakoy nguva apo basa riri kufamba zvakanaka
Zvakanyatsosimbiswa kuti varume vanozviona sevanowana uye kana jaya pane chimwe chikonzero chichifunga kuti haakwanisi kuchengetedza mudzimai nemwana, acharamba achiita zvechato mune zvose zvingaita. Pfungwa iri mumitemo iyi iripo, asi kune rumwe rutivi rwemari, izvo hazviitiki chaizvo, uye mari yakakodzera, zvisinei, haigoni kuwanikwa zvachose. Manzwiro ekugadzikana kwezvemari anopiwa nebasa rakabhadharwa zvakanaka uye kukurudzirwa kwemazinga emabasa. Saka kana mukomana wako achifara uye achibudirira kubasa, kana achifara achigovera zvaanoita newe, saka zvinogona kunge ari kukwanisa kufunga nezvekuumba mhuri.
4. Vakawanda vehama dzake vakaroorana.
Chimwe chinhu chinonyanya kukosha pakuziva kweunhu kunopiwa nechinzvimbo chake. Nokudaro, hazvishamisi kubvunza kuti zvinhu zvakadini nehukama hwemhuri neshamwari dzake.
Nyatsoongorora zvaanoita apo paanoona kuti munhu waakaroorana akaroorwa. Kana mufananidzo wemuchato, wakanyorerwa paIndaneti, unokonzera kusagadzikana kusakanganisika uye kutaura kwechikonzero, izvi zvinogona kuratidza kuti haana kugadzirira kuroorwa. Kunyange zvazvo zvose izvi zvinotenderera, hongu, uye ocharaktera: zvichida iye ndeyezvisikwa zvinoshamisa. Kune rumwe rutivi, kana uchitarisa mufananidzo kubva kurwendo rwemumwe wake wechato, akafunga kuti iwe unogona kuenda kune imwe nzvimbo muchando, zvinogona kunge zvakanaka kuti munguva pfupi iwe uchagamuchira kugadziriswa kwesimba nemwoyo.
Kana huzhinji hwevarume vawakasanangurwa nevasanangurwa venyu, vatotoroorana, zvino chiitiko ichi hachisi chakanaka kwaari. Zvichida, mumvura yakadzika yemweya, anovagodora. Asi kana vazhinji vehama dzake vasina kuroora vakasununguka, angave achitya kuparadzana nehurumende yake.
Chero zvazviri, varume, savakadzi, vanoedzawo kuumba mhuri. Uye kana shamwari yako isati yakagadzirira chikadhi chakadai ikozvino, saka haisi kuedza nekuroora kwaari iwe pachako, iwe uchawana mhuri inofara. Hungu, zvichida akanga asiri akasimba zvakakwana, uye iwe wakamusundira kune zvaaida, munguva, asi zvinoitika kuti munhu haagoni kuzviyananisa nechinzvimbo chake chitsva. Muchiitiko ichi, achazvipira nemaune kana kuti asingazivi hukama hwako, uye pakupedzisira, iwe haugone kurarama pamwe chete, iwe uchafanira kurambana. Sei uchifanira kuedza kupedzisira kwakadaro? Zviri nani kuti urege kusiya vatsva vakadaro uye uone kuti ndiani akakodzera kupedza mauri makore akawanda ehutano hupenyu. Usaora mwoyo, uye iwe uchawana mufaro wako wakamirira kwenguva refu.