Chero bedzi pane mhuri, pane zvakawanda mubvunzo "Ndiani ari kutarisira mhuri?" Musoro wemhuri ine tsamba huru hapana mubvunzo kuti munhu. Asi mutemo uyu unoshanda chete mumhuri yemhuri, iyo iri kurarama panguva yayo.
Varume nevakadzi vanoshingairira kupinda muhondo, vachidzvinyirira muchindwe wekuda. Zvinonyanya kukosha ndiani ari musoro wemhuri?
Chinonyanya kukosha, zvinowanzoitika kuti muwani (murume kana mudzimai) anoshanda nemabasa aya akazara, uye haapindirani nemabasa eumwe wekusimudzirwa kwemhuri. Pashure pezvose, isu tose tinonyatsoziva kuti chero bhizinesi, bhizinesi kana mhuri imwechete ichaora kubva kumusoro, kureva, kubva mukutungamirira kusina musoro.
Nokudaro, zvakakosha kuti mhuri yako inotungamirirwa ne-kunyanya iwe, musoro wemhuri ine tsamba huru. Pamwe, ndinotenda kuti vanofanira kuva murume. Sei? Mushure mezvose, munharaunda yedu yevanhu vanofunga nezvemhuri, mukadzi anokwevera mhuri yake, iwe uchati, vanhu havaiti chinhu kumhuri. Unoziva here kuti sei? Nokuti vakadzi havapi kupa chero chinhu kumunhu, vanoita mabasa ake, uye murume anofanira kuitei, kana asina kutora kuti chii uye sei chinofanira kuitika mumhuri yake? Uye kana musoro wemhuri ari murume, zvino basa rako richabatanidza mabasa epamba, kutarisira murume nevana, asi murume achange achiri kukubatsira nemabasa epamba, kana zvichidiwa, uye nechido chikuru.
Kukahadzika? Uye iwe hauna chokwadi! Ita kuti murume wako ave gamba, musoro wemhuri ine tsamba huru, iye mukuru mukuru mumba, kuitira kuti anzwe simba rake uye mutoro wake pachake, nokuda kwako, kune vana vako. Zvechokwadi, kana iwe wakakwevedza zvinhu zvose iwe pachako kwenguva refu, uye murume wako haatombosimudziri nemunwe kuti aite chimwe chinhu chinobatsira mumba nepamhuri, ndicho chakanganisa chako uye zviri kwauri iwe zvino kana iwe unogona kuchinja mamiriro acho ezvinhu.
Mukadzi ndiye muchengeti wemisasa, anofanira kuva akachenjera maererano nekuvaka ukama nemurume wake, unofanirwa kuva naye "gadhi gadhi", uye kuti chii, iwe haufaniri kutsanangurira kune ani zvake. Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, murume anozviona ari mukuru wemhuri uye anozadzisa mabasa ose emusoro wemhuri, sekuchengeteka kwezvinhu, kugadzirisa nyaya dzine chokuita neimba, zororo, kurovedza, nezvimwewo, uye mudzimai anodzora nenzira dzakachenjera zvaanoita. Uye vose vanofara uye vanofara, tendai ini.
Iva mutungamiriri wemhuri ine tsamba huru iwewo unotarisira! Kunyange zvazvo vakadzi vedu vachikwanisa kuputsa makomo, asi ita izvi, zvisati zvichitarisirwa. Asi mamiriro acho mumhuri haabvi pane mudzimai chete, asiwo pane chinzvimbo chemurume. Nokuti, chinhu chimwe chete kunzi mutungamiriri wemhuri, uye chimwe chinhu chaicho kuva chiripo. Varume, makagadzirira kuva vatsigiri chaivo, vatariri, vadzidzisi, vatongi munyika yenyu duku here? Zvose zviri mumaoko ako! Kana iwe wakaroorana, ndiko kuti, wakatora mutoro kumudzimai wako, uye uve nemutsa, utarisire iye, kunyanya kukosha, dzidza kumunzwisisa, zvido zvake nezvido zvake. Mushure mezvose, ndiwo mufaro wako pachako uye mufaro wemhuri yako iyo ichavimba newe.
