Apo patinomuka, tinoona kuti takapfuura, uye kubva panguva ino tinotanga kukurumidza. Tinokurumidza kupfeka, tichinwa kofi, uye tichibuda kunze kwemba, uye nokukurumidza tinoenda kubasa. Ndine basa rakawanda rekuita kubasa, saka tirikurumidza kuita zvose, panguva yemasikati tinokurumidzira kuti tive vakazara kuti tirambe tichiita basa redu, uye patinotanga basa, tinokurumidza kuenda kumba, uye tapedza zuva rekushanda, tinokurumidzira kumusha. Patinosvika kumba, tirikurumidza kuita zvose mumba, kuitira kuti mangwana mangwana tive nekukurumidza kuchengetedza kushanda. Uye nekusingaperi, tinokurumidza kubva pakuberekwa.
Tinokurumidza kukura, pazera remakore matanhatu isu tinonyora pfupa miromo yedu naamai vedu uye tinopfeka marefu. Pazera remakore gumi nemishanu tinotanga kudzidza zvepabonde, uye nezera remakumi maviri isu tatova nemwana mumaoko edu. Mhuri dzakawanda dzinoumbwa pandege, uye zvino dzinoumbwa chete kana muwani akwetwa uye asingatyi kusungirwa. Uye gare gare, achiziva kusanzwisisana kwayo nemumwe wake, mumwe wedu anotiza, achisiya zvose, kusanganisira mwana, uye mhuri dzisina kukwana dzinoumbwa. Dambudziko rose nderekuti tiri kukurumidza kukura. "Mhuri isina kukwana uye matambudziko ayo makuru" ndizvo zvichakurukurwa munyaya ino.
Nhasi munyika yedu dambudziko remhuri isina kukwana iri chaizvo. Mumhuri yese yechipiri, mwana anoberekwa kana kurerwa nemubereki mumwe. Vakawanda vemhuri yakadaro, kusanganisira ini, uye ndakashamisika kana ramangwana rangu rakamirira vana vangu zvakare? Asi ini handioni murume wangu uye baba vevana vangu vari pedyo neni. Zvinoratidzika kuti dambudziko iri rehutano rinopinda muchimiro chehupenyu hwedu uye rinoshanduka kuva chimiro. Uye sezvo dambudziko iri riri chikamu chechimiro chehupenyu, zvinoreva here kuti ichi ndicho chinetso, zvichida chinoguma kuva dambudziko kumasangano edu, nokuti kusiyana kwakasiyana kubva kune zvakasarudzwa mumatunhu akasiyana ehupenyu hwedu hwemagariro huripo nguva dzose, mushure mokunge kupesana uku kuumba maitiro matsva.
Pakati pangu shamwari dzakawanda neshamwari dzinorera vana dzoga, vanogutsikana kuti havadi murume, uye mwana wavo haadi baba. Vanopikisa kuti murume ichisikwa chisina maturo chinodedera mitsipa nokurara pamubhedha uye kutarisa TV pane imwe nguva iyo iri kufudza mwana neruoko rumwe uye imwe iri kubika chimwe chinhu kwemasikati pedo nesitove. Zvichida, zvakakosha kutanga mhuri nechembera, uye kwete mumakore 18-20. Zvichida mushure mokunge takura, tinenge tisingakwanisi kurega mwana wedu, uye kudzivirira kutambudzika mukukura, apo hana inotanga kutambudza mwana nemukadzi akasiyiwa.
