Kurera mwana ibasa rakaoma, kana, zvirokwazvo, iwe uri wakakomba uye ane mhosva kune imwe nyaya iyi. Kukurukurirana kunobatanidzwa basa rinokosha pakuumbwa nekusimudzirwa kweunhu. Vabereki vanofarira nguva dzose munharaunda yekukurukurirana iyo mwana wavo anogara. Tichazonzwisisa kuti kutaurirana kunofanira kuve sei nekugadzirisa kushanda kwemucheche.
Kakawanda ndinonzwa maonero evabereki ava kuti mwana anofanira kuenda kuchikoro chekugadzirira kuitira kuti zvienderane uye zvakajeka zvikure mudenderedzwa yevezera rake. Kunyange zvakadaro, kanopfuura kamwe vakacherechedza kuti vanhu avo vasina kushanyira vana vekuchikoro muhucheche hwavo vakakura ndokusvika kumatunhu akafanana muupenyu hwavo sevamwe vezera raSadikov. Zvingangodaro, mamiriro acho akasiyana zvakasiyana ... Zvichida izvi ndizvo zvizvarwa, maitiro ayo vabereki vakapa munhu uye nezvimwe zvakawanda. Ichocho, kwete chechikoro chete chinopa hukuru hwekutaurirana hakusi kukura kweunhu, asi humwe humwe zvinhu. Ngatitaurire pamusoro peizvi zvose zvakanyatsotsanangurwa.
Amai, taurai neni
Munhu wokutanga anobva kune imwe nzira yakananga yekukurukurirana kune munhu ndiye amai vake. Kana amai vakamirira zvechokwadi uye vachimuda mwana asati aberekwa, zvino kutaurirana kunotanga noupenyu hwehutano. Zvinoratidzwa kuti mwana wemunguva yerinzwiro anonzwisisa anonzwa zvose zviri mukati memadzimai, uye mutoro wezvinyorwa zvaanoda kumuratidza kuburikidza nekukurukurirana kwake mumweya.
Chikamu chinotevera chekukurukurirana nekukurukurirana mushure mokuberekwa. Amai pano zvakare ndiyo nzira yakananga yekukurukurirana. Usarega kurega kutaurirana nechokuita kubva pamaminitsi okutanga pashure pokuberekwa. Nditende, ini mwana unoda izvozvo. Anokuda uye anonzwa iwe.
Nokudaro, kutanga nemubereki uye nekuenderera mberi mushure mekuberekwa kwomwana, amai vanoita senzira huru yekukurukurirana, uye naizvozvo - ruzivo rwepasi, hupenyu, ruzivo. Hazvishamisi kuti vanotaura kuti vadzidzisi vakanakisisa kumwana ndivo vabereki vake.
Papa ane basa rinokosha pakuvandudza mwana uye kuumbwa kweunhu hwake. Nokudaro, pamwe chete naamai vangu zvakakosha zvikuru kutaura nemwana, kutanga nemakore ekutanga ehupenyu hwake.
Ndinoona nyika, uye kune vanhu mairi
Kukura, mwana anoona uye anonzwisisa kuti kune vamwe vanamainini nababamunini, vanambuya navanasekuru, chiremba mune jira jena, vakomana nevasikana. Anowana kunzwa kubva kwavari, anodzidza kuziva "wake" uye anosiyanisa "vatorwa vari voga", uye gare gare anodzidza kutaura uye kugamuchira ruzivo kubva kuvanhu vaanotaura navo.
Ikoko itsva, uye gare gare, denderedzwa yekukurukurirana inonyanya kukosha kumwana, uye mberi, yakasimba uye yakasimba. Mushure mezvose, hupenyu hwedu hwose huri kutarisana nevamwe vanhu. Kwose kupi kwatakabva, kubasa, mukufambisa vanhu vose, muchitoro kana mumitambo yekurovedza, kwose kwose tinosangana nevanhu vane kutaura kwedu tadzidziswa kubva pauduku. Izvo zviri nyore mwana achakwanisa kutaura kubva kubva achiri muduku, saka zvichava nyore kwaari kuti aite vatsva uye aise hukama nevanhu vatsva munguva yemberi. Ichi "chipo" ndechechokwadi, uye dzimwe nguva inowanikwa kuburikidza nedzidzo, kuzvidzidzisa uye nezvimwe zvinhu zvakawanda.
Unoda chikwata chechikoro, unoda chikoro here?
