Kwete nokuti handina zvakawanda-kusiyana. Zvakanyanya, kuti nenzira imwechete yairehwa: kana iwe uchitaura nehanzvadzi dzako dzose, vanamainini, vanamainini, vanun'una mana nehanzvadzi - hupenyu hahukwani. Nokudaro, ndaiva nemukana usingawanzobatsiri wekushandisa ruzhinji rwehuwandu hwevaviri kana vatatu vanodanana nevanun'una nehanzvadzi, vanamunini nevamunini. Mune mamwe mazwi, ndine kodzero yekuzvisarudzira - chimwe chinhu icho, maererano nemutemo usina kunyorwa Nha. 1, iwe unorasikirwa, uchiwana musoro wehukama. Asi nzira yekurarama nehama mune imwe imba?
Imwe hanzvadzi yangu yauya kuzoshanyira shamwari yangu. Kweawa imwe muenzi akatsoropodza zvose zvaibata ziso rake. Kutsoropodza kwakaratidzwa nenzira yekupa mazano ane mutsa, nechinguva chakaisvonaka: "Ndinoda zvakanakisisa." Semuenzaniso, akanyatsorayira mucheche kuti aite imwe, urongwa hwakanaka muimba. Zvichipa kuti musikana wacho achangopedzisa kugadzirisa, zano racho raireva sokunyomba, kana semashoko asina kunaka: "Zvose zvawakaita hazvina kunaka". Munguva iyi, mukadzi wacho akaudza ropaline kuti akanga avhara masvingo nemapuraneti asina kunaka, akatenga ndiro yakashata, napkins zvisina kunaka uye, zvechokwadi, akaisa misoro patafura. Handizivi chakaita kuti mukadzi aite izvi - kurera murombo kana chido chokuzvipira? Asi apo musuo wakaputika shure kwake, ndaiziva kunyatsoshamwaridzana neshamwari yangu, sokunge kuti akanga apfira mate kubva kumusoro kusvika kumakumbo, achimanikidza kuti ndinyemwerere zvakanaka. "Handichazomumizve zvakare!" Akataura zvakasimba. Ini ndakatsigira zvakakwana ...
Zvisinei, hafu yegore gare gare, mutemo kamwe kamwe wakawana kutevera. Nyaya yehanzvadzi yakaipa yakasvika mukukurukurirana kukuru. "Ndiko, sei, iwe haugoni kumutumira? - iyo yaizivikanwa yakarohwa nekuguma. "Ndiyo amai vako." "Asi Amai vangu vaiita zvakaipa," Ndakasimudzira shamwari yangu. - "Uye chii? - Handina kunzwisisa nharo dzaizivikanwa. "Amai vake." Amai vamwene vangu, pavanouya kumba kwedu, vanoita zvakanyanya. Asi chii chandingaita - iye, amai vemurume wake. Akamudzidzisa pasina baba vake, kunze kweiye, haana mumwe. Tinofanira kutsungirira. "
Ipapo ndakagadzirawo mutemo usina kufanira nhamba 2, iyo yakaudza nzira yekurarama nehama mune imwe imba. Hama dzine kodzero yekugumbura isu nokuti tiri hama dzedu. Amai vane kodzero yekuparadza upenyu hwedu, nokuti ivo vanaamai vedu. Uye mitemo iyi inoratidzika isinganzwisisiki kune vakawanda zvokuti kunyange kuedza kuisa mubvunzo chiratidzo kumagumo kuchaita sekumhura kunze kwechinangwa. Uye zvakadaro zvakakosha kuedza ... Ndiyo nzvimbo yakakwirira yeamai inomupa kodzero yekuparadza upenyu hwemhuri hwomwana wake here? Inzvimbo yehama inorega munhu ane basa rekururamisa nekuremekedza here? Uye, pakupedzisira, kushamwaridzana kwemhuri kunopa vanhu kodzero kunyange kwete kukuda pachena here?