Iwe unogona kuchinja hupenyu hwako zvinoshamisa here? Kana iwe wakaroora, iwe unofanira kuzviita. Iwe unofanirwa kukanganwa shamwari dzako dzose neshamwari, ikozvino chinhu chikuru muupenyu hwako mhuri. Kana iwe uchifunga zvakasiyana, iwe haugone kuroora, nokuti iwe hauna kugadzirira kuroorwa. Uye kana iwe, murume, usingave musoro wemhuri, saka hapana mukadzi achakuremekedza.
Kubudirira kwakadaro kunogona kungova hutungamiri hwakachenjera, uye kwete kurira uye kutyisa. Usatya zvikanganiso, nokuti vanodzidza kubva pane zvakakanganisa, asi mudzimai wenyu anogona kududzira kutya kwezvinetso zvenyika sekushaya simba kwako. Vamwe varume vemunyika yedu vanozvibvumira kushandisa simba kumadzimai avo. Vanofunga izvi, zvichida, kuratidzwa kwehukuru hwavo, asi mukadzi anotsanangura izvi nenzira yakasiyana - kana murume akasimudza ruoko rwake pamusoro pemukadzi, iye zvino ane simba uye ane dhimoni. Varume, nekumanikidza iwe haugone kuratidza kuti iwe ndiwe tenzi weimba! Vanhu vanonzwisisa, kunyanya vanhu vari pedyo, vanofanira kukwanisa kutaura uye kugadzirisa matambudziko avo ose kuburikidza nhaurirano.
Dhaurirano ichabatsira kuti zizikanane zviri nani. Munhu chete akasimba uye akashinga akagadzirira kugadzirisa zvinhu zvake zvose kuburikidza nekukurukurirana. Kana mudzimai akaramba kutaurirana, iwe unofanira kufungisisa kuti iwe unoda mukadzi akadaro here?
Izvi hazvizoitiki kana iwe uchiyeuka nguva dzose kuti mudzimai wako ndiye akanakisisa, wakanakisisa, wakanzwisisa uye wakanyarara, ndicho chikonzero iwe wakaroorana naye, handizvo iwe? Iwe unofunga kuti mudzimai wako aida kuroorwa nomunhu anoshaya here? Uye uyo uyo mudzimai wako achakubata iwe, zvinongogumira paupenyu hwako.
Murume chaiye anogara achiita zvaanoda. Sarudza zvaunoda kuzadzisa muupenyu. Imba, motokari, imba yeimba? Iwe unogona kuita zvose kana iwe une chechokwadi shure - mudzimai ane rudo uye anonzwisisa. Munhu asina simba, chidhakwa kana chidhakwa chemishonga haagoni kuva shamwari inofadza yekuroora.
Zvingava zvakanaka kuti varume vedu vayeuke kuti mukadzi chikara chisina simba uye anoda rubatsiro rwako uye iwe unofunga. Iwe unofanirwa nazvo uye chete nekuda kwekukurukurirana. Ndivanaani vauri kutaura, avo vanonyunyuta, vanobva kune avo kutsvaga mazano nekutsigirwa? Iwe hausi kuti mudzimai wako atsvake rubatsiro kubva kune mumwe munhu? Izvo zvinogona kutaurwa nezvekuchikoro. Iwe, semusoro wemhuri, iwe unofanira kugovera mabasa emhuri nenzira yakadai kuti iwe nemudzimai wako mune nguva yekuipedza pamwe chete, muchipa mumwe nemufaro mufaro wekutaurirana. Usakanganwa kuti kuita zvepabonde kunosimbisa ukama. Uye kana uchingobatsira mudzimai wako mumba, kunyanya kufara uye rudo iye achakwanisa kukupa. Dananai!