Chii chikamu chechipiri? Iko kune chaicho chakanakisisa here kana kuti iyo inonyengera? Iwe unomiririra zvakajeka uye waunoda kurarama hupenyu hupi? Uye vanhu vanofungei nezvevakadzi uye zvakasiyana? Ngatiedze kupindura mibvunzo iyi.
"Chakavanzika chisina kugadziriswa", kana kurota kwevarume pamusoro pevakadzi.
Kazhinji kacho kune varume ndizvo zvakakosha kuva nebasa (bhizinesi uye zvimwe zvakasarudzwa), uye mukadzi anenge achisungirwa kuti avabatsire pakufambisa mberi kwebasa remakambani, kuumba kubwinya uye kubereka vana ... Chii chinofanira kuitwa uyu mukadzi hupenyu? Pane mukadzi akakodzera mumufananidzo wemurume here? Kana kuti inhema here? Ngatiedzei kuziva.
Mudzidzi wemakore makumi maviri nemakore anonzi Andrei akapindura mubvunzo pamusoro pemukadzi akakodzera kuti aripo, asi munhu wose ane pfungwa yake chaiyo yezvakanaka, zvichienderana nedzidzo, zvakatipoteredza, nezvimwewo. "Kwandiri, chinhu chakakosha," iyo jaya raifunga, "inyika yepakati, uye chimiro chinofanira kuva chakanakidza, saka hapana chinonyangadza. Nokufamba kwenguva, zvechokwadi, kunze kunoshanduka, uye nyika yomukati nemunhu nguva dzose, uye iwe unonzwa.
Vasily, 21, kurota "kuti musikana uyu, uye mushure mokunge mudzimai wacho aiva bhuruni rakakura rine vhudzi refu, ane mutsa, aiva nechitarisiko chakanaka, akatendeseka, kuitira kuti iwe ugone kuvimba naye, uye zvinonyanya kukosha - nenyika ine mupfumi yakawanda." Sezvakataurwa naVasily, anowanzowanzoziva vasikana vakanaka, vachitarisira kutarisa.
Uyu ane makore makumi matatu nemakore anonzi Andrey, uyo atove ane ruzivo nevadzimai, ane chokwadi chokuti "kutanga kune zvose, kunofanira kunge kune kuwirirana pakati pemurume nemudzimai." (Hungu, kunzwisisa kumwe - kunobatsira kune vakaroorana vakagara pamwe chete kwemakore 1 kusvika ku7). "Mukadzi akakodzera," jaya racho rinotenda, "rinofanira kubika zvinonaka, fungidzira zvido zvomunhu wacho, kutyaira motokari, uye muchimiro - kuva akanaka. Uyewo zvavo, nokuti murume anofanira kuramba ari chakavanzika, chinyararire. "
- Uye imwe imwe hafu, - yakabatana neimwe Andrew, - inofanira kuva neAphrodite mumuviri, kunyemwerera - Mona Lisa, meso - Cleopatra, uye unhu - Margaret Thatcher. (Zvichiitika, unhu hwe "Iron Lady" pane kunotyisa varume varo pane kunokwezva).
Varume stingily vakatsanangura mazano avo pamusoro pemukadzi akakodzera. Valery, 53, akataura zvishoma uye zvakajeka: "Handitendi mune vakadzi vakanaka. Mukadzi anofanira kuva nezvinhu zvose mumwero, asi chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechokuti rudo uye ukama pakati pemurume nemudzimai zvinofanira kukunda, kuitira kuti mukadzi akatendeka. "
Zvechokwadi, kumurume wese mukadzi akanaka zvakakwana chikamu chechipiri. Uye neongororo shomanana yevarume vanoverengeka vakakwanisa kuita mifananidzo yakazara yevakadzi vakakodzera. Saka, Anofadza kutaridzika, ane nyika yakawanda yepamukati, anofanirwa kubika zvinonaka, fungidzira zvido zvomunhu, ave wechokwadi, akakwanisa kutyaira motokari, asi achingosimbisa zvepabonde zvakasimba chinyararire chisingaverengeki.
Maonero evakadzi pamusoro pe "simba rakasimba", kana kuti "vakadzi vanosarudza".