Kugovana chete makumi mana (!) Makore makumi mana , shamwari yangu yakatora chisarudzo chakasimba uye yakamira kutaurirana nababa vake. "Haisi maari," akatsanangura kudaro. "Mukadzi wake wechitatu." Nguva dzose aisvibisa haana kundida. Zvechokwadi, haana kudana, haana kurova ... Nhamo. Ipapo ndaizobva ndabva. " Musikana anenge ane makore makumi maviri nemashanu akafanirwa kugara naye pazororo patafura imwechete uye anoteerera: "Oo, iwe unofadza sei iwe. Ndeipi yakasimba? Wakatenga iyo muzaarari? Murombo ... Murume wako anowana zvishoma here? Haisi mukana, hauna mukana naye ... "kana kuti" Iwe hausi muVienna? Zvinosuruvarisa sei. Ndiwo mararamiro achapfuura, uye iwe hauzooni chinhu. Pashure pezvose, iwe hausisiri musikana, iwe une marwadzo mumaziso ako. " "Unoziva, ini handiri musikana," akadaro shamwari. - Ndaneta nekuenda kunovashanyira nekuteerera kuti vanondinyadzisa sei nekuda kwekunyengera kwemhuri yakanaka. Kana baba vangu vachida kundiona, tichasangana mune imwe ndima. "
Pandakanga ndichiri kurarama naamai vangu, imwe hama yakauya kuzotishanyira (kwete mumwe wevanonyanya kuda). Pashure pemazuva mashomanana, takaona kuti zvinhu zvakanga zvanyangarika mumba. Kwete mari inodhura uye inokosha - magazini yandinoisa pedyo nechokusimudzira, ndichida kuverenga manheru, runyanga rwezvigamba ... Muenzi haana kuba - akazvitora pasina kuda, akavatora uye haana kuvadzosa nguva dzose. Magazini yakakanganwika mubhasi reTrolley, runyanga rwakarasika ... Amai vanoda rudo vanoedza kundinyengetedza kuti ndivhare maziso angu. Ndakaputsa pamapu eKiev - iyo inowanzogadziriswa pamakisikiti emazana emakore, asi inodhura zvikuru kwandiri, nokuti munguva yekutsvakurudza inofamba-famba muguta, migwagwa yakawanda yakaiswa pairi. Ndakakurumidza kuzvida. Uye mushure mokunge ndawana kurasikirwa, ndakaudza muenzi zvinhu zvose. Akakumbira ruregerero. Chiitiko chacho chakanga chapera.
Rimwe zuva ndakaverenga anecdote . "Mwana wechikoro ari kunyora nyaya. "Zvinosuruvarisa kuti, vanaamai, vana uye dzimwe hama dzinosvika kwatiri panguva iyoyo kana zvisingakwanisi kugadzirisa tsika dzavo dzakaipa." Kusvuta, kubvumirana naye. Asi kwete kusvikira pakuguma. Dzimwe nguva hatiedzi kuedza kuzviita. Isu tiri chete tinyerere uye tisingatenderi, tichiteerera murairo tichiti: "Zvakanaka, chii chaungaita? Ndizvo chete (amai, mbuya, mukoma nomunun'una)." Asi dai ndakanga ndakanyarara mumakadhi, hama yangu kubva pamutsetse "kwete kubva kune yaidiwa zvikuru" yaizoenda "kune avo vasingafaniri kutaurirana navo." Mushure mekutsanangurwa naye, takaparadzana kazhinji, uye gare gare aigara achishanyira zvakare. Hongu, akazviita zvisingaiti. Ini, mumaonero aamai vangu, zvakare. "Iwe unogona kuitei? Iwe hauna kurerwa mumapeji, asi ini ndiri paInited of Noble Maidens," takabvumirana. Asi kusava nehanya kwedu kwakabatsira kuti tive shamwari.
