Mukuwedzera, iwe unoda kuumba yako pachake purogiramu iyi. Pasina iyo, haugoni kushandisa zvinhu zvakawanda zvinobatsira iyo nzvimbo inokupa. Somuenzaniso, pane imwe nzvimbo yakakurumbira yekufambidzana unogona kuona mapeji evanhu uye pasina kubhadhara, asi iwe haugoni kuanyora mharidzo yega purogiramu yepaiti. Izvi zvinoreva kuti unogona kuonana nemurume waunoda chete kana akasiya email yake kana nhamba yefoni ichiwanikwa pachena. Imwe yemitemo inonyanya kukosha yekubudirira kuzivana nemurume ari mumutambo - tsamba rako remibvunzo rinofanira kunge rakasiyana zvakasiyana nemamwe mafomu panzvimbo ino. Zvakadini-zviri kwauri. Iwe unogona kuisa mufananidzo wakaisvonaka kwazvo (zviri nani kuti urege kuisa mapikicha mu swimsuit kana pasina, kana uri kuziva hukama hurefu uye hwakakomba - iwe haunzwisiswi), unogona kuuya nechirevo chinopenya. Kana iwe uine zvinhu zvisina kufanira, zvinonakidza - inzwa wakasununguka kuzvinyora zvakare. Munhu wose anoda kutaura nemunhu akadaro ane chimwe chinhu chaanotaura nezvazvo - mutemo uyu unoshanda kwete chete kana musangano mumutambo, asiwo mumunhu. Uye usakanganwa pamusoro peizvi pamakambani-funga pane chimwe chinhu chinonakidza kupfuura mabheji emashoko "iwe uri" uye "uri kuitei".
Kana iwe uchida kunyora zvakawanda kwauri, unofanirwa kuongorora purogiramu yako. Kuvandudza iyo (ndiani achaiwana pane mamwe mapeji matatu kana mana?), Wedzera mifananidzo mitsva. Iwe unogona zvakare kushandisa mahomwe akabhadhara, nzvimbo dzipi dzinowanzopa. Semitemo, haisi iyo yakadhura, uye, somuenzaniso, kupa kwekuisa mapepa ebvunzo kune imwe nguva pane pekutanga pewebsite kunogona kubatsira.
Kana iwe uchida kuzvirongedza uchiona mibvunzo yevarume, ipapo iwe uchange uchiteerera kune dzimwe mimwe mitemo yepambani yekufambidzana. Zvechokwadi, tsamba yako yemubvunzo inofanira kuva ichifadza (mushure mezvose, jaya raunoda richariongorora iyo apo iwe unyorera kwaari), asi haisi iwe chinhu chikuru. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuwana munhu akakodzera uye unyore kwaari kuitira kuti ave iwe anofarira iwe (pano mitemo yakafanana inoshandiswa sekunyorwa kwebhuku remibvunzo-rega).
Zvinonzwisisika kugadzira ma e-mail matatu kunyanya kufambidzana neshamwari. Nyora murume wamunofarira kubva kumatatu ose, mune imwe iwe unotsanangura zvose zvakanyanya kumativi ako, mune imwe - taura nezvako iwe sezvauri chaizvo, uye muchitatu uzvichengete iwe zvakawandisa. Uyezve tarisai tsamba iyo yaachapindura. Sezvo mutemo, kana mukomana achipindura tsamba dzose nhatu, haatore chido chakanyanya pakudanana kwepakombiyuta, uye zvichida, hazvizopfuuri kudarika kukurukurirana. Kana mukomana wacho achipindura chete kudiresi yawakazviratidza nayo neyakanaka - murume wacho ari kumutsvaga, uye naizvozvo, ukama naye hunogona kunge husingafadzi. Asi kana akapindura tsamba iyo, paunotsanangurwa muchiedza chaicho, usungirire humwe hutano-ushingi-uhu hukama hune tariro.
Mutemo unonyanya kukosha wekuchengeteka paunosangana nevakomana pamutambo - hauna, usina kuziva munhu uri pachenyu, haufaniri kupa foni yemusha, uye kunyange zvakadaro, kero yako. Usandiudza kuti ungasvika sei kumba kwako. Asi foni inogona kupiwa, zvakare, zviri nani kuti usanonoka danho rekunyora, taura nemurume pafoni, uye yechitatu kana yechina uye bvumirana pamusangano. Hapana nhaurirano haingakuregi iwe uzive nezvomumwe munhu kupfuura kungotaura kwako. Zvechokwadi, usabvumirana nemusangano wokutanga munzvimbo isina nzvimbo kana kumba - hazvina basa kana iye kana iwe. Asi paki yakazara, guta guru kana cafe ichaita zvakanakisisa.
Iyi ndiyo mitemo isinganzwisisiki yekufambidzana nemurume ari paIndaneti. Zvechokwadi, musikana wese anosarudza nzira uye mazano ekukurukurirana nevarume vakasiyana-siyana, kusanganisira mumutambo, asi mitemo yekuchengeteka inofanira kuteverwa nguva dzose, uye pakati pemimwe mitemo munhu wose achawana chimwe chinhu chinonakidza kwaari. Vanhu vakawanda variko nhasi vari kuwana zvavanoda kuzoita paIndaneti uye ndiani anoziva, zvichida arikumirira pane chikwata chekufambidzana.