Vakadzi vanoda hafu yehafu yei vakadzi vanoda? MuMiddle Ages, zvaitendwa kuti murume anofanira kunge ari munhu ane ruvara rwebhuruu-ruvara rwebhuruu-ruvara kana ruvara rwebhuruu rwebhuruu rine bvudzi refu refu, ushingi, akasimba, kutsungirira uye kuti mukadzi anonzwa ari pedyo naye se "mushure memasvingo ematombo". Nguva dzaive dzichichinja, asi zvakanakisisa zvegamba rakanaka rakagara mumazana emakore, asi paiva nemhare uye nekunakidza kutarisika ... Saka zvishoma nezvishoma mupfungwa dzevakadzi chimiro chomunhu chaiye chakaumbwa-chakasimba, chivimbo uye chinokwezva. Gare gare, izvi zvakanaka zvakatamira kune terevhizheni zvi ... Zviripo mukumiririra kwevakadzi uye ikozvino, muzana remakore redu chete zvinowedzerwa nezvimwe zvikamu: kuwedzera kune vakadzidza, vakasimba, vane chinangwa, vanozvigadzirira, murume anoda kuona mukati make - anonzwisisa, ane rupo, pfungwa yekuseka uye zvakafanana. Uye iyo yakanaka inoshanduka nezera.
Julia ane makore gumi namashanu, ane makore ane gumi namashanu, aakasangana naye mupaki, akarota kusangana nevana vaizofanana nenzira yakafanana nezvifananidzo zvevechidiki iye zvino kubva pamapapiro emagazini anoshamisa. Kunyange zvazvo zviito zvavo kana tsika dzisingaratidzi tsika dzomusikana. Ichokwadi kuti panguva ino vanoteerera kutaridzika.
Elvira, ane makore makumi maviri nemashanu: "Handitendi mune zvinangwa, nokuti ndinotenda kuti munhu wese ane zvigumbuso, asi tinowira saizvozvo murudo nevanhu, (hationeki kwatiri) kuti tinovhara maziso edu kwavari. Chokutanga pane zvose, munhu anofanira kuva ane rupo, akachenjera uye ane pfungwa yekuseka. Musikana mumwe nomumwe ane unhu hwake hwemurume chaiye, asi zvose zvakasiyana zvakasiyana uye izvo zvinodawo zvakasiyana. "
Alena, ane makore makumi mana: "Pazera redu, munhu anofanira kunge ari shamwari yaunogona kutaura naye, uyo angave nechido chokubatsira, nokuti unoda kunzwa kutsigirwa kwake, kuitira kuti aise joko rake panguva yakafanira. Asi usakanganwa nezvekuda, nokuti chikonzero cheizvi kunyange mumakore makumi mana hachina kupera, ndinoda kupa maruva. Kwemakore, tsika dzinoshanduka. Semuenzaniso, kuonekwa hakusi kuita basa rinokosha, uye kunyanya kunowanikwa kune ukama kune mumwe nemumwe. "
Nokudaro, iyo yakakodzera Iye ndeye: murume ane maitiro akanaka kwazvo kubva pachivharo chemagazini yakajeka, kureva, anofadza, ane rupo, ane njere, ane pfungwa yekuseka, rudo, rwechokwadi, runogona kupa mhuri uye kuonga mudzimai wake.
Pfungwa dzepfungwa dzepfungwa.
Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinotaura kuti kuburikidza nekubudirira kwesayenzi uye yezvigadzirwa zvemagetsi, tsika dzepfungwa dzakasakara, uye chimiro chevanhu vakakodzera chave chachinja kuti zvive nani. Pamberi pacho, mufananidzo wacho wakakonzerwa nehutsika hweunhu hweunhu, uye ikozvino - mari. Anenge makore gumi akapfuura zvose zvaiva 50 kusvika ku50. Pfungwa yevanhu vakakodzera yakasiyana kune vose. Zvechokwadi, ukama pakati pevakaroorana husiyana nezvenguva, uye izvi zvinowanzoitika. Zvakanaka, kana murume nomudzimai vakananga kushaya kukanganisa kweumwe neumwe. Kana pasina kukanganisa pakati pavo, kukakavadzana kuri kuitika kunogona kutungamirira kurambana. "
Nyanzvi yepfungwa dzeAmerica W. Harley akadzidza makore akawanda ezviuru zvevarume vakaroorana uye akauya kune izvi zvirevo maererano nezvinodiwa zveumwe neumwe. Zvinotarisirwa zvevarume pamusoro pevakadzi: kugutsikana kwepabonde, mudzimai akanaka, kuchengetedza imba, kutsigira tsika kumurume wake. Zvinotarisirwa zvevakadzi pamusoro pevarume: unyoro, rudo, kutaurirana, kutaurirana, kutendeseka, kuvhura, kubatsirana mune zvemari, kuvimbika kwemhuri, kubatanidzwa pakurera vana. Maererano naColon, kazhinji kukundikana kwevarume nevakadzi mukuvaka mhuri kunokonzerwa nekusaziva kwezvavanoda.
Saka, zvinoshanduka, kuti iyo yakanaka inotarirwa, kutanga kune yose, pakugutsikana kwezvido zvayo? Kana kuti ndiyo yakakodzera kubatana kwemukati nekunze kwenyika? Uye kana kuwirirana uku kusati kuripo mune zvakasikwa, zvakadini nemunhu! Mibvunzo iyi inoramba ichitaura.