Uye ini ndinoramba kuziva mutemo usina kutaurwa nhamba nhamba 3. Zviri nani nekuremekedza kuvenga hama kupfuura, kusava nehana pamusoro pekuremekedza, kutaura navo pachena uye kugadzirisa ukama. Nokuti ndinoziva kubva pane zvakaitika - zvinogoneka! Uye pamwe nemadzimai, uye vanamainini, kunyange namadzimai vane makore makumi masere vanogona kubvumirana - dzimwe nguva unongoda kutaura navo nemashoko akafananachete aungaudza shamwari yako.
Zvakakosha here kutendeseka kubvumira kusagadzikana kusinganzwisisiki? Kunyanya kana mamiriro acho anogona kugadziriswa? Kana tikavhara mazino zvinyararire, isu pachedu tinoita kubva kune avo vakavimbika vanoponda mhosva? "Zvichida," shamwari iyi yakawedzera, "kana ndikapandukira kamwechete, pazera remakore makumi maviri, uye ndakaramba kuenda kumba kwababa vangu, angadai akanzwisisa: chimwe chinhu chakashata. Iye zvino akanga asinganzwisisi kuti nei ndakabva ndapanduka. "
Handirevi nhema kwauri - dzimwe nguva kubva kuedza kutaura moyo nemwoyo, hapana chinoitika. Iwe unofanirwa kusimudza vheti yekutendeseka uye uchiti: "Hauna kunaka" - wako wepedyo anokurumidza kuvanza mushure mokunge usingaoneki, semurusvingo, mitemo isingazivikanwe yatakavaka. "Hama dzine kodzero yekugumbura nokuti ivo ihama dzedu." Kubva pane izvo zvinoratidzika sezvizvi: kune hama iwe hauna kodzero yekugumbura (zvishoma, kwenguva yakareba). Zvakare, hazvina maturo, nokuti, maererano nemitemo nhamba 1, sarudzo - kutaura navo kana kwete - iwe hauna. Uye kazhinji mhuri inoramba kubvuma kukanganisa kwavo, kukanganisa, kana kunyange kutakura ivo pachavo nepamusoro pekuremekedza kwatiri kwatiri chero bedzi ivo vanotenda mukusvibisa kwayo. Kana vachinge vatenda mune kodzero yako yekusarudza, zvinhu zvinochinja sei. Shamwari yangu haina kutaura nainini vangu kwegore. Vakabva vauya zvakare. Hapana akamboudza chero ani zvake, asi sokunge kana nemashiripiti, sete vangu vakazova mukadzi anofadza, wepasi. Zvichida akange asingadi kurasikirwa nemukoma wake. Kana zvichida ukama hweropa huripo uye usingazivi iwe unosvikawo kwatiri. Ndinoda kutenda mune izvi ...
Nokuti kune chimwe chikonzero. Munguva yedu, apo mhuri dzemhuri dzakaramba dziripo kare, mitemo mitatu yehutano hwehukama nehama inotsanangurwawo nekuti isu takakanganwa hukama hwakanaka hwekare hwemhuri nehama! Icho chinhu chimwe chete kana mhuri isina amai vasina mwana uye mwana wavo mukuru, avo vakatsanangura kuti: "Ndakupa zvinhu zvose, uye, kunze kwako, handina mumwe." Uye zvakanyanya, apo pave pedyo ne makumi mashanu - vanozvarwa, vakoma, vakoma, asi vachinzwa ivo pachavo vakanini! Uye iwe unogona kusarudza kubva kwavari avo vanokodzera mweya uye chiratidzo chezodhiac. Uye kana iwe uchida rubatsiro, uye murume akabatikana - iwe unongoidza baba vako kana hama. Uye amai vekukuvadza vane dambudziko duku, kana risati riri vatatu, asi makumi maviri emadzikoma, vanamainini, vanun'una, uye vanun'una vanogara pamabiko patafura. Iwe unongogara pane imwe mugumo wetafura nevaya vanodiwa kwauri. Uye kunyange kana rimwe zuva iwe usingakwanise kuuya, hakuna munhu achakupomera mhosva yekunyengedza tsika dzemhuri ... Muchi kagal izvi hazvingaonekwi!