Vanoti izvo zvinopesana zvinokwezva. Kazhinji vanhu vanosarudza zvakasiyana zvachose muwanano. Vaya vanofembera vanoroora mhandara vasikana kubva kurudyi, mhuri dzakangwara, uye vakomana vakakomba uye vane mwero vanosarudza vatsigiri vavo vemapato uye shumba dzenyika dzevakadzi vavo.
Asi kutanga kwevose varume vanoroora vakadzi ivavo vanovatsigira vakavimbika kune murume vanogona kuvaka imba yekutendeseka neyekuremekedza, mhuri chaiye.
Asi, sei, isu tingataurirana sei nezvikwereti, maererano neiyo chete inenge gumi pazana yemhuri yakagadzirirwa rudo. Kusarudza mudzimai wake namai vevana vake remunguva yemberi, murume anozviitira pachake mitero yekuti mudzimai wake weramangwana anofanira kufanana. Kazhinji iyo yavanoda haazive kuti ingagadzirisa sei, haadi vana, haazivi kukura, nezvimwe zvakadaro nezvimwe zvakadaro. Ndiko kuti, mukadzi anodiwa haafananidzi nemufananidzo wemudzimai akanaka uye amai. Pano mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, vamwe varume vanoroora vakadzi vanofanana navo. Sezvavanotaura, tsungirira - ichawa murudo.
Varume vakawanda vane pfungwa dzakanaka vanozvitsvakira zvakanaka kwenguva yakareba. Asi hapana mazano munyika ino. Uye ndinofanira kuroora varume vakadaro kubva pakushaya tariro kune avo vanofananidza kufanana uye vanofananidza neicho chakanaka.
Munguva yedu, kazhinji hazvirevi vakadzi chete vanoroora nokuverenga, asiwo varume vanoroora nekuda kwechikonzero chimwe chete. Iko kuverenga kunogona kuva mari, uye basa, uye kuverenga kwekudanwa uye mukurumbira munzanga. Urongwa uhwu hahwunogumi. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, murume anoroora kuitira kuti awane chimwe chinhu chakanaka nenzira yekuverenga iyi. Uye kwete hazvo iwe mukadzi waunoroora, rudo, chinhu chikuru ndechokuti amuite kuti atende kana kumuratidza maropafadzo uye zvikomborero zvaanowana kubva kumuchato uyu. Hazvishamisi kuti pane chirevo: "Nguva yokutanga vanoroora nekuda kwerudo, rwechipiri kuti vawane zvakanaka, chechitatu cheitiro".
Varume vazhinji vanoroora mukadzi wekutanga ari oga mumugwagwa nokuti nguva yasvika uye shamwari dzose nevabereki vanomanikidza kuti vanofanira kuroorwa. Vose shamwari dziri kumativi ose vakawana mhuri, uye iwe uri mumwe achiri muchengeti uyo ari kutsvaga chimiro chakanaka. Pano, uye anotanga kuongorora nzira yehupenyu hwehupenyu uye kuomeswa kwevamwe.
Kune zvikonzero zvakawanda nei varume vachiroora vakadzi veimwe rudzi kana imwe. Uku ndiko kuzvitakura kwemukadzi kubva kumurume uyu, uye kutya kwake kusurukirwa mukukwegura, nekudzvinyirira kwevabereki, uye kusagadzikana kwehupenyu uye nechido chekuchinja chimwe chinhu muupenyu, kuedza chimwe chinhu chitsva, hupenyu hwemhuri mune izvi. Zvose izvi zvinogona kuumba mhuri yakanaka kumunharaunda, kuonekwa kwemhuri, asi mumhuri yakadaro ikoko hakuzombovi rudo. Zvose zvinogona kuwanikwa mumhuri yakadaro ndiko kuremekedzwa uye kutarisirwa uye chete nechishuvo chekuda kwevakaroorana nekuda kweizvi.
Asi pamusoro pevakadzi vose vakadzi vanoroora, tinovimba kuti vanokuroora nekuda kwekuda kukuru. Usazviramba iwe uchida, taura naye. Uye zvino ndiwe iwe ucharatidza kuti ndiwe mukadzi wawakaroorana nemumwe rudo. Usaedza kushandisa nzira iri pamusoro apa kuti uroorane nemurume waunoda. Hapana chakanaka chichauya kubva mazviri. Chimirira rudo rwako uye murume uyu asina kuroora. Zvose zvine nguva yaro, sezvavanotaura.