Vose vakadzi vanorota norudo uye vanodiwa. Munhu wese anorota murume akanaka, akavimbika uye akangwara uyo acharamba ainaye uye waunogona kushandisa naye hupenyu hwako hwose. Uye zvakaitika, akanga ari munhu akadaro akaonekwa pakarepo. Mukadzi wacho pasina tariro uye nechido akawira murudo naye uye akatanga kuvaka zvirongwa zvakakura zvehupenyu huri pamwe naye. Asi kamwe-kamwe kwakazoitika kuti akanga akaroora. Uyezve - iye nevana. Uyezve mukadzi wacho ane hupenyu hwezuva rehupenyu hwemazuva ose, kutsvaga nguva dzose mumutambo uye kutsvaga mhinduro kumubvunzo wekuti ungakunda sei murume akaroora, asi usati wawana mhinduro kumubvunzo uyu unopisa, nguva dzose unofanirwa kuyeuka kuti vashoma chaizvo vanhu vanogona kuvaka mufaro pane kushungurudzika kwomumwe .
Murume akaroorwa haazi mutorwa here?
Uyu mubvunzo unobvunzwa nevakadzi vazhinji, avo vane hupenyu, zvisingaiti, nekuda kwechimwe chikonzero, vanobatana nemurume akaroora uyo waanoda kuparadza mhuri yake. Nenzira, kana madzimai eaya maziso akafanana aiziva, dzimwe nguva ishekadzi anonyunyuta pamusoro pekuti zvakaoma sei kuti vakunda murume akaroorwa. Kunyatsove kuchiri kuoma kumunyengetedza kuti abve mumhuri. Kuziva izvi zvose, vangave vakanyanyisa kunyaradza imba yavo. Chero zvaunotaura, uye uwane mwoyo wemudzimai, chaizvoizvo, mudzimai akanaka chete uye akachenjera anogona kuita. Uyezve kana murume wacho asina kugutsikana zvachose nemudzimai wake chaiye, kana asinganzwi kunyaradzwa, kufara, mufaro, kuva pamba pedo naye uye kwete kungoda chete, asi kurota kwokutanga hupenyu hutsva nemukadzi mutsva.
Neukama hwakanaka nemudzimai wake, zvinenge zvisingabviri kukunda mwoyo wemurume uye kumuita kuti abve mumhuri. Kunyange kana munhu anodikanwa akapiwa runako uye achikwezva murume ane zvepabonde zvakanyanya kupfuura mudzimai wake, mumwe haagoni kutaura ne 100 muzana chokwadi chokuti munhu achatora danho rakadaro sekuita sarudzo. Mushure mezvose, hupenyu hwake hwemhuri huri hunovakwa kwete zvepabonde chete. Kusungirirwa, kuremekedza mudzimai wake, kana pane vana uye zviyeuchidzo zvinonakidza zvekare, murume, semurairo, anonyanya kukwirira kudarika rudo rutsva. Vamiririri vehutano hwakasimba hwakasiyana nevakadzi mune kuti havararama nemanzwiro, asi vanovimba nemafungiro avo. Nokudaro zvinotevera kuti chinangwa chemurume akaroorwa ndechekuchengetedza hupenyu hwake.
Nzira yekutendeuka kubva kunakadzikadzi kuenda kumukadzi?
Ichi ndicho chimwe chezvinhu zvakanyanya kukurumidza zvemudiwa-mukadzi. Kunyaradza murume akaroorwa kusiya mhuri yake ibenzi, nokuti ari munzvimbo yakanaka - kune rumwe rutivi mhuri, kugadzikana, mudzimai wehupfumi, pane imwe - chinhu chiduku chiduku kune rumwe rutivi, ruzivo rwepabonde rutsva.
Sarudza pane danho rakadaro munhu anogona chete kana achiuya achiziva uye nekunzwisisa kuti hukama hwake hwekare hwakave hwakaneta uye kutarisira kune zvakanakisisa, hazvisi nyore kunzwisisa, uye hupenyu hune mudzimai huchava hwakanaka zvikuru.
Zvechokwadi, kukunda murume nemhuri haisi iyo nzira iri nyore yekubata kwake, asi kune mazano akawanda anogona kubatsira munyaya iyi yakaoma:
Murume anowedzera nguva yakawanda na tenzikadzi wake-zvinoratidza kuti mudzimai wake haamudi iye (iye wakaipa, benzi, haagutsikane naye mune zvepabonde, nezvimwewo).
Iyo nguva dzose inokosha kuti ive yakagadzirira nokuda kwekuti acharamba achinyunyuti pamusoro pehupenyu hwake nemudzimai wake nekukanganisa kwayo kose. Panguva ino, zviri nyore chaizvo kukunda mutoro wakaroorwa-zvakakosha kutora zvose zviri pasi pekutonga uye kuratidzira zvaunobatsira uye unhu hwakanaka, kuitira kuti atokwanisa kufunga nezvekuti anofanira kubva kumudzimai wake.
Murume uyu akapa tariro yehupenyu husingaperi. Panguva ino, unofanirwa kumutsigira kuti haufaniri kukwevera kurambana. Iwe unogona kuzvipa mhinduro kuti utaure nemudzimai wako.
Chinhu chikuru ndechokuzvivimba uye kuramba uchizvipira. Usanonoka nhoroondo yakadai kwemwedzi inopfuura 3. Kana panguva ino murume asingarambi uye akaramba zvikonzero zvose, hazvigone kuti achazviita munguva yemberi.
Uye pakupedzisira, kana murume akaroora ane mwana muduku, iye, achiremekedza uye ane mutoro, haazosiyi mudzimai wake. Kana vana vakatova vakuru, murume ane zvakakwana kuhupenyu hunofadza hwemhuri nemudzimai mutsva!