Ndekupi kutarisa?
Pane zvakawanda zvingasarudzwa. Kana pakati pevamwe vaunozivana mumwe munhu atove akashandisa mazano epa nanny, ipapo anogona kurumbidza munhu uyo, mukufunga kwavo, akakunda zvakakwana nemabasa ake.
Ikozvino pane masangano mazhinji ari kushandiswa kwevashandi veimba. Sarudza sangano rakadaro raunoda kunyatsochenjerera - teerera kune iyo hofisi iripi, nguva yakareba sangano rinoshandisa sei, kusvikira patinoziva rudzi rwekuongororwa rune. Hazvifanirwi kuva nevakuru, asi "ofisi ye sharashka", iyo isina munhu anoziva chinhu uye yakazarura mwedzi wapfuura haisi yakanakisisa.
Vabereki vakawanda vanoshandisa mazano ehama. Kune rumwe rutivi, zvakanaka. Kazhinji kacho, kubhadhara hazvidiwi, kana kuti zvakanyanya kuderera kupfuura izvo zvakakumbirwa neannational nanny. Kune rumwe rutivi, hama dzinowanzozvibvumira kupfuura vanhu vanobva kunze. Semuenzaniso, maonero ako pakudya nekurera mwana haazombofungi nguva dzose, uye iwe unofanira kunge wakagadzirira. Zvichida nokuti mbuya kana vanamume vakamborera vana uye vanoziva zviri nani kuti chii. Iyi mamiriro ezvinhu zvinokodzera kure nezvose. Kune rumwe rutivi, nechisarudzo ichi, unogona kuva nechokwadi chokuti mwana wako anodiwa chaizvo uye haazosiyi asina kutarisirwa.
Kuti uite chisarudzo chakanaka, enzanisa zvose zvaunogona kuita, kurukurai chisarudzo chako nemurume wako nehama, uye ureve zvose zvinowedzera uye zvinotyisa.
Ndeipi nhamba yekusarudza?
Nannies dzakasiyana. Kune vana vaduku, vane makore avo haapfuuri gore, havafananidzi vana vaduku vaduku. Zviri nani kana mukadzi uyu atova nevana vake uye chiitiko chakakomba chekushanda pamwe nevamwe vana vezera rino. Dzidzo yezvechiremba ine basa guru pane pano kupfuura dzidzo yevanodzidzisa, sezvo vana vaduku vanoda rubatsiro rwakanaka, panzvimbo yekufambisa zvakakwana. Zvichida, zvichave zvakakosha kwauri kuti mwana adye zvakanaka, akarara zvakanaka, usarwara, uye iwe uchasiya kusimbiswa kwemitauro uye mimhanzi kwenguva yakareba.
Vana vepachikoro vepachikoro vanotoda nyanzvi vanogona kuzvigadzirira kuchikoro. Iwe uchaswedera kune munhu ane dzidzo uye ruzivo rwebasa mukerekeji kana muchikoro chepuraimari. Mwana uyu makore matatu nemakore matanhatu atofarira munyika yakapoteredza, akagadzirira kudzidza ruzivo rutsva iyo nanny yakadaro inomupa.
Nokuti vana vezera rechikoro vanoda nanny - mudzidzisi kana, kana mwana ari kurwara zvakanaka nekudzidza kwake, munhu akanaka ane ruzivo. Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuti mwana anotora chikoro chechikoro, kwete kusuruvara uye kwete kuipa, achidya zvakanaka uye ari mumhepo itsva. Mumabasa eannyini yakadaro kazhinji inosanganisira kutarisa chikoro chekuchikoro, kufambidzana nemwana ari mumativi uye zvikamu, sangano rekuzorora.
Vana vakwegura kazhinji havakwanisi. Kana iwe usingafungi kusiya mwana wako oga kwezuva rose, tsvaga munhu anenge akwegura kupfuura mwana wako, uyo ane simba richave rakakosha kuitira kuti wechidiki anoteerere nanny, uye haanomuoni semucheche unogona kutenderedzwa pamusana pachake.
Zvichida, imwe yenguva dzinokosha ndeyokuti nanny yawana mutauro unozivikanwa zvikuru nemwana. Handiwanikwi dzidzo yepamusoro uye ruzivo rwebasa rakasimba hazvizobatsiri kana mwana asina kufarira nanny, kana iwe usingakwanise kugadzirisa. Mwana wacho, zvichida, achagadzirwa zvakanaka uye akadzidziswa, asi haazofari nemurume asingadi kana kutya. Saka, cherechedza kwete kwete chete manzwiro ako, asiwo manzwiro omwana.
Kudzora.
Mukoti anoda kutarisirwa. Nokudaro iwe uchanzwa wakanyarara, chero zvakadaro, izvi zvinokosha kusvikira chivimbo chako chakakosha zvikuru. Iwe unogona kupedza mazuva ekutanga pamwe chete nemwana mutsva kuti uonekwe kuti unoitei uye sei iwe uri kuita sei panguva ino kana panguva iyoyo yezuva.
Iva nechokwadi chekushevedzera nemanaini mukati mezuva, ivai nehanya nezvinoitika musipo. Dzimwe nguva unodzoka kumba nguva yaunotarisirwa. Saka iwe unogona kuona kana zvakanyatsofanana nemana anokuudza. Vamwe vabereki vanoisa makamera akavanzwa muzvivako zvakanyanyisa kuchengetedza nanny iri kutungamirirwa. Ichi ndicho chikonzero chakanaka kana iwe usingavimbi munhu kana iwe unetseka pamusoro pomwana kana mwana achiri muduku kuti akuudze pamusoro pezvinoitika kwaari kana iwe usipo. Kuisa kana kusaisa mukoti muchiratidzo chekuvapo kwechigadzirwa chakadaro mumba - zviri kwauri.
Kusarudza nanny, usatarisa zvakakosha, mufananidzo waMary Poppins. Munhu mutorwa achava nekutadza kwake, mumwe munhu, mumwe munhu akaderera. Mhuri dzakawanda dzinosiya mabasa avo kusvikira mwana akura, nokuti haagoni kuwana munhu anogona kuvimbwa nemwana wavo. Kana iwe uri wevabereki vakadaro, usazvipa mhosva iwe pachako, ingofarira nguva yakashandiswa nemwana, nokuti ichabhururuka nokukurumidza.