Shandisai mishonga
Usaita utsinye, asi edza kufarira mutemo waunoda. Somuenzaniso: "Kana ukadya zvakanaka, iwe uchava nesimba uye iwe uchakwanisa kukwira bhasikoro nokukurumidza". "Kana iwe uchirara masikati - iwe uchawana simba, iwe unogona kufamba kwenguva yakareba mufambiro." Mitsara aya mwana anonzwisisa se "iwe wakaipa, hauzombofi wakagamuchira chero chinhu." Izvi zvinoparadza kuzvidzora uye simba rako pachako. Mune ramangwana, mwana akadaro haasati aida kuedza ruoko rwavo muchikamu chemitambo kana musi wechikoro chikoro. Kuita zvikanganiso, mwana wacho anowedzera uye anovaka kuzvivimba. Tinogona kumubatsira nemitsetse: "Edza zvakare!"; "Kurambana? Haisi kutyisa, zvino tava kugadzirisa! ".
Kuenzanisa
"Masha ariwo matatu, uye ari kushamba maoko ake pachake!"; "Tarisa kumukomana - haazomborwi!". Mwana anotanga kusava nechokwadi - vabereki vanomuda zvechokwadi here? Zvichida, muvakidzani Masha achirizve? Uye havangarambi vachienda kwaari nokusingaperi here? Somugumisiro, panzvimbo ye "muenzaniso wakanaka" mwana anotora kutya uye kuvhiringidzika, uye pane chido chekutevedzera muvakidzani Mashe - godo uye chido chekuchikwezera saiyo pigtail, kuitira kuti isakanaka. Nzira yakajeka yakajeka ndeyekuronga makwikwi emwana ... pamwe chete. Mwedzi wakapfuura akanga asina kushamba maoko ake-uye iye zvino akatanga: akanga asingazivi kutasva bhasikoro gore rakapfuura - iye zvino anotya asina "satellites" ... Tanga mazai akanaka emufambiro uye oiona nechechecheyeuchidzo Chimwe chiyeuchidzo chekukunda kukunda kuchasvitsa mwana kuve itsva kubudirira.
Kurumbidza
"Iwe ndiwe wakanzwisisa kwandiri (anogona, akanaka ...); "Ikoko Sashka ari pamberi pako!", Edza kusarumbidza mwana chaiye ("Iwe ndiwe unofadza zvikuru kwatiri"), uye zviito zvake ("Wakanyatsotora", "Wakaita zvose zvakanaka"). Kana zvisina kudaro, mwana achave akazvimiririra zvakare pane kugamuchirwa kwevamwe uye achatsvaka kurumbidza, uye kwete kuzadzisa chinangwa. Mukuwedzera, nokukurumidza mwana wako muduku achave ari muboka revana vekutanga (chikoro chechikoro, chikoro), apo vezera vasingafungi kukurumidzira kuziva "nyota" yake. Uye izvi zvinogona kuva zvakanyanya kuvhiringidzika.
Mhosva
"Rega kushevedzera - musoro wangu uri kupera!"; "Vambuya havana kungomisa mwoyo!" Uye t. Mwana anotora zvinhu zvose. Vana vane hanya uye vane manzwiro vanogona kuchinja kuti vave vakanyarara - mushure mezvose, nekuda kwekuratidzwa kupi pachena kwekunzwa, momma inogona kubhururuka kuita zvidimbu! Karapuzy upenzi unoedza: nekukwirira nekudanidzira kwekuchema, vachagutsikana kuti mwoyo-misoro yose yakashata, uye havazoregereri kudana kwako kwose. Gare gare vana ava havakwanisi kunzwirana newe munguva yekurwara - amai vangu vakanga vaisa joked kakawanda zvokuti zvinorwadzisa ... Nzira yakanakisisa yekubata nayo mwana ane hasha ndeyokutsvaga mutambo. Yakashambwa neimba ine mhere-mhere - inouya uye uchinge whisper chimwe chinhu munzeve yako.
Ultimatums
Kana iwe ukazojairira hurumende chete kuburikidza nechokupedzisira, dana kubetsera mutambo. Semuenzaniso, muto uri mori, mune zvidzitiro zvekutungira-miriwo. Iko "kitty" yako inoda kuidya "
Kusvibiswa kwerudo
"Handidi iwe unofarira izvozvo!"; "Zvakanaka, ndiani angave neshamwari nezvinhu zvakadaro?"; "Haungateereri - Handidi!". Hakuna mwana mumwechete mazwi aya haafaniri kuitwa kuti aite zvakanaka. Pane zvakasiyana, mwana anotanga kunzwa kunzwa kwakasimba uye kuvhiringidzika. Uye anoedza kudzorera kufarira kwaamai kunzira ipi zvayo iripo-iyo,, whims uye vanyengeri. Mushure mezvose, mwana asingazivi anonzwa kuti rudo rweamai kana kusakwanisa kwaari chinhu chekurarama, saka hazvisi pamitemo yakanaka! Usingarevi kuti kushamwaridzana norudo kunogona kutungamirira mukuzviisa pasi kwezvido zverefu: mwana achayeuka kuti iye pachawo haafanirwi rudo, kunze kwekuti kunze kwekuti asina kuzadzisa zvese zvevamwe. Iko inonyanya kukosha kumamamu ndiyo mutemo we "grammatical": maererano nechecheche, shoko rokuti "rudo" ne "particle" harisi kushandiswa. Icho hachisi kunze kwekutonga.
Apo kunyarara ndarama
Iwe unoda kutsoropodza murume wako (mudzimai, mbuya wemwana). Izwi iri rinowanzotenderera kune ivo pachavo, kana chinhu chekutsoropodza chisati chiripo. "Baba havasi kupfeka chikwama chako zvakare!"; "Amai zvino vachaunganidza makore zana!"; "Ambuya vako vakazviita here? Kunongoparadzwa! "... Zvinoratidzika kwauri, zviduku hazvikwanisi kuteerera mazwi aya? Hungu, uye iwe wakataura navo, kazhinji, kwete mwana, kurwiswa, vakaroorana vakasunungurwa? Ramba uchifunga mupfungwa dzako dzose idzi dzinoiswa mumweya wemwana kana kuti nehasha (shure kwezvose, anonzwa chikamu cheamai vake nababa, kana baba vakaipa, iye pachake iye akaipa); kana kuti sekusatenda kwauri ("ziso rimwe, rimwe ziso"). Nguva dzose "kuchera" kunotungamirira kukuti hama yakatsoropodzwa inorasikirwa nekuremekedzwa kwechecheche. Kugumburwa naamai vamwene vangu? Saka usamirira kuti mwana agare naye, achiita zvakanaka. Iwe unoswededzwa kukurukura mwana pamberi pake. Vana vanozvienzanisa nekufunga ivo pachavo izvo vabereki vavo vanoti pamusoro pavo. Naizvozvo, kana mwana achida kufuta foshoro, usataura zvakajeka neshamwari: "Haana simba," "Chimwe chinhu mumisodzi," uye "Muchechi yekunakidzwa naye iye akatambudzwa."