Apo musikana anotanga kushanyira pfungwa pamusoro pekuroorana, ipapo pakati pehuse hune hune hupenyu hwomurume wemunguva yemberi hunofanirwa kuva, ndiye anotanga kupa rupo. Uye izvi ndezvechokwadi, nokuti misha yakawanda inoparara, kana pakati pezvikonzero zvinokonzera kukakavadzana nemakaro evanhu, maonero echiremba wepfungwa munyaya iyi ndeyeperemptory.
Mhedziso yemakaro evanhu
Makaro evanhu, maererano nenyanzvi yepfungwa, chimwe chinhu chinowanzoitika. Zvinonzwisisika, murume ane ruzivo, akakurira kuva mania, uchawana zvakaoma kuwana, asi kune vanhu vazhinji vanoratidzira kusiyana kwakasiyana-siyana kwechinhu ichi. Uye chinonakidza ndechokuti mumiriri wega wegonde hwakasimba ane makaro evanhu.
Zvechokwadi, hakuna munhu achapopotedzana pamusoro pokuti munhu semuchenjeri tenzi ndiye munhu anotya. Nokudaro munyaya iyi, maonero echipfungwa chepfungwa anofunga zvakashuva chido chemunhu kwete kungowedzera chete asi kushandiswa kwekushandisa bhajeti. Asi kana makaro anoyambuka mitsara yose uye munhu anova anonyanya kunetseka uye asingabatsiri, izvi zvinokonzerwa nemukadzi, nekuda kwekuda uye chido chokuva nechimwe chinhu kwaari "vadiwa" kunotungamirira mukusazeuka kushandisa mari kwete chete kumudzimai wake, asiwo pamabatanidzwa evana, iyo inotungamirira kumakakatanwa emhuri. Izvi zvinoitika kuti vanhu vane makaro vanorarama nemitemo "kwete ivo ivo, kana kuvanhu", anounganidza mari uye hakuna munhu (kusanganisira murume pachake) ane kodzero yekuvabata.
Zvinokonzera kukara
Maererano nemumwe mupfungwa wepfungwa, kunwa varume, kukanda tsika iyi yakaipa, kuva nemakaro. Saka munhu anoedza kubata, achiverenga peneni imwe neimwe inopedzerwa nemudzimai wake pane chimwe chinhu, kukanganwa zvachose kuti "akasiya" mari yakawanda sei. Nenzira, makaro emusoro wakadzikama uye rupo mune dambudziko rekudhakwa - psychology yehutsika hwevarume vakawanda.
Chimwe chikonzero-pfuma inoshamisa yevanhu. Muchiitiko ichi, isu tose tinorangarira mazwi anoratidza kuti urombo hunotanga apo urombo hunoguma. Maererano nehupfungwa, huro hwemurume hunowanzoonekwa mumhuri dzakanaka.
Mune vamwe varume, makaro anogona kunyatsokodzera. Semuenzaniso, kutenga zvishongo kumwana zvinogona kutora chikamu chikuru pamusoro pekushandisa mari pane zvidha mari.
Icho chinonyatsoziva makaro omurume uyu, vakadzi ivavo vakawana kuti "vakatendeka" kune rumwe rutivi vane mudzimai akanaka (ivo pachavo) vanoziva. Mukadzi panguva imwe chete anoteerera nyaya dzinoshungurudza pamusoro pematambudziko emari omurume wake, nekuda kwekuti anomukurudzira kuti azvipire zvachose kune zvose. Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, iwe unogona kuona muenzaniso wemunhu anoziva-anoreva munhu.
Mafungiro ekuti kune geni rekukara here harina zvinyorwa zvaro, asi chokwadi icho chakagara nhaka chine kodzero yehupenyu. Sezvo upenyu hunotiratidza, munhu ane makaro haasi kungoberekwa chete, asi anogona kuva mumwe.
Ziva makaro
Kuratidzwa kwemunhu wemari uye kushandiswa kwemari, basa reine mutariri wezvemari, nezvekushingaira kwevarume nekudarika kwevakadzi, kwakagadzirwa kubva pauduku. Vamwe vevarume vakakurira mumhuri apo mukadzi wacho akanga asina kuvimbwa nemari. Musoro wemhuri yaive nechokwadi chokuti uyo anowana, anoshandisa, achidana mudzimai wake spender. Mwanakomana wacho anowana nhaka iyi uye anokura, anotanga kuitevera.
Vamwe vakadzi panguva yekuzivana ivo pachavo havabvumiri mutenzi kuti aratidze rupo, iyo inokurudzira kubuda kwemakaro. Zvaunorambidza kukupa zvipo zvinogona nyore nyore kutora wako unogona kuroorana naye pane zvaunogona kuita pasina iyo.
Saka, usati waroorana kana kutanga ushamwari hwakasimba, kurukura nemurume nyaya dzose dzezvinhu. Munhu wose ane maonero ake pachake nezve "chikwama chavose", rupo uye avarice. Ichokwadi chokuti munhu atova neavo uye asina mvumo yemari yekugovera mari, unofanira kunge uine chokwadi chekucherechedza.
Maererano nenyanzvi yepfungwa, vakadzi vakawanda havagoni kusiyanisa makaro kubva kune frugality, nekuda kwezvavanozviwana ivo mumamiriro ezvinhu asingafadzi. Nenzira, kunyanyisa frugality kunogona kuwana mune imwe nguva dzisina musoro dzemakaro.