Shamwari yangu yaiva neshamwari nemumwe murume, vaifamba, vakataura, asi havana kutsvoda kana kukumbundira. Vakanga vari shamwari chete. Akanga akafara zvikuru neshamwari iyi, nokuti hapana hukama pakati pemurume nemudzimai saizvozvowo, munhu wose anotaura, ndiani asinganyengeri zvikuru kutaura kudaro. Ushamwari ihwo rudo rwemhando, ivo vakataura muAce, uye vanopikisa, uye vakadana, kazhinji, mumwe nomumwe haaigona kuvapo. Panguva iyoyo isu tose taitenda ushamwari pakati pemurume nemukadzi, uye takaedza zvikuru kuratidza izvi kwatiri isu nevakomana avo vatisingadi shamwari, asi sevasikana. Taive benzi uye takasindimara, apo takaudzwa kuti kwakanga kusina ushamwari hwakadaro, takaedza kuhuwana, asi sezvamunoziva, ushamwari hupi hunosvika pakaguma, uye munguva yedu kuguma kweshamwari kunouya nekukurumidza nekukurumidza. Zvichida takakanganwa kuva shamwari? Uye usingaoni chinhu chinopfuura mhino yako? Saka, ushamwari hwavo hwakasvika pakupera musi waSeptember 7.
Nhasi izuva rekuzvarwa kweshamwari yangu. Akasvitsa makore makumi maviri. Yubile, zvinoreva kuti vaenzi, shamwari, hama, zvipo, mabhora, maruva, kuseka uye kuseka. Kukwazisa uye zvishuwo zvakayerera murwizi, kazhinji, mafungiro emafaro uye chaive ndiye HE. Uye zvakaitika sei kuti vakavata. Kuita zvepabonde kunowanzoitika sechinhu chisingafungi. Iwe unofunga kuti iwe hauzomboiti izvi neumwe munhu, asi wakanga uripo, uye zvakaitika pashure pemafungiro aya kuti chii chakanga chiri kuitika chiri kuitika. Sezviri pachena mune zvakakwana zvekuda uye rudo, zvakasanganiswa newaini yakawanda uye hookah, avo vaviri vakakanganwa nezvekuvapo kwekudzivirira kubata pamuviri. Sezvakangofanana nehafu yedu yevarume, shure kweusiku hworudo iye akarasika. Akarega kudana nekunyora, uye akatanga kusakanganwa. Usiku ihwohwo ushamwari hwavo hwakafa. Zvepabonde nguva dzose inouraya ushamwari, nokuti haikwanisi kugara pamwe chete muhukama hwevanhu vaviri. Pashure pemavhiki mashomanana, takaona kuti akanga ane pamuviri. Nguva yakanga isiri kure, uye chimwe chinhu chaigona kuitwa, asi akaramba, akasarudza kubereka. Akazvara mwanasikana akanaka, ane utano, akanaka, uyo, akaita semadonhwe maviri, anotarisa saamai vake.
Tiri kutaura zvikuru, kunyanya kana zvisingatitarisiri. Nokunyomba uye kutaura, baba vakawana kuti musikana wake akanga ane pamuviri. Akasarudza kutaura naye, ini ndichiri kusanzwisisa zvaaida kuti aite kuburikidza nehurukuro iyi, uye iyo inofadza, akachinja zvinhu zvose kuti ave nemhosva, uye somugumisiro wakasiya zvakakanganiswa, achiti haazove pedyo naye akasvika. Inonzwa sokuti yakamuzvidza nekuti mbeu yake yakasungira mazai ake. Haana kuda chimwe chinhu kubva kwaari, kunyange kune iye pachake ndokutaura kudaro, asi pakutanga akatanga kumuudza kuti aisazoziva kubatana.
