Anokusiya iwe neshamwari dzake. Pakupera kwevhiki, apo iwe unorota kuva nemapati pamwe chete, anoenda kunobata hove neshamwari. Imwe nguva anomhanyira kune waanodzidza naye kuti aite dacha. Uye iwe wakasara uri woga kumba. Ushamwari hwemurume - rudzi rwekuzvidzivirira uye kurwisa sei? Mubvunzo unorwara kubva muupenyu hwevakadzi vakawanda.
"Siya shamwari dzako nekuda kwangu ..."
Saka, sei murume achida mumwe murume? Nhamo, murume ane mukadzi akanaka, asi kune imwe nzvimbo. Pane imwe nguva iye achada denderedzwa yevamwe vanhu kuti anzwe semunhu. Saka rakarongwa. Asi izvi hazvirevi kuti iwe haufaniri kutaurirana neshamwari dzako neshamwari uye nguva imwe neimwe inobvumirana nehuwandu hwenguva yaanopa kune nhengo dzehutano hwake! Ngationgororei mamiriro acho ezvinhu muenzaniso wakakosha. Heano unhu hunozivikanwa (Julia E., Ekaterinburg). "Pakutanga ndaifara kuti Ivan, murume wangu, ane shamwari dzakawanda. Nguva dzose vaitenda kuti ushamwari hwemurume hahuzi nengozi (ini handireve rudo rwepabonde imwechete). Izvo zvine ngozi zvikuru kana murume ane musikana. Pamuchato, shamwari dzake dzakandipfekedza mumaoko angu, ndainzwa semambokadzi. Zvisinei, mwedzi mitanhatu gare gare zvinhu zvose zvakachinja. Murume wacho akaenderera mberi kusangana neshamwari, aenda kunobata navo, kunwa doro pawaini yepamusoro pamagumo evhiki, pamwe chete nemuchato usati wasvika. Handina kunzwisisa izvi. Mushure mezvose, iye zvino ava murume akaroora, ane mhuri, asi anozvibata sekuti akanga ari mucheche! Zvakazoitika kuti shamwari dzake dzinokosha kwaari kupfuura ini. Ndinofanira kugara ndoga pamba, uye panguva ino iye achanwa doro nevaya vekuchikoro navo! Pakupedzisira, akandiita kutsamwa paakatanga kuenda kundobatsira mumwe weshamwari dzangu kuvaka imba. Vhiki dzose dzevhiki - kwaari. Uye kudai zvaive pamusoro pemari, nezvemari - ndinenge ndichiri kunzwisisa. Uye zvekare akashanda pasina. Anoti, "Tiri shamwari, tinoda rubatsiro, iye achandibatsirawo pandinofanira." Ichakubatsira! Ndinonyatsopokana neizvi. Anongova nemafungiro asina simba, murume wangu, ndiko kushandiswa kwake. Handizivi kuti ndingaitei mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, chii chandinofanira kuita? ". Chinhu chokutanga iwe unogona kuraira Julia - usakurumidza. Kazhinji zvichida, kwete kunyange gore mushure memuchato. Kuumba mhuri inzira itsva yehupenyu, rwiyo rutsva. Haasi munhu wose akakwanisa kukurumidza kusiya nzira youpenyu yaakatungamirira, kuva chiremba. Sezvo mutemo, shamwari dzekare dzisiya mubasa rekuona murume wacho zvishoma nezvishoma: vanoroora, vanobva, vanoenda kure ... Zvakakosha mushure mekuroorana muchato kukumbira kubva kumunhu kuti aputse zvose zvaimbova hukama uye kuzvipira iye oga nemhuri here? Kune vamwe, kuzadziswa kwezvinhu zvakadaro hakusi kwakaoma. Asi kana muhupenyu hwemurume mukomana ushamwari musangano usati waita basa rinokosha, saka rakatova, sezviri, chikamu cheunhu hwake. Nokudaro, zvinokosha kuti titeerere nekusarudza. Zvibvunze mubvunzo: chii chinobatanidza wakasanangurwa neshamwari dzake? Ndezvipi zvakadzama zvekunzwa? Sei achiomerera kuvanhu? Ndivanaani vehama? Kana iri mubvunzo webasa, pamusoro pekudavira - munhu anofanira kunge akangwarira zvikuru. Nikita P. - inveterate climber, makore mazhinji akaenda kuMamirs, akakunda zvose zvikomo zveCaucasus. Mumakambani anopfuura kamwechete aifanira kubatsirana. Mukuwedzera, makomo ari moto, nziyo dzegitare ... Ushamwari nevamwe vanosimudza hunoenderera mberi uye pavanodzokera kumusha. Nikita mudzimai wake Olga "anobvumira" chido chemukondi wemurume wake, achiziva kuti kubva kune chikamu chehupenyu hwake murume haakwanisi kuramba, kunyange kana achida mukadzi. Nguva nenguva, anokokwa kumapato apo vanosimudza vanosangana nemadzimai avo. Olga akava shamwari neimwe yemhuri idzi. Kubva "shamwari" yakadaro hakuna ngozi. Murume weOlga anoonga "kunzwisisa" kwake, anonzwa asina mhosva nguva dzose paanoenda kumakomo, achimusiya ari oga. Asi paanodzoka anoedza kumupa kunyatsoteerera sezvazvinogona. Kukurukurirana neshamwari, zvakare, munyaya iyi yakanaka kwaari. Usakanganwa: kuitira kuti murume wako ave semunhu anewe, anofanira kuzvienzanisa nevamwe varume! Anofanirwa kunge achiratidzwa mumaziso omunhu wake oga: anodzivirira kutsungirira, ushingi, kutsunga, mutoro, inovandudza humiro hwemurume (iwe unobatsira!). Yeuka, munharaunda ipi inokura "mai vaamai": chaiyo, mumukadzi.
