Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzinofunga kuti nguva iyo dambudziko iri rinowanikwa muhukama, inobva pachigarire chekuvandudza kwemhuri pachayo, kubva pane zvinodiwa nemhuri. Mhuri imwe neimwe yega yega ine matambudziko aya panguva dzakasiyana-siyana: mumwe munhu angave nechinetso chokuchinja uye masvondo mashomanana mushure mekugara kwechikwata, uye mumwe munhu mushure memazana emakumi emakore eve mhuri inofara idyll. Kubudirira kwekutarisana nenguva idzi inenge nguva dzose kunobva pane chido chevadzidzi vose kuti vawane kusavhiringidza, kugamuchira, kwete kuchinjana.
Crisis First
Izvo zvinoitika kana tikashandura pfungwa yedu yekutanga yemudiwa - iyi ndiyo rudzi rwekushanduka kubva pane rudo rwechimiro chakanaka chemudiwa kune zvimwe zvechokwadi, zvechokwadi uye zvakaoma. Panguva ino, vanhu vanoziva kuti huro hwehutano hausi husiku humwe chete hunofamba, hukama hune rudo uye hutsvoda pasi pemwedzi, asiwo hubatanidzwa, dzimwe nguva husingafadzi, hupenyu hwezuva nezuva. Kwete kubvumirana chete muzvinhu zvose, asiwo kudiwa kwekutendera. Panguva ino, zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti inowanzodiwa kuchinja tsika dzako kuitira kuti urambe uine hukama hwakanaka uye nzvimbo yakanaka mumhuri.
Dambudziko reChipiri
Inotanga apo pane chido chekuzvitsaurira pachako kubva kumanzwiro e "isu", kusunungura chikamu chehupenyu hwedu nokuda kwekubudirira kwedu. Zvakakosha pano kuti "Ini" yeumwe haisi kupesana ne "Ini" yeimwe, asi yakabatanidzwa pamutemo wekubatanidza. Izvi zvinoreva kuti mukukurukurirana zvakakosha kushandisa urongwa hwekubatana, izvo ndezvekuwana imwe nzira: sei kuti urege kurasikirwa newe pachako uye kuti usapesana nezvimwe. Somuenzaniso, kana chinzvimbo cheimwe munguva ino "tine zvinhu zvose zvakafanana, isu tose tinofanira kuita pamwe chete", zvinobatsira kuidzokorora nenzira yechinangwa cheimwe nzira: "Ndinoremekedza hurumende yeimwe uye ini ndinoziva kwaari kodzero yehupenyu hwangu, iyo isingasviki pane imwe mhuri ".
Dambudziko Rechitatu
Zvinoratidzwa apo munhu anoda kuziva nyika yakamupoteredza, asi panguva imwe chete iye akasimbiswa zvikuru kumhuri yake, uye kunzwa uku kwekukonzera kunowanzoita kuti pave nemapapiro mumhuri. Zvakakosha kuti usapotsa nguva iyo mudiwa weusununguko inogona kukura kuva manzwiro ekuzvimirira zvakakwana uye kunyange kushora kubva kumhuri, apo wechipiri anoteerera kuda uye zvishuwo zvekutanga. Zvino kusimbisa kushanduka kune nyika yekunze, uye mhuri, panzvimbo yekushanda sechirudziro chekusimudzira, kamwe-kamwe inova mutoro uye inova mutoro unoregererwa.
Dambudziko rechina
Zvinowanzoitika kana munhu achichinja maitiro emukati mune zvemweya, kureva kuti, mudzimai wake anotanga kupa zvido zvisingaiti kune mararamiro ehupenyu, asi mumweya. Zvinowanzoitika apo vana vava vakuru uye havadi kugara nekuchengetwa kwevabereki, vana ivo pachavo vanoda kukura uye kukura semunhu mumwe nomumwe. Mhuri yevakaroorana inowanzove yakasununguka, murume nomudzimai vane zvimwe zvigadzirwa zvemhizha shure kwavo. Munguva iyi, unogona kuva nemafungiro enhema: "Sezvo takabatana chete nevana vana, zvakakosha pane zvose kuti tiedze kuzvichengeta pedyo navo, kwete kuvabvumira kuti vaende voga", kana kuti "vana vakakura nguva dzose vanondiyeuchidza chokwadi chokuti hupenyu hwangu huri kusvika kumagumo, hunova husina maturo uye husina maturo, "kana kuti" tatove tatova pachedu, iye zvino tinoda kurega vana vedu vachirarama, uye isu tinogona kuzvirega isu pachedu. " Izvi zvinokonzera kushungurudzika zvinokonzera kusuruvara uye kusuruvara pane kufara uye mufaro kubva pakuti iwe unogona kunzwa rusununguko zvakare, usaisa pfungwa pavana chete uye uzviite iwe uye mabasa ako aunoda.
Nzira yakanaka yekupedza dambudziko rakadai: kuoneka kwekuda kwekuchinja, chido chokurarama hupenyu huri iwe pachako, kufara nekukura semunhu. Nzendo dzakasiyana, misangano neshamwari uye kushanyira kumitambo inotanga zvakare. Avo vanopukunyuka dambudziko iri pasina kurasikirwa, vanonzwa kukura kwesimba, kuwedzera mune simba rinokosha uye chido chitsva cherudo uye kudiwa, kufarira upenyu, chido chekubatana nevanhu vemunyika yose uye nemumwe wavo vanomuka.
The Fifth Crisis
Anokwanisa kutungamirirwa nepfungwa dzakaoma kwazvo: "Upenyu hwangu hunoswedera pedyo nekuvira kwezuva, kuguma kwayo uye kuguma, saka naizvozvo vamwe vose vanofanira kurarama mukufungidzira nekugadzirira rufu." Vamwe vakaroorana vanogadziriswa pane zvakaitika kwavari, vanoda kuti vanhu vakakomberedza vave netsitsi kwavari uye vagova nehanya zvakanyanya. Asi zvinogara zvichienderana nezvomunhu pachake izvo upenyu hwake hunoratidzika kwaari. Hazvina maturo uye hazvibatsiri kana uzere nemufaro uye zviitiko zvinopenya kwauri uye unobatsira kune vamwe vanhu. Kana munhu asvika pane imwe nguva, manzwiro ake anowedzera kukura, ave akaonda uye ane tsitsi, anokwanisa kuwana mufaro iwoyo wehupenyu zvokuti iye haana kungocherechedza nekuda kwehuduku hwake uye maximalism.
Zvakanaka, mumhuri iyi, munguva iyi, zvakare inouya nguva yehukama hwepabonde, asi kwete hupenzi uye hupenzi sehuduku, asi neruzivo rwekukundikana nekukanganisa, kukwanisa uye chido chokugamuchira wako wako zvachose. Kukosha komumwe wako kunowedzera, zvinoreva pfungwa yokuti "isu" inowedzera uye kunzwa kunomuka: "Imwe inokosha kwandiri kupfuura ini." Panguva imwecheteyo, kutenda kune simba rega uye kufarira muupenyu hunosimbiswa, kudzokera kune zvaimbofarira zvinodiwa zvinoitika, kana zvitsva zvitsva zvinobuda.