Unhu hwakanaka hwomwana hunogara huchifadza vabereki. Tinoedza kuita izvi nenzira dzakawanda: kunyengetedza, kurangwa, kukurudzira. Imwe nzira ndeyokukurudzira maitiro akanaka nemubatsiro wemari kana zvinyorwa zvayo (nhovo, magamba, zvidhi). Nzira yekushandisa sei nzira iyi zvakarurama?
Kakavhiringidza nyaya
Nhaurirano yekukurudzira zvinhu zvevana, kunyanya muzera remakore ekutanga, kukonzera kukakavara pakati pevanyori uye pakati pevabereki. Vamwe vanoti mwana anofanira kuteerera vabereki uye anobatsira pamba pasina kufarira, vamwe-kuti kuburikidza nemubhadharo wemari-mari kumwana pamakirwo akanaka kana zvakaenzana, mwana anochinja kuti ave munhu mukuru munguva. Nzira dzose dzekukurudzirwa kwemwana dzakabatana, kutanga kune dzose, nekukudziridza maitiro aidiwa, uye ikozvino munzvimbo yechipiri - nemitengo yevasingadiwi. Iyi ndiyo pfungwa yavo yakasimba. Chikamu chisina simba ndechokuti kushandiswa kwakanyanya kwavo kunogona kusimbisa chinzvimbo chemwana "kwete danho risina kukurudzirwa." Asi mushure mekunge yese iri mubvunzo wekushandisa zvakanyanya, uye mumiganhu inonzwisisika masangano aya anoshanda zvakanaka uye anobvumira kupa zvakajeka tsika dzekuzvibata kuti dzigone vana.
Kahawa bhino
Nikita, ane makore matanhatu, mwanakomana waSvetlana, mwana anozvida, uyo akaoma kumanikidzira kutevedzera mitemo inogamuchirwa. Achiziva kuti ndiyo nguva yekuita chimwe chinhu, Svetlana akauya nemhando yehuhwu yehafi uye, pamwe chete nemwanakomana wake, akatanga urongwa hwakati: "Ndaidya zvinhu zvose zvekudya kwemanheru (kudya kwemanheru, kudya kwemanheru) - 1 zviyo"; "zvakaitwa nebasa - mbeu 3"; "Ndakachenesa imba yacho - 2 zviyo", nezvimwewo. Zita rakanyorwa munzvimbo inonyanya kuonekwa, uye Nikita aiva nebhengi rekuchengetedzwa kwezviyo, uye runyora rwemafambisi akawedzerwa kune zviyo zvinogona kuchinjwa: "Kukwidza kunzvimbo yekuvaraidza yevana - mbeu makumi manomwe "" Zvimwe zvemaminitsi makumi maviri emitambo yepakompyuta - mbeu makumi maviri, "nezvimwewo. Kwaivewo nehutano hwekurangwa:" kusasvibisa kune munhu mukuru-kupa zvikamu gumi nemashanu "," ureve - mbeu makumi matatu. "Svetlana akakurumidza kuona zvakazoitika: Nikita akatanga kutevera mitemo. Amai vachinetseka kana izvi zvingaita kuti mwanakomana arege kuzvidzora musingabatsiri? iyo nzira yekurudziro, saka, sekutonga, pfungwa inoshandiswa inoshandiswa, iyo vanhu vakuru vanobvumirana nemwana. Iyi nzira inokurudzirwa kuti ishandiswe apo mwana ari nemakore mashanu, nokuti zvisati zvaitika nyika iyi ichave yakaoma zvikuru kuti mwana azvinzwisise.Zvino chimwe nechimwe chaunoda, chimwe chikamu chakapiwa inongororwa, uye nokuda kwekuita maitiro akaipa zvinobviswa.Umwe humwe humwe humwe hunoti hunogona kugoverana kuitira ropafadzo dzakagara dzatemwa.
Chii chandinofanira kukurudzira?
Mwana mumwe nomumwe ane matambudziko ake mukuzvibata kwake. Kune imwe, izvi zvinoteerera hurumende, kune imwe - kuchengetedza urongwa muimba, nezvimwewo. Nhamba yemafambiro anokurudzirwa anofanira kunyorwa (kana mwana achigona kuverenga) kana nzvimbo dzake dzinofanira kutorwa (mifananidzo inoratidza maitiro aidiwa), uye panofanira kuva nezvinhu zvishomanana - zvinopfuura makumi mashanu. Iwe unogona kuita nzvimbo dzakabatana nehurumende (panguva uye pasina tambo, wakaenda kunorara, akamuka mangwanani uye akapfeka), uye pamwe nemabasa emhuri (iye akanyatsosungira nguo dzake, akachenesa ma teyi asati aenda kunorara, nezvimwewo). Kweimwe nguva, iwe unogona kusarudza kumutsa 2-3 mabasa. Asi izvi hazvirevi kuti mwana achasunungurwa kubva kune mamwe mabasa. Kukurudzira mamwe maitiro, shandisa kurumbidzwa (vose vari voga uye vanhu vose, vakaratidzwa kune vamwe vanhu), zvimwe zvinokurudzirwa ("iwe uchandibatsira, uye tichazoenda kutamba.") Izvi zvinokosha kudzivisa kuumbwa kwemwana we "hapana danho risingaiti" .
Kunyatsogadzirisa basa iri (somuenzaniso, kugadzirira chikoro) kunogona kukurudzirwa, asi kunyatsotarisirwa, kuitira kuti nzvimbo yacho isati yagadziriswa, "Ndiri kuita zvidzidzo chete nekuda kwekurudziro." Naizvozvo, ita chimwe chinhu chimwe chete, chinonyanya kukosha panguva ino, uye nguva nenguva uchinje izvi. kukanganwa pamusoro pemashoko ekurumbidza, zvinokosha kune mwana kudarika zvese!
Chii chinokurudzira chiyero uye muhuwandu hwei?
Iwe unogona kusarudza chero zvinhu zvingaratidza mapeji:
- kofi kana zvimwe zviyo zvakawanda;
- hutema hwekwakera kwemavara, izvo zvinokurudzirwa kuti tambo padambo;
- magetsi pafiriji.
Kuonekwa kwakakosha nekuwanika kwekudzokorora. Iva nechokwadi chokuti pfungwa dzakagadzirwa nemwana dzinogona kushandiswa zvine musoro. Zvakakosha kuti kwemazuva 7-10 mwana ave nemukana wekutsinhanisa zvikamu zveimwe yezvikomborero zvikuru uye aizowana humwe hutatu hudiki. Muchiitiko ichi, sangano richashanda zvakanaka. Kukanganisa kunowedzera mabhonasi apo mwana ane mukana wekuwana zvikamu zvekusimudzirwa kukuru mumazuva maviri. Uyewo, bhonasi isingakoshi inganganisa kukanganisa, apo purogiramu inowanikwa zvishoma nezvishoma, uye mwana anenge arasikirwa nechido.
Chii chaunosarudza sekusimudzirwa?
Kushanyira pamwe chete nenzvimbo huru dzinonakidza: mafirimu, mapaki emitambo, masayenzi uye musamuziyamu; kutenga chido chinotarisirwa kwenguva refu, nezvimwewo. Zvinokurudzirwa kusanganisira "Kushamisika!" Nzvimbo, munhu mukuru ari kufunga zvimwe zvekuvaraidza, asi haanoudza mwana asati asvika panzvimbo yacho.Haafaniri kushandiswa sekusimudzirwa kwetikoroti nemitambo yemakombiyuta.Kushandiswa kwemasipi kunofanira kunge kusingakwanisi mune dzimwe nzira, uye semakombiyuta, kubva pakuziva kwepfungwa uye kurudziro kwechiremba. Iva nechokwadi chekugadzirira nekugadzira kushamisika, izvo mwana wacho asina "kuwana". Asi munyaya iyi zviri nani kuti usamupa, zvino varaidzo, iyo iye zvino inowedzera pfungwa (vabereki vanowanzoziva nezveizvi). Zvakakosha kuchengetedza chinangwa chemwana.
Tinoda zviyero zvekurangwa here?
Zviri kwauri kuti usarudze pane imwe neimwe iwe pachako - rudzi rwechirango chakakodzerwa nekusazvibata. Kazhinji chirango chinodiwa pakutanga pakutanga, uye ipapo mwana anoshandiswa kukoshesa izvo "zvaakawana." Zvakanaka chete pane zvinhu zviri muurongwa hwako, kunze kwekutadza kwakakomba zvikuru: nhema kana kuti nemaitiro asina kunaka nemaitiro.