Kugadzirira chichato kunoda kufungisisa zvakawanda zvemashoko asingabatanidzi nguva dzesangano kana kusarudzwa kwezvokupfeka, maresitorendi uye nzira iyo chiitiko chichaitika. Pfungwa inokosha ndiyo kuronga kwekugara. Pano iwe unofanira kufungisisa mavara akadaro sezera revaeni, vanoziva mumwe nomumwe kana kwete, uye zvinonyanya kukosha - vane vana. Muchato unoreva kuti vanhu vakuru vemhemberero iyi ndevaya vanokudza zvinhu izvo chaizvoizvo zvinoitika. Zvisinei, kuvapo kwevana pakati pevaenzi kunogona kunyatsogadzirirwa kuchinja kuva kuita kwevana mangwanani.
Zviri pachena kuti mubereki wese anotenda kuti chinhu chikuru ndicho chido chemwana wavo, asi izvi hazvirevi nguva dzose uye hazvisi nguva dzinonakidza kune vanhu varipo. Saka, pane zviitiko zvakasiyana siyana zvinogona kuitika kana vana vanogona kuva pakati pevakashanyira. Chokutanga, zvinoita kuti utumire mapepa nguva isati yasvika, iyo ichazoonekwa kuti mabiko inofanirwa kuendeswa pasina vana, kunyanya mumahotera akawanda iyi ndiyo imwe yemamiriro ezvinhu ekuraira mabiko.Kana kuvapo kwevana hakusi dambudziko, unogona kuvhara zvakasiyana kwavari kana kuti kukwereta michero inotora vashanyi vaduku. Mukuwedzera, iwe unogona kusanganisira vana zvakananga mumutambo wokupemberera. Zvisinei, nguva yemwana inofanira kuverengwa. Zvichava zvakaoma kumwana kuti asvike pagore, kwete chete iye achaneta iye pachake, asi acharamba achipa zororo rakanaka uye anofara vabereki.
Saka, kana zvakasarudzwa kuti vana vachatora chikamu mumhemberero kana mune imwe chikamu chayo, vanofanira kucheneswa pamusoro peizvi. Pashure pezvose, kana vachiziva kuti ivo vakagamuchirwa, kune avo, muchato wemumwe munhuwo uchava chiitiko chakakosha chinotarisirwa, chavanenge vakanyatsogadzirira. Vana vanogona kunge vari kuita mhemberero se "vakaroorana". Iwe unogona kukumbira vasikana kuti "vapindure" madenguki ne rose rose. Uye vakomana vacho vachaita mabasa epeji, iyo inotakura chitima chekupfeka kwemwenga panguva yemhemberero, uyewo mukomana anokwanisa kubata mhemberero yemwenga kana mhemberero nemhete. Chinhu chimwe chete chisingakanganwi, zvakadaro, ndicho chikonzero chekukurukurirana mabasa anopiwa vana nevabereki vavo.
Chinhu chikuru chinozodiwa pakugadzirira kwevana ndechokusarudza chikafu chakakodzera. Kuti uwane chifuro chemusikana kunokosha kuchengetedza zvinopfuura rimwechete doro, kunaka kwenguva yedu kunopa dzimwe nguva kudarika kudiwa asi zvinofanira kurangarirwa kuti chipfeko hachifaniri kungova chakanaka chete, asi chinyararire, nokuti mwana mwana. Mushure me "basa rinokosha" richaitwa, mwana achafanirwa kutamba uye kutamba, asingatongotambudziki chero chinhu chipi nechipi chinovhiringidza kubva kumucheka wakachena. Nokuda kwekusarudzwa kwemapfekete kana zvipfeko zvemusikana, zvakakosha kusimudza chisarudzo chako pamusoro pemirazi miviri, zvisinei kuti yakajeka burgundy kana jasi rebhuruu rima haringataridzi kufanana chaizvo nemapfekero emwenga. Zvinonzwisisika kutarisa kubhadharira musati wasarudza jasi rake. Zvichida kuti muchato uchataura kana kuti mhemberero ichachengetedzwa mune rimwe ruvara rwemavara, saka rinofanira kuenderana. Zvinokwanisika kuti zvipfeko zvevana zvichagoverwa nevarongeri vekupemberera.
Munyaya iyi, gadzirira mukomana zvakajeka zvikuru, nokuti iye zvakakwana kusarudza sutu yakasimba, shangu, neketani yomupfu uye murume muduku akagadzirira!
Hazvina maturo kutaura kuti chipfeko chakadai chevana vaduku hachibatsiri kukura, nokuti inoda imwe yemhemberero, uye vana vanokura nekukurumidza uye hazvigoneki kuti vakwanise kupenya muhomwe imwechete mugore kana kwemwedzi mitanhatu gare gare.
Zvisinei, vana sevashanyi vangave vakawandisa kana kuti havangobatanidzi mumhemberero, munyaya iyi, sarudza chifukidzo chichava nyore. Asi zvose zvakafanana hazvidikanwi kuti zvive zvishoma kune jeans ne koftotkami, regai kusvibiswa chero kupi zvako kunzwe chikamu chechiitiko.
Mubvunzo wokutenga chikafu chakakodzera checheche chinosangana nedambudziko rakadaro sekutsvaga kwarwo. Batsirwa iye zvino kune uwandu hwezvitoro, kusanganisira paIndaneti kupa hupfumi hwakawanda hwevana vezororo rezvokupfeka zvemarudzi akasiyana-siyana. Uyezve, sechinhu chisarudzo, mazano ezvitoro zvakasiyana-siyana anofanira kurasa zvakare.
Chero mamiriro ezvinhu, chinhu chikuru chinofanirwa kuyeukwa - kuvapo kwevana muhuwandu hwevaeni kunoda mamwe maitiro, kuitira kuti vaenzi nevashanyi vagutsikane nemhemberero.