Dzorera pamurume akakusiya iwe?
Saka, tanga funga kuti nei akakusiya? Ndiani anokonzera izvi? Panogona kuva nezvikonzero zvakawanda zveizvi. Uye vamwe vavo ivo pachavo vari kukurudzira hurongwa hwekukanda marwadzo zvakanyanya, kutsiva pamurume uyu nokuda kwekukuvara kwakaitwa.
Ngatiti iwe wakaputsa nokuti wakamuvenga. Zvakanaka, zvakanaka, chirongwa chekuti mhandara inoshandura sei kuva Cinderella mushure meusiku husiku inozivikanwa kune vose.
Mushure mezvo, tinonyura zvishoma nezvidzitiro zvebvudzi uye shangu dzine shangu dzakasununguka, panzvimbo yejasi shoma rinouya mashizha - zvakanaka, uye chii? Chinhu chikuru chinokufananidza iwe, uye haaiti seasingatarisiri. Iwe hausati watenga zvipfeko zvakanaka zvepasi muzvitoro - mushure mezvose, iye atoona zvese zvako mazamu muhombodo yechic, uye zvipfeko zvakadai saiye kupfuura izvo zvavari kupfeka.
Ichi ndicho chakakonzera kuparadzana kwako? Zvadaro dzosiva kune waimbova mukomana nekuda kwekuti wakusiya iwe usina chiremera, zviri nyore! Tinofanira kutora zvakare: enda kumitambo yekutamba, tanga kudya zvakanaka, ita mutsva wekushongedza, dzokera kumashure nemapendero uye utange kutyaira varume varipo! Best of all - in front of the same same ex who cast you. Ichi chichava chirango chake chakanakisisa: regai azive pfuma ipi yaakarasika!
Nzira yekuzvitsivira payekare mukomana
Kana iwe uchida, iwe unogona kuderedza simba rawakamboita mukomana pamberi pevamwe shamwari dzake-nditende ini, vanokoshesa chaizvo izvi. Imwe nyanzvi yekunyengedza neunyanzvi pamusoro pechinhu chakakanganisika ndeyeiye akakukanda iwe, achakurumidza kuparadza mukurumbira wake, zvichida kunyange iye achafanira kutsungirira kushungurudzika kwakadaro sekufanana nekuda kwekubva kwake, apo hafu yevamwe vaanomuziva ichibva kwaari.
Asi izvi, kubvuma, haisi nzira yakatendeseka uye inofadza. Ichasangana chete nevasikana avo vanoda chaizvo kutsika mumatope ewaimbova mukomana. Kunyangwe zvakadaro, chikonzero chekuda kwakadaro hachisi pachena zvachose. Chero zvazviri, haana kureva nhema kwauri uye haana kuchinja, asi akatendeseka kubva, achiziva kuti hausi murume nemudzimai.
Zvinowanzoitika kuti mukomana akakukanda iwe, uye akauya kuzotendeuka uye kutaura nezvekuti angararama sei pasina iwe. Kana iwe ukasarudza kuti haugoni kudzorera kune chimwe chinhu - ipapo iwe unogona kutamba pairi, uye unoshandura zvinhu zvose muchitsiva chekutsiva. Uzviite semukanganwira uye umudzorere zvakare, uye udzose zvakanyanya utsinye kupfuura iwe. Asi iyo nzira haina kunyatsokodzera avo vasikana vanozofara kudzoka hukama hwepakutanga. Chinhu chikuru apa ndechokuti uve wakangwarira uye usadzoke zvakare kuva wakasiyiwa uye wakagumburwa.
Imwe yenzira dzine utsinye uye inorwadza yekudzorera iyo yaimbova mukomana ndiyo zvipingamupinyi zvose kumusangano wehukama hwake hutsva. Ichokwadi, sarudzo iyi inokudzivisa zvachose hupenyu hwehupenyu hwako, sezvo zvichatora nguva yakareba kwazvo kuti uone kufamba kweiyo yaimbova mukomana. Chinangwa chako ndechokudzivisa vamwe vasikana kubva kwaari. Nzira yekuita nayo - iwe unosarudza pamamiriro ezvinhu. Chinhu chikuru - fungiro rakapfuma.
Iwe unogona kuzvifananidza kuti iwe uri mudzimai wake, uye kumukandira dambudziko pakati pekasa, achishevedza shamwari yake itsva ichituka "madzimadzi!". Zvechokwadi haazoregi kushorwa kwakadaro uye achaenda, achisiya iwe woga kugadzirisa "matambudziko emhuri." Ichokwadi, iwe unofanirwa kuva wakagadzirira nokuda kwekuti mukomana anongotanga kutsamwa. Iko iwe unofanidza kuunganidza zvose zvido uchiita chibvumirano uye uende zvakanaka, nekunyemwerera kukunda pachiso chako, uchiita kuti vamwe vazive kuti iwe hausi mudzimai anonyengedzwa uyo anoda kunzwirwa ngoni, asi anowanzokunda!
Asi ndinoda kuramba ndichirayira kuti ndisatamba mitambo iyi. Sezvo pasina chirevo kwavari. Iwe haugoni kudzosa murume uyu, haungamurova zvakanyanya, uye iwe uchakurumidza kuneta nekurwa - uye iwe ucharamba uchingorasikirwa. Saka hazvisi nani here kurega kuenda kune yakapfuura, kuchibvisa uye kugadzirira hupenyu hutsva hunofadza, umo pasina nzvimbo yekutengesa nenhema?