Chii chinoita kuti vanhu vasiye basa? Uye tinogona here kusiya? Ndakabvunza mibvunzo iyi. Muenzaniso mukuru wakasiya vakadzi vane pamuviri, uye vana vasati vaberekwa. Kuita zvepabonde kwete kudzivirirwa, varume vedu vanoita basa kana kuti vanoshandisa "zvichida prokanaet"? Hongu, ndinobvumirana nekuti varume nevadzimai ndivo vanokonzera izvi, asi iva nemutsa, usarega zvawakaita. Musikana wangu haana kusiya mwana, akasarudza kubereka, asi akaramba kubvuma mwana. Haana kuda chimwe chinhu kubva kwaari, haana kumbomuudza kuti akanga ane pamuviri. Iye pachake akadzidza kubva kuvanhu kuti akanga ane pamuviri. Uye semugumisiro, iye akamuitawo ane mhosva, akasiya mwana. Pano, nyaya yacho haigumburwi zvachose nokuti yakavanza pamuviri kubva kwaari. Pano pfungwa yose ndeyokuti ari kuedza kuvanza mushure mekukanganisa, kururamisa kusava nehanya kwake, vanoti, Ndinoramba mwana, nokuti iwe uri-uye-saizvozvo. Kunyange kana zvakadaro, mwana haasi mhosva. Mwana wacho akanga asina kuberekwa, akangotanga kuumba mukati maamai vake, uye atova nemhosva mukuumbwa kwemhuri isina kukwana. Vanhu vakagadzirira kupa mhosva zvose nevose, kana ivo ivo pachavo vasina mhosva. Zvakafanana nemutambo "Mafia". Chinokosha chemutambo ndechokuti iwe unopomera munhu wese, iwe unobvisa pane zvaunoshushikana, vanoti, Ndakachena se "mbongoro yemwana," kunyange iwe uri "mafia" iwe pachako.
Mushure mezvose, iyi ndiyo mamiriro ezvinhu akazara, uye kuguma kwenyaya iyi kwave kutojeka. Mumakore mashomanana anoziva uye acharara pasi pemusuo wavo, kurinda kana mwanasikana, kungoona kuti akazova sei runako, kana kuti aimbova rudo, kutaura naye, uye kutsanangura kuti idiot aiva ani. Mubvunzo chete unomuka, nei vachichida? Pashure pezvose, vari kuita saizvozvo. Mushure mezvose, zvakaoma pakutanga, uye zvino tinozozvifananidza nazvo, uye gare gare hatidi kuchinja zvataimboita kuti tishandise. Muumwe nomumwe wedu kune donhi re conservatism. Mumakore mashomanana havazodi kuputsa kubatana kwakaumbwa pakati paamai nemwanasikana wavo.
Saka chii chiri mhosva kune vana vakanga vasati vaberekwa? Chikonzero nei ivo pakarepo vanoregererwa nehupombwe hwakakwana, kana munguva yedu, hucheche hwakakwana hunoonekwa sehupenyu pamwe chete nemumwe wevabereki, uye hutano hwehutano ndeyekuti mhuri ine amai nababa? Kana kuti zvakakosha kugadzira mhuri uye kubereka vana kwete mumatanho ekutanga okukura, asi zvishoma gare gare? Uye zvakadaro, ndave nechokwadi chokuti mararamiro okutanga haasi akaderera kudarika vanhu vakakura. Mushure mezvose, zvatove zvagamuchirwa nehuruzhinji kuti kuroorana pazera rekare kunoreva kuti vaviri vechidiki vari kumirira mwana, uye zvose nokuti tirikurumidza. Chero bedzi munhu mukuru angaita kuti munhu aite danho rakarangariro rakanaka, achiona basa rose.
Mukoma wangu akaroorwa paaiva nemakore 28, uye mwenga wake 26. Mumwe nomumwe akati vakaroorana munguva pfupi. Uye iri kukurumidza kupi? Iye zvino vane mwana mukunda akanaka anokura, uye vanofara. Uye ini ndine chokwadi kuti imba yavo icharamba ichipfuura kusvikira mhembera, nokuti vanhu vaviri vakaumbwa vakatora danho rekufunga, vachiziva zviito zvavo. Uye ndinoda kunyevera munhu wose, usakurumidza! Uye isu tichadzivisa, saka, matambudziko ose e mhuri isina kukwana! Mufaro hausi kuzotiza iwe nenguva, kusiyana nemurume wechidiki ... Nokufamba kwemazuva, zvinongowedzera kuva zvinonaka uye zvinotapira, sewaini yemakore ekukwegura.