Kubvunza mubvunzo uyu kumudzidzisi wegokoroji ane ruzivo rwakawanda, ndakagamuchira mhinduro: "Ndinotenda kuti muchechi yepamusoro mwana anofanira kuendeswa, sezvaanoranga. Kune rumwe rutivi, unogona kuwana mhinduro mbiri: mwana mumwe oga-anoronga, anogamuchira kukurukurirana uye kukurudzirwa, imwe "kuputsika" kwete kwekunaka. "Vabereki, kana iwe uchifunga kuti chikoro che" chechi "chicha" kuputsa "munhu mumwana wako, Unoda chikoro chekare here? Imwe nzira yakanaka yekutaura nevana vekuchengetedza zvidzidzo zvekare zvinogona kuva zviitiko zvekuvandudza zvemazuva ano. Vanopa zvose zvirikukurukurirana nekufambira mberi mune imwe fomu inobatrusive inoshanda.
Kana iri chikoro, saka, zvirokwazvo, iwe unogona kukwereta mudzidzisi wega, kupa mwana nevanakisisa vadzidzisi kumba, asi iwe unoda here? Nekubudirira kumwe chete iwe unogona kuwana chikoro chiri nani. Chikoro hachizivo chete chitubu chezivo, asiwo chitubu chekukurukurirana, zvisinei kwete nguva dzose, asi pane imwe nzvimbo iwe uchiri kuda kuwana hupenyu hwehupenyu. Zvichida, vazhinji vedu takadzidza kuchikoro uye takakura takachenjera, vanobatana nevamwe, vanhu vanozvigadzirira.
Kuti uve shamwari, saka usaita shamwari
Kazhinji vabereki vanoedza kudzora denderedzwa yekukurukura kwevana vavo, vachiva nechokwadi kuti ivo chete vane kodzero yekusarudza shamwari kwaari. Kana uri kuedza kukanganisa mwana wako mukusarudza shamwari, iwe unofanirwa kunge uri 100% une chokwadi chokuti iwe unonyatsokwanisa. Kunyanyisa kudzora, kubvisa uye kudzvinyirira pane iwe unogona kungowedzera hukama huri pakati pako nemwana. Nokudaro, iwe uchava mudzvinyiriri, mubereki akaoma, asi kwete shamwari yemwana. Zvinonzwisisika, hakungavi nemubvunzo wokuvimba nemamiriro ezvinhu akadaro.
Mwana wako anofanira kunge ane shamwari, nokuti haadi kuti mwana wako ave asina kukwanisa kutaura. Kushaikwa kwokukurukurirana nevezera rako kunoumba zvinetso, kuora mwoyo, kuzviparadzanisa, kunyanya munguva yevechiri kuyaruka.
Uyewo, haufaniri kutonga shamwari dzevana vako nezvehupfumi hwemhuri yake, nokuti unhu hunhu hwevanhu hwakasarudzwa nehuwandu hwedzidzo nemari yemamiriro. Kunyanya muhuduku, kusarudzwa kweshamwari pane zvinotaurwa pamusoro apa hazvigamuchirwi. Kana zvisina kudaro, mumwana kubva paucheche hunoberekwa kuchenjera uye kuzvifarira.
Nyika iri pedo - kukurukurirana nemasikirwo
Dzidzisa mwana wako kuda nyika yakamupoteredza. Vana ndivo vanonyanya kutsvakurudza, sevasati vasati vamboona uswa hwakapoteredza, vachidzunga furupiki, dandelion kana tsanga. Udza mwana wako zvose zvaunozviziva iwe pachako. Mupe nyika ine mavara ezvisikwa, zvinonhuwira nemanzwi. Nokudaro, iwe unofambisa iwe uye mwana ane mafungiro akanaka, kupa mufaro uye rudo.
Iko kushandiswa kwekutaurirana pamusoro pekusimudzirwa kweunhu kwakakosha kuwedzera. Sezvo zvinogona kuonekwa kubva pane zvataurwa, kukurukurirana hakusi kungotaura chete nevamwe. Chokutanga pane zvose, mwana anodzidza kuburikidza newe nyika yakamupoteredza uye izvo zvaunomupa zvichadyara zviyo zvemangwana rake remangwana. Kurukura nevana vako uye kudyara chete zviyo zvakanakisisa, nokuti munguva pfupi yekukohwa zvikomborero ...