Kunyangwe iwe uchikwanisa "kusungira murume kumucheka" - mamiriro acho angave akasiyana. Zvakaitika naAna. Akakwanisa kuzadzikisa izvo murume wake akarega kudzidzira. Sezvo Sergei (saizvozvowo zita rake) aifarira zvikuru Anna, iye, sezvavanotaura, akafamba pariri penziyo pamutsipa wake uye akava "murume wemhuri" chete. Chigumisiro - kubva kune munhu akanyarara, akataridzika, akazvivimba, akachinja makore aya mu hypochondriac inogumbura, isina simba, isina hanya. Kubhururuka nekukurukura nemamwe magliders kwakamupa pfungwa ye simba rake, iyo yakaumba mufananidzo we "I-man." Murume haafaniri kuita zvinoenderana nemitsipa yevakadzi, anofanira kunge akasimba zvakanyanya kukanganwira kusava nesimba kwevakadzi ... Zvose izvi Sergei aive nazvo, uye ndizvo zvaive zviitiko izvo zvakamukwezva kuna Anna. Nekubva pakubhururuka, "chimiro chemurume" zvishoma nezvishoma chakawa, Sergei akatanga kukurumidza, asingazviwani. Izvi zvakakanganisa maitiro ake, ukama hwake nemudzimai wake. Zvinosuruvarisa, asi nhasi havasi kurarama pamwe chete. Vose havana kufara: Anna akawana mumwe murume, asiwo ivo havana kufara naye, uye Sergei haagoni kudzokera kumurume wake chido chekuita ... Chokwadi, mamiriro ehurume ehumurume yakasiyana. Saka, usati watonga, funga kuti murume wako ane boka rei. Sezvo mutemo, nemunhu pachake, nenzira yaanopfeka, kuti anozvichengeta sei, nenzira yake yekutaura - zvose zvinobva zvava pachena.
Zvakanaka, kana murume wako akapoteredzwa nevarume muchirevo chakanaka chezwi. Kana izvi zvibudirire, vamiririri vanoziva vakanaka, vashandi vakashinga. Zvakanaka, kana chiitiko ichi chiri makomo, gungwa, parachute kutumbuka kana mutambo wemakwikwi. Uye kana bhodhoro kana madhiragi? Kana varume vachiunganidza, kungo "kubata mitauro", makuhwa pamusoro pemadzimai? .. Makambani akadaro uye "shamwari" dzakadaiwo. Asi ivo vanhu chete here? Uye chii chavanokwanisa kupa "chimiro chemurume" chomurume wako? Chimwe chinhu ndechekuti murume haadi kukuzivisa iwe neshamwari dzake, anofanira kukubvunzisisa.
Ngwarira - bhidhiyo yekare!
Julia haatauri chinhu nezvezera rake nemakore ake. Kana murume ane makore makumi maviri, zvinoita zvakanaka kuti haasati atoziva, nzvimbo ipi iyo shamwari dzinofanira kutora muupenyu hwake, kwete. Haasati azvinzwa kuva murume wakakwana wemhuri (kuti izvi zviitike, isu tinodawo kuedza kune chikamu chemukadzi). Sekutonga, kuchinja kukuru nekuonekwa kwemucheche. Kuremera kwemhuri mupfungwa dzemurume kunowedzera, uye hazvisi nyore zvakare kwaari kuti "abve pamba," chido chinomuka kubva pangozi yababa kuti "inopinda mumba momunhu," "mwana wake oga." Kusvika ikozvino, murume waJulia anoita sechiremba, haasati aziva maitiro ake emhuri. Zvisinei, kana Ivan ane makore anenge makumi matatu (kana makumi matatu), saka pane zvikonzero zvose zvekutinhira. Murume akwegura-kati, kana asina mhuri, anowanzogadzirisa kuwana hutano mukukurukurirana pamwe chete saiye pachake. Iko, sezvakange zvakaita, ukama hwekusurukirwa (kunzwa uri woga) varume. Nemitambo yavo isina kunyorwa, kugara kwemisangano, nehurukuro dzavo dzinowanzoitika. Kazhinji, kana vakaroora uye varume vachiri kuungana pamwe, kunwa, kuenda kunobata hove, kushamba, kuitira kuti asiye nzvimbo iyo isati isingawaniki yavaiva nayo vasati varoorana. Zvakafanana nekamuri yakatsaurirwa muimba yakagoverwa: akaendako, akavhara suo shure kwake, uye-tapota usanetseka. Ichokwadi, hapana chakaipa mune izvi - kusvikira mamiriro ezvinhu matsva haasi kupikisa zvakasimba kune vekare vakasununguka. Chinhu chakakosha: apo mudzimai anonzwisiswa sekolonizeri yezvino kusvika kumativi akazvimiririra. Chimwe chinhu, muvengi, shamwari uye kurukura pamusoro pehove. Iyi nguva yekupedzisira inonyanya kuipa. Nokuti panzvimbo yekudzidza kuwana kusanzwisisana mukati memhuri, murume anowanzojaira "kutora micheka yakaisvonaka kunze kweimba." Achiudza shamwari nezvemudzimai wake, iye, sezvazviri, achimutsiva nokuda kwekunyadziswa kwaakatambura, anoporesa kuzviremekedza kwake. Anovaka "chimiro chaiye," chinomushumira sechazara, asi kwete mumhuri, kwete mumeso omudzimai wake, asi - kunze! Uku kutengesa kunowedzera kusimbisa manzwiro ake ane utsinye kumudzimai wake. Chiyero pakati pevakaroorana chiri kukura. Tinogona kutaura kuti uku ndiko kutanga kwemugumo.
Leonid B. kazhinji aitisana nharo nemudzimai wake, uye kazhinji chinokonzera kukakavadzana kwaiva nezvinetso zvepabonde. Panguva imwe chete haana kuona kuti akakuvadza sei mukadzi wake. Achitsemura musuo, akaenda kune shamwari dzake. Uye vanogona kunge vari mumamiriro ezvinhu akafanana. Uye pano nokuda kwevadzidzi vewaini munjodzi vakatorwa kuzokurukura madzimai avo. Zvinonzwisisika kuti sei vaida zvikuru "misangano yevarume": pamisangano yakadaro vaibata basa ravo ne "kutarisa masikati kuvakadzi." Ndinofanira kutsanangura here kuti kutarisa uku kwaiva kusinganzwisisiki, dzimwe nguva kungofanana, nekushandisa kwemashoko anonyadzisa? Uye nharo pamusoro pengozi yehupenyu hwemhuri yakatungamirira kukuti, pakuguma, mudzimai akasiya Leonid.
Shamwari dzinozadza chivharo.
Kana pakati pako nemumwe wako kune ukama chaihwo hwemweya uye hwemweya, murume wake haazombotombodi kutsvaka "chikwata" kune rumwe rutivi. Iko, hongu, varume avo vanongokwanisa chete kusimbisa ukama hwakadaro nemukadzi. Asi kazhinji kacho tiri kutaura nezvekuparadzanisa kusinganzwisisiki, nezvekusada kushanda mumweya, kupinda munyika yezvinetso, zvinetso, zviitiko zvemunhu waunogara naye. Saka zvishoma nezvishoma kuvhara kunogadzirwa, izvo vamwe varume (kana vasina kutarisira makadzi!) Vari kuedza kuzadza nokukurukura nevarume.
Andrei L. akarota kuva mutungamiriri wemapurisa, asi haana kumbokwanisa kupfura rimwe firimu. Nhasi anotungamirira denderedzwa rinoshamisa, anonyora mitambo iyo hakuna munhu anoisa. Akatopfuura makumi matatu, uye hupenyu hunoita sokuti hauna tariro. Akatsamwa, nguva dzose ane mafungiro akaipa. Munguva pfupi yapfuura akatanga kunwa. Mudzimai wake anonzwisisa here? Anopesana ne "kusvibiswa" kwake, sezvaanozvitumidza. Asi apo Andrei akaedza kumutsanangurira zvaiitika mumweya wake, zvakamuita kuti atsamwire. Anofunga kuti zvinonakidza kuda kwomurume wake kuva muveki wemagetsi. Mugumisiro: Andreya anowanzoonana nevarume kubva kumativi ose ekugadzirwa kwebhizimia, uko vanomunzwisisa zvakakwana, kuwana mazwi akakodzera, anokurudzira, uye kutsigira mumweya. Asi munguva pfupi yapfuura Andrew haana kukwanisa kumira ndokutanga kunyunyuta kune shamwari pamusoro pemudzimai wake. Uye pano Ndakawana kunzwisisa kwakakwana pakati pavo! Haasiye mhuri, asi haatsvaki kunzwisisa uye tsitsi, kupesana pakati pavo kunowedzera. Tarisiro inosuruvara: hazvigoneki kuti mhuri yakadaro ichagara kwenguva refu. Iwe unokwanisa kubatsira murume wako kuva mutungamiriri wefirimu here? Kwete kwete. Zvisinei, iwe unogona kunzwisisa kunzwisisa kwake, manzwiro ake, kukakavara kwake mukati. Uye izvi zvakakwana kuti tive nekuvimba, uye kuti murume wacho akatanga kutsvaka rubatsiro mukati memhuri, uye kwete neshamwari kune rumwe rutivi.
Shamwari dzomukadzi wake.
Zvakafanana nechepamusoro kwechinetso. Musikana wako uye murume wako (kana shamwari). Ukama hwemurume kumusikana wemudzimai wake hunowanzove nekuita zvepabonde (kunyatso!). Kune varume vanozopedzisira vatanga kuziva mudzimai wavo nesikana yake. Kunyanya kana iyewo kazhinji achionekwa mumba uye anopindira munyaya dzose. Anoti zvipfeko zvaunopfeka. Anopa mazano ekuti asarudze mifananidzo. Uye anobatsira pamapurisa iyi wallpaper! Anotokupa mazano pamusoro pokuti ungaita sei zviri nani mubhedha. Nokudaro, anopinda munzvimbo yepedyo yomurume. Manzwiro kumudzimai anotanga kuendeswa kune musikana! Mumwe murume haazive chaizvo kuti musikana wake aripi, uye kupi mudzimai wake ... Rimwe sarudzo yehukama hwemurume neshamwari yomudzimai wake "musikana seanopikisana." Izvi zvinoitika, kana munhu ari mudiki, nzeve mukudanana nemudzimai wake uye haadi kugovana naye kune ani zvake. Haafaniri vamwe vakadzi. Asi mudzimai iye zvino "anoenda kune shamwari yake": achitaura naye pafoni, achimupa nguva yakawanda (nekuda kwekutariswa kwemunhu). Haisi nguva refu kupopotedzana: iwe unogona kuva negodo neshamwari! Zvinoshamisa here? Kwete. Yeuka manzwiro aunofunga iwe pachako nebhokisi kana kambani yekurovedza yemurume wake. Zvimwe, zvakafanana zvakafanana: munhu asina munhu anoda kugoverana noupenyu hwemumwe wako. Kubva pane izvi uye vanotambura. Saka anopomera. Iro zano chete nderokubvumirana kuwirirana, kuratirana, kuedza kunzwisisa manzwiro omumwe wako.
HAUNI CHINHU CHICHAFUNGA IF:
• anosangana neshamwari dzisina kukwana
• panguva yemisangano vanoyeuka zvakaitika kare, zviitiko zvinonakidza, kuseka
• iwe pachako unoziva shamwari dzake
• anoedza kuronga musangano kuitira kuti arege kukupira iwe, zvinodiwa nemhuri
• akabatanidzwa neshamwari nehukama hwebhizimisi
CHII CHINOFANIRA KUTANGA:
• nguva dzose uye nguva dzose misangano
• Misangano yakareba (maawa akawanda, kana kunyange vhiki dzose)
• Vakadzi, vasikana vanokurukurwa pamisangano
• Inzwi remisangano inotsamwiswa: kana kuseka, ipapo kutsamwa, kunyanya kusuruvara
• Anodzivisa kukuzivisa iwe kune shamwari dzake
• Kana iwe uchimukumbira kuti agare kumba, anorova mukova